Dear friends, love is a thing, sometimes it will cool down as soon as the heat passes, which is very different from the kind of indifference that deliberately hurts others! Even if you give the other person some time to calm down and think about it, their reaction won't last long, mainly because they can't stand to be disconnected from you.
So, if you want to know if someone really likes you, you don't have to listen to what they say, try to ignore them for a while, and you will understand!
First of all, those who are deeply in love with you can be very anxious! If you don't feel for someone who doesn't care about you or doesn't care at all, they're going to be calm.
When you want to try to ignore someone for a while, the person who really cares about you will definitely feel nervous and scared; On the other hand, those who don't have any feelings for you will seem like they're fine. The guy who has always loved you deeply will definitely be sensitive to your every little action, and he is especially worried about whether you are happy, whether you need help, or what expectations you have from him. Such a person can't wait to do his best to make you feel extremely happy and satisfied because of him, and he will definitely smile brighter than anyone else when he sees your smiling face. However, if someone doesn't have that much affection for you and doesn't care about you at all, then even if you deliberately ignore them, they won't feel so confused, but will feel more relaxed and casual. They don't care about your feelings and needs, they don't take the initiative to care about your life, they don't care about your troubles, and they don't even turn a blind eye to your departure. This distinction is obviously a reflection of how deep their feelings are for you, and I hope you can see it and don't lie to yourself.
February** Dynamic Incentive Plan The second point is that those who treat you with affection and friendship will keep asking questions! On the other hand, the person who doesn't feel anything about you will choose to turn a blind eye.
In the same way, when you are going to try to ignore someone, the person who really has feelings for you will be very concerned about your current situation, concerned about your troubles, and share your happiness with you. In the face of your perfunctory or evasive, they will take the initiative to continue to communicate with you, listen to your heart, try their best to understand your inner world, and try to find ways to establish a deeper relationship with you. However, if someone doesn't love you, they will subconsciously avoid having such a conversation with you. They may avoid your questions, be reluctant to share their daily lives and moods with you, ignore your concerns, and even show no nostalgia for your departure. And if you deliberately ignore them, they will feel more relieved that they don't have to go to the trouble of avoiding you, and they don't have to rack their brains to find an excuse to avoid you. This kind of evasive behavior undoubtedly shows that their feelings for you are actually quite weak, and even they have no love in their hearts.
Thirdly, those who truly love you will be there for you no matter what happens! Whether it's friendship or love, they will take care of you and accompany you through every important moment of your life. When you need someone to care for and support, they will always be there for you to provide you with the most powerful support and encouragement. Such a person is always willing to spend a lot of time communicating with you, listening carefully to your heart, trying to understand your inner world, and actively establishing a deep connection with you. However, those who don't really love you often choose to leave. They are only interested in their own pleasure and are not willing to spend time with you. They may even ignore your invitations or make excuses to avoid contact with you. This evasive attitude exposes that they don't really care about you in their hearts, but just find excuses to pass the time.
When you try to ignore someone, their reaction can actually reveal his or her true emotional attitude towards you. Those who genuinely like you will start to feel a little uneasy, and will take the initiative to care about your current situation and want to spend quiet time with you.
As for those who are indifferent or indifferent to you, they may not be affected at all, and may even find various reasons to avoid communicating with you or accompanying you. It is precisely because of this difference that it is easier for us to see whether the feelings between each other are deep or shallow.
Whatever the final outcome is, I'm sure you've got the bottom of it deep down. Therefore, the most important thing we should do is not always think about how to recover, but rather spend more time focusing on self-growth, grasp every moment of the present, and lay a solid foundation for the future.