In the journey of life, every woman should realize that living better and better does not mean meeting the expectations of others, but living for herself.
When a relationship or friendship cannot continue, you have the right to stop the loss and cut off contact.
Everyone should treat the promises of others with reason and truth-seeking, so that you can always maintain your indestructible courage.
Remember, a woman who is constantly improving is not necessarily the guardian of others, but she must be the guardian saint of herself.
No matter how the roles of life rotate and change, we must be determined to be ourselves, heal the child in our hearts, become a woman under the sun, and let life be full of light and heat.
There is a common misconception that you expect others to heal your inner pain, but in fact, the only thing in the world that can heal you is yourself.
The experiences of life and the scars suffered need to be truly faced, not avoided.
For example, if you always meet someone who hurts you and feels unloved, then you need to face this neglected emotion.
You always encounter people who violate your boundaries, so you have to face this helplessness.
If you're always in conflict with others and make yourself angry, you need to face that anger.
Yes, you need to live with these negative emotions, not to escape or judge.
When these emotions are liberated in you, they will dissipate, they will no longer haunt you, they will no longer be the shackles that bind you.
As you confront and accept these negative emotions, they will gradually leave and your world will no longer have the same script.
When the inner child is healed, the world will be quiet.
If you want to live better and better, you need to start from the inside and clean up your negative emotions, everyone has their own dark side, which may stem from the original family, relationships or social torture.
However, we need to be honest about our dark side, dare to admit our imperfections, and bring the dark parts out of the depths of the subconscious and expose them to the light.
In this way, the dark side will be transformed into love, which will fill our hearts with love and tolerance.
Therefore, our dark side cannot be banished, only illuminated.
It is only when you heal the dark side within you that you can truly take control of your emotions and your face will naturally reveal your inner state.
Of course, external habits are also important.
In addition to taking care of the inner child, we also need to improve our appearance, be full of energy, and show high-speed energy.
A woman who is getting better and better is not in what kind of man she finds, but in herself.
Because she smiles every day, exercises every day, knows how to refuse useless socializing, and is constantly improving herself.
She takes care of her skin every day and is financially independent.
Such a woman has a sobriety that is different from ordinary people, with clear eyes and a heart as clear as a mirror, does not ask for others, only pays attention to her own growth, and rarely understands her inner world, because she has experienced things that others have not experienced, and it is her attitude to life that she sees through and does not say it.
What she needs is someone who truly understands her and appreciates her inner wisdom, who will stand firmly by her side and will continue to improve with her no matter how the environment changes.
But she knows that only she can truly appreciate herself, understand herself, love herself, and make her life better and better.
Love is like a rose, when you're ready, it comes as expected.
It's not about your age or appearance, it's about the people you meet.
Because he will tolerate your shortcomings, because everyone is looking for the feeling of being loved, so even if you are young, beautiful, and capable, there will be times when you feel unloved, unloved, or even betrayed.
True love is not based on your family background, work, money, car or house, but on whether you have a kind heart, whether you have the strength to be happy, whether you have the wisdom to deal with the difficulties in front of you, and whether you have the ability to resist pressure.
Every woman who is getting better and better knows how to love herself very well.
Only when you are full of love, will there be love around you.
May you and I live in the moment, revere nature, respect cause and effect, and do more good deeds.