In ancient China,FamilyEthical relationships are very important, and the concept of "five services" has been widely discussed and applied. Many people believe that once the range of "five suits" is exceeded, even ifBlood relationshipIt is no longer considered a relative. So, what are the five relationships referred to by the "five suits"?This article will elaborate on the connotation of "five suits" and ** its ancient timesMarriageview of the role.
Ancient ChineseFamilyThe concept of ethics is mainly embodied in the concept of "five ethics and five constants". Among them, the "Five Virtues" include the relationship between the monarch and the minister, the father and the son, the husband and wife, the brothers and the friends, while the "Five Constants" refer to the five virtues of benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith. This ethic requires each member to abide by his or her own role and responsibilities and to be consistent with othersFamilyThe members live in harmony.
InModern society, people are traditionalFamilyEthics is understood and practiced differently. Modern people pay more attention to the value and freedom of the individual, and no longer rely entirely on parents and authority figures. People are processingRelationshipspay more attention to the principles of equality and reciprocity, rather than simply acting according to traditional hierarchies.
The concept of "five suits" originated in the ancient era of kingship, and the understanding of the feudal management of princes and the inheritance of clan blood. Originally, "five suits" referred to:Wang Ji"Dianfu" within 500 miles andWang JiThe "nine suits" on the periphery, this hierarchy reflects the timeSocialThe hierarchy is strict.
With the changes of the times, the "five suits" gradually evolved into a standard for measuring kinship. According to theThe Book of Rites: Under the Tan Bow"Wufu" refers to the five generations of great-grandfather, great-grandfather, grandfather, father and himself. This standard has become the basis for judging kinship, especially in funerals and sacrifices.
InBlood relationshipIn terms of aspects, people divide the relationship between relatives and relatives through the "five suits". According to the weight of the mourning clothes, the relationship between relatives and relatives is distinguished, and the decay is the heaviest mourning dress, which is composed of the spouse, children, brothers, etc. of the deceasedImmediate family membersWearing, Qi decay byBlood relationshipDistant relatives wear it, and the big and small gongs are mostly worn by non-relatives and friends, and the hemp is the lightest and simplest mourning dress worn by friends when they come to mourn. This division has become the saying of "judging the proximity and looking at the five clothes".
InModern societyThe concept of "five suits" is still widely used to judge kinship andSocialInteraction. 3. The ancient "five suits" are inMarriageview of the role.
In ancient China,MarriageConcept andFamilyEthics are inextricably linked. MarriageIt's not just between two people, it's about twoFamilyrelationship. In this context, the "five suits" are inMarriageplayed an important role.
InMarriageMedium, twoFamilyThe kinship is very important. Through the "five suits", both sides can get to know each otherFamilyof kinship, judging whether they are suitable for each other or not. both sidesFamilyThe closer the kinship corresponding to the "five suits,MarriageThe greater the chances of success. On the contrary, if both sidesFamilyIf the "five suits" do not correspond, you may encounter various difficulties and contradictions.
In addition, it is measured by the "five suits".MarriageWhether it is suitable or not is also reflectedAncient societiesEmphasis on family interests and clan inheritance. In ancient China, the continuation of the family was crucialMarriageThe choice needs to take into account the interests and inheritance of the family. Through the "five suits", you can learn about each otherBlood relationship, so as to judge whether it is in line with the interests and inheritance of the family.
In short, the ancient concept of "five suits" is in ChinaFamilyEthics andMarriageThe view played an important role. It is not only the basis for judging kinship, but also the measurementMarriageCriteria for suitability. However, withSocialThe changes and changes in people's values, the understanding and application of the "five services" are also evolving. Modern society, people pay more attention to individual choices and well-beingMarriageRelationships are also more focused on individual affection and the principle of reciprocity. Therefore, the understanding and application of the "five services" also need to keep pace with the times and conform to modern timesFamilyEthics andMarriageview of the needs.