In 1994, Clinton's mother died, and he had tears in his eyes at church
In 1994, he traveled to Moscow when Virