"Married male colleagues have been paying attention to me lately, not only have they had more contact with me in the company, but they also often message me and chat with me privately. He was very funny in front of me, and we had a lot of the same opinions, which made me feel very relaxed in contact with him. Although he often talked to me, he was also very measured and did not do anything to bother me, so I did not feel any burden to contact him at first, but I felt that I had made good friends. But it was all shattered the moment he confessed to me, he said he liked me, he felt that I understood him well, and that the souls of the two of us were compatible. I was troubled because on the one hand he was right, we were on good terms, but on the other hand I couldn't make a relationship with a man with a family. ”
What should I do if I am liked by a married man? Don't hesitate and don't dwell on it, reject him.
Don't touch a married man, he's a woman for the rest of her life, not your man don't linger on affection. Married men are never a good choice, and girls should have a good home.
Under what circumstances would a man flirt with a woman other than his partner as a married person? Either there is no love in marriage, and you are eager to find true love outside of marriage and start a second spring; Either they like excitement and like the feeling of going to the women around them.
There will be a lot of troubles in dating a married man, and the most important thing is that this love is congenitally deformed. The product of immorality will be spurned by all, and you will always have his family and his wife between you and him, and you will never be able to enjoy love freely and without burden. Does he really love you? Or is it just for fun? Will he stay with you after the divorce, or will he just develop this shady relationship with you? Love is not just words, love is concrete, it is to fall on all kinds of needs in real life, can a married man really give it to you?
If you are really with him, there is only so much he can give. A marriage involves too much, two families and each other's responsibilities, social status, reputation, etc., he can't be as free as when he is single, so the love you give you has no responsibility and no security. Even if you have overcome all difficulties to get married, the sense of trust and security between you is gone. When your love and identity are developed from a relationship that does not see the light of day, will you still feel secure? Human nature is unpredictable, this married man can be in the last marriage, who can ensure that he will not cheat again in this and the next marriage.