When the aunt got married, the grandmother said: The girl who got married spilled the water.
When my aunt came home for the Chinese New Year, my grandmother always told her to go back to her husband's house early.
Even if my aunt stayed for a few days, my grandmother would quietly pull me and askDid your aunt give you money for dinner?
But no one knows how deep grandma's love for her aunt is.
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After graduating from college, my dad didn't have a bride price to marry my mom, but my aunt decided to marry herself to a second-married man, and then use her bride price to help my dad.
My dad didn't agree with my aunt's idea, he would rather fight a bachelor for the rest of his life.
Sister, you've done enough for us, I don't have to get married, I definitely don't agree with your approach! ”
In my father's eyes, when he was young, his aunt supported him and his uncle alone, and now he has to sacrifice his aunt's happiness for him to get married, then he is too much of a bastard.
Silly boy, what happened to the second marriage? Don't look down on second marriage! ”
My aunt patted my dad on the head and said that she was a good person to marry.
It turned out that the aunt had not yet married when she was old, and her grandmother was already in a hurry, so she was afraid that she would really delay the aunt, so she privately asked the matchmaker to help pay attention.
I can't say if it's fate, but the matchmaker really met one, and this person is my future uncle.
My uncle had been in the army at the time, and his family conditions were good, and he had a wife who died of illness and didn't have time to give him a child.
I got married for the second time but didn't have children, I still worked in the army, and I discussed it with my aunt, because of the second marriage, he gave a dowry but didn't need my aunt to pay a dowry.
Before my dad got married, my aunt met with my uncle, and both of them were quite satisfied.
The eldest aunt is also straightforward, and she told her that her family has a younger brother and debts, and told her uncle that it will be successful, and it will be okay if it doesn't work.
My uncle didn't have any ideas, but he just thought that my aunt had a good personality, and the two of them should get along, and the money was not a big deal.
So that year, my aunt married my uncle in a low-key manner, and the two of them only invited the two families to simply put on a small ceremony, and my grandmother watched my uncle in military uniform holding my aunt's hand, and it was rare that she did not sigh.
Soon after my aunt got married, she went to my grandmother's house to give the bride price, and this is how my father successfully married my mother home.
The little uncle is also very competitive, although he was not admitted to college and went to a junior college, he doesn't need his aunt to pay for it, but earns his own tuition.
Dad often said later that he went to college but was not as good as his aunt and a woman, she stood up the whole family by herself, and others couldn't support it at all.
My aunt got pregnant and gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses in the first year of marriage, and she happily closed her mouth to my grandmother, and even took my parents and uncle to visit my aunt with eggs.
You all have to treat your eldest sister as your own mother, without your eldest sister, I can't provide for your life alone. ”
My grandmother repeatedly told my parents and uncle that they must treat my aunt well.
My dad actually knows that if it weren't for my aunt, my grandmother would be able to ensure that they grow up by pulling them alone, but definitely don't want to go to college and marry such a good daughter-in-law.
Later, when I was born, my mother deliberately asked ** to hold me to my aunt first.
There is a saying in the countryside that whoever holds the newborn child first will be closest to whomever he wants, and what is even more coincidental is that as soon as my aunt hugged me, I stopped crying, and the whole family felt that this was a good sign.
As my cousin and cousin and I grew up, my little uncle chose to upgrade to a bachelor's degree and then go to graduate school, he was never in a hurry to find a partner, and his family did not urge him.
Life passed peacefully for a few years.
My aunt lives with my in-laws, and my uncle is in the army all year round, and he only goes home to see him when he is on vacation, so we don't see much.
My grandmother lives with me and my parents, and my mother also has a very good personality and never blushes with my grandmother.
Every morning, my grandmother would get up to make breakfast and eat with my parents and me.
Her parents also persuaded her not to get up so early, but her grandmother insisted on doing something, and although she was old, she always wanted to do something for the family.
Later, her parents couldn't persuade her to just go with her, and the old man was most afraid of nothing to pass the time.
But no matter what, grandma can't bear the wear and tear of the years, and her health is getting worse and worse.
When my aunt and my mother were both pregnant with their second child, my grandmother fell while going out, and our family hurried over when it was freezing and snowy until the kind people sent my grandmother to the hospital.
Fortunately, my grandmother didn't break her bones, but she had a little cracked bones, but she had to recuperate and not move anymore.
