In life, when it is good and sometimes it is bad, when it is good, don't be complacent, and when it is bad, don't be discouraged. Life really doesn't go well, and sometimes unexpected problems arise. However, we must learn to face them bravely and not back down. Let's go through the hardships and obstacles of every journey together, and harvest more joy and growth. When things are going well, we must learn to respect others and not despise others; When adversity comes, we need to take care of ourselves and not allow ourselves to become helpless. Because only when we know how to care for others and ourselves can we achieve a better life. In good times, we should be kind to others, be kind to others, and have more care and help; In the face of adversity, we need to be kind to ourselves and give ourselves warmth and support. When two people are alone, they should care for each other and be considerate of each other, and when they are alone, they should take good care of themselves. No matter who you are, you must know how to be kind to others and treat yourself well, so that you can get out of your own small circle, feel more beautiful and warm, and make life more and more wonderful and lovely. 
Being kind to others in good times is a kind of cultivation, but also a realm, which can win the blessings of others In real life, we can often encounter such a scene: some people bend their knees and bow their heads in difficult moments, and once they succeed, they become arrogant. This state of bending the knees and bowing the head is unbearable, and the swaggering of the toes makes people feel hateful. We should constantly remind ourselves that we must maintain our inner firmness and humility at all times, and never forget our original intention, so that we can better overcome obstacles on the road to success and win the respect and trust of others. Life is like impermanent flowing water, which has experienced a thousand days of goodness, but has also witnessed a hundred days of withering. Thirty years have passed, even if you have galloped in Hedong and Hexi, you don't need to look down on others, let alone feel inferior. In any glorious moment, one should not take others lightly. Because you have been down in the past, you may still face a trough in the future. Let us cherish every moment with a grateful heart, encourage others, and walk through the long journey of life together. 
Being kind to others in good times is a kind of cultivation, and it is also a realm. When you succeed, you still maintain a normal heart, be approachable, look at others without colored eyes, and you also help those in need, you will definitely be able to win the respect and recognition of others. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. We can not only accumulate good popularity, but also get the blessings of others, which is to accumulate blessings for ourselves. If we live well and treat others well, others will also bless us and wish us better. But if we look down on others, they will speak ill of us behind our backs and even curse us. In this way, we can only hurt ourselves and keep ourselves away from happiness and joy. Therefore, no matter what kind of people and things we encounter, we should treat them with a kind and tolerant attitude, and leave a positive and warm imprint in everyone's heart. Only by being kind to others can we receive the sincere blessings of more people, and this is also because we have accumulated infinite blessings. 
Be kind to yourself in adversity, in order to get out of the predicament faster, win yourself, win the road of life, when you are proud, you must enjoy yourself; When you are frustrated, be kind to yourself. We should understand that in this world, no one is obligated to be nice to us, but we have a responsibility to be good to ourselves. Especially in the most difficult times, we must know how to care for ourselves, because there are not many people who really care about us. If we can't treat ourselves well, it's too hard! Therefore, let's treat ourselves well, continue to give ourselves positive energy and strength, and make ourselves stronger and more confident, so that we can walk more steadily on the road of life and harvest more beautiful things. We all stumbled to the present, and no one has it easy. In the process, we will meet many people who look down on us and laugh at us. However, we must not allow ourselves to look down on ourselves, let alone be afraid of ridicule from others. After all, life is your own. We need to learn not to care about other people's opinions, not to care about other people's ridicule, and to know how to be kind to ourselves. Life is not easy, but we can maintain courage and self-confidence and tell ourselves, "I'm really amazing, I can face all challenges." "No matter how bumpy the road ahead is, as long as we have confidence in our hearts, we can persevere. After going through all kinds of difficulties and tribulations, we will find that we are also amazing. 
In the face of adversity, be kind to yourself in order to get out of the predicament faster and see the light. Only by truly living oneself can one achieve true victory. Making life better is the real winner. Let's start today and learn to face setbacks better, keep improving, and create a better life. Life isn't just about smiling when you're frustrated, it's about smiling when you're frustrated. This perseverance and intrigibility is necessary for us on the journey of life. Being kind to yourself in good times is a kind of optimism, it is a positive attitude towards life, people with this attitude are strong people in life, and we all have to become such strong people. 
Whether it's good times or bad, you need to keep a normal mindset. In good times, be kind to others and not be arrogant; In times of adversity, be kind to yourself and believe in yourself. Don't be fooled by momentary successes or setbacks, and face life with a normal heart. When it comes to success, stay humble; When you fail, face challenges bravely. Only in this way can we harvest the true flavor of life and make our hearts broader. To be gentle with others is to be kind to oneself; Only by being good at self-love can we better embrace life. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!