One mom and two extremes! My brother is a graduate student, my sister has a total score of 66 in junior high school, and netizens are playing with the trumpet!
As the saying goes: a dragon gives birth to nine sons, all of which are different. I'm afraid that many parents have recognized this, and it is obvious that their children, regardless of their IQ and personality, are very different, even extreme.
No, the graduate student's older brother almost broke down when he saw his sister's grades in high school.
We all know that with the sheer volume of exams nowadays, being able to pursue a degree means that you stand out from thousands of people and open up a whole new path in life. stood out from the sea of books and was eliminated. But seeing the results of this graduate student, everyone's eyes lit up.
Sichuan Observation*** The reason why this sister held a parent-teacher conference is because her parents are working in other places, her grandmother usually has to leave, and her younger brother, who is now in college, has just left home.
But as soon as he got his sister's report card, the graduate student brother couldn't wait to bury himself in the ground. He has studied for so many years, but he has never achieved such a grade, and he has never been reprimanded by his teacher.
My sister's subject grade is 6668 points, 66 points for the midterm exam and 113 points for the final exam5 points, almost twice as much as her. You have to realize that this is not a grade, but an 8, and the average score for the midterm exam is just over 8. Honestly, even if I pick C with my eyes closed, this score should be higher.
Strangely, the younger brother The Low asked his sister if there were many multiple-choice questions in English? The answer she got was yes, plus the answer was really straightforward.
In fact, it is normal for students to be biased in their studies, and no one can guarantee that they will be able to achieve excellent results in all subjects. Just as there are very few students who do not excel in all subjects, so there are very few students who excel in all subjects. Unless he doesn't want to learn and wants to deal with things.
Let's see, the girl is already a junior high school student. This kind of achievement basically belongs to the type of non-learning and non-skill, not listening to lectures in class, and spending most of the time playing and sleeping. For the teacher, at first he really wanted to manage, but then he found that these children can do whatever they want, it is useless, under normal circumstances, they must have communicated with parents, but we see that the parent-teacher meetings held by girls are generally held by grandmothers, and parents must have no time to manage, in many cases, the elderly really can't manage their children's learning, and most of them are left to it. This is also the reason why many left-behind children do not do well.
Author's opinion:
Of course, generally speaking, the level of grades, whether parents worry about or not is related to age, if parents have the energy, it is best to go to college to help worry about learning. If you don't have enough time and energy, for example, in primary school, if your grades are above average, parents don't have to worry too much; For high school students, if their grades are ranked at the bottom, they will not be able to go to a good middle school, they will basically have no chance with college, and they will not be able to teach even the high school entrance examination. And for middle schools, for parents, I can only say that there is nothing I can do.
Personally, I think it's better for the family to let my sister learn a craft to earn a living as early as possible. She may not even be able to get into high school, let alone take the college entrance exam. Instead of rushing into society, it is better to learn other skills as soon as possible.