But my grandmother's spirit was getting worse day by day, and on the advice of the doctor, she was hospitalized for a while.
At that time, my father was working in the field, and my uncle was also studying in the field, and my mother's second child was seriously happy, and she vomited for several days in a row, and she would vomit when she smelled any peculiar smell, and no one could take care of her grandmother, so she could only take care of her aunt.
In the past few days of my grandmother's hospitalization, I relied on my aunt's support, and my father's savings were all invested at that time, and even the hospitalization fee was paid in advance by my aunt.
I went to visit my grandmother with my mother on the weekend, and I heard ** praise my aunt, saying that she took care of her well and communicated better than other family members.
My mother was pregnant and knew that my aunt was working hard, so she specially asked my grandmother to stew two servings of chicken soup, one for my grandmother and one for my aunt.
My aunt asked my mother with concern how she was pregnant and if she was uncomfortable, and told her to take care of herself.
My family is indeed different from others, there is no intrigue in our family, but my aunt alone takes care of our whole family in harmony.
Later, my grandmother was discharged from the hospital, but her spirit was not very good, and the doctor said that this is a normal sign of old age, so we don't have to worry too much.
But until I gave birth, my aunt kept coming to my house every week to see my grandmother, and even took my grandmother out for a walk.
My dad was very reluctant to go, so he changed his way to buy things for my aunt's children, but my aunt always sent them back.
Listen to the eldest sister, my family is not short of these things, your brother-in-law's money is all sent home, and we don't have anything to spend, just don't let my younger siblings suffer. ”
On the contrary, my aunt often sent things to my house, rice, noodles, oil, and even clothes that my grandmother could wear.
In my aunt's opinion, my family and my uncle's family are difficult now, she can help if she can, she has never ignored her grandmother's idea of pension because she got married.
The aunt's in-laws are very good-tempered, and they rarely use the aunt to serve, and even later, when the grandmother was seriously ill, they let the aunt return to the grandmother's house in the Chinese New Year's Eve.
My grandmother was not in good spirits at that time, but she was still stunned for a moment when she saw my aunt come home, and then beckoned me over and asked me what day it was.
I told her that it was the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and my aunt came back to accompany her for the New Year, and my grandmother's eyes suddenly moistened.
In the evening, our family had dinner early, and it was all delicious cooked by my father and uncle, but my grandmother kept asking my aunt when she would go back to her husband's house?
The aunt smiled and told her that she would not go back this year, but her grandmother kept persuading her to go back early.
Later, after eating, everyone cleaned up the table and waited for the firecrackers to be set off in the middle of the night, and they all got together to watch TV and chat, only grandma seemed to be a little anxious all the time.
Later, when I went to the living room, she quietly dragged me aside.
Did your aunt give you money for dinner? ”
I listened to my grandmother's question and felt a little strange: "Does my aunt have to pay for dinner when she comes back?" ”
Grandma asked me again as if she didn't understand: "Did your aunt give me any money when she came back for dinner?" ”
I was about to speak, my mother didn't know when she came out, she helped my grandmother to another room, told my grandmother that the aunt came back and didn't give money, and when the aunt came home, she would give more money to the aunt's children.
Yes, yes. Grandma fumbled in her pocket, took out a small cloth bag, and handed it to my mother.
To Dani, to her. ”
My mother coaxed my grandmother for a long time, and she agreed to sit and chat with the family first, and as for the money, my mother would give it to my aunt herself.
I didn't understand it until my mom explained it, and I didn't know.
Every time my aunt comes back, we will make good food, but she is afraid that we will secretly give money to my grandmother every time we come back before we break the bank, and give more than we eat.
When I didn't have money before, my aunt did this, and then I got used to it every year, even if my family's conditions were good, she had to give money.
My mother said that my aunt felt that she was an outsider, and she was afraid that her brother and daughter-in-law would feel uncomfortable, and she was also afraid that we would not have a good time.
Later, when I grew up, I understood my grandmother's persistence, when my aunt was a child, she felt that my aunt was "spilled water" like my grandfather, but I didn't expect that my aunt was the pillar of the whole family.
She felt guilty about her young aunt, and she was also upset that she didn't give her aunt a good life as a mother.
Later, my grandmother passed away, our family was still very happy, and my aunt's life was getting better and better, she was a good person, and she deserved better.
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