I once read an article written by Liang Jizhang, a well-known host of Radio Television Hong Kong, to his son, and I think this letter is very meaningful, full of philosophy of life and expectations for his son.
Dear Son:
I am writing to you today because I have three reasons:
First, life is like a gamble, you never know when you're going to lose it all, so it's better to say some things sooner.
Second, I'm your father, I don't tell you, and you won't listen to others, so you can only listen to me.
Third, the content of this letter is a lesson of blood and tears that I have suffered a lot, and if you can remember it, you can avoid many detours.
Here's what you'll keep in mind for the rest of your life:
First, people who treat you badly, you just treat them as farts and don't care too much. In your life, except for me and your mother, no one is obliged to be good to you, if you meet someone who is good to you, you have to be grateful to Dade, don't forget to reciprocate.
Second, there is no irreplaceable person in this world, and nothing must be had. If you see through this, even if you lose the people and things you love the most one day, you won't feel like the sky is falling, you will only feel that this is the normal state of life.
Third, life is like a candle that is burning today and may be extinguished tomorrow. Therefore, you should cherish life as soon as possible and enjoy it more. Don't keep thinking about living a long life, it's useless.
Fourth, love is a feeling, and this feeling changes with time and mood. If your beloved one leaves you, don't be too sad, you have to be patient, let time dilute your pain, let the heart settle your feelings, and your wounds will slowly heal. Don't think about love too beautifully, and don't think about falling out of love too miserable.
2024 Book of Answers Fifth, although some successful people have little education, that doesn't mean that you can be successful without studying. What you learn is your **. You can rely on your own efforts to start from scratch, but you can't just rely on the sky to eat without ability, that's impossible.
Sixth, I will not ask you to support me for the rest of my life, and in the same way, I will not support you for the rest of my life. When you're old enough to stand on your own feet, I've done my job. In the future, whether you take the bus or drive a luxury car, whether you eat a big meal or eat instant noodles, it will depend on you.
Seventh, you can demand honesty from yourself, but you can't ask others to be honest as well; You can expect to be kind to yourself, but you can't expect others to be kind too; What you do to people doesn't mean they will do to you, and if you don't understand this, you'll only get yourself in trouble.
Eighth, I have bought a lottery ticket for 26 years, and I am still poor and white, and I have not even won a consolation prize, which shows that if people want to get rich, they still have to rely on their own efforts, and there is no free lunch in the world.
Ninth, relatives only have one fate, no matter how long we can be together in this life, you have to cherish our time, in the next life, whether we can still recognize each other or not, we will never see each other again.
This letter is not just for you, it's for everyone! It contains my perception of life and my love for you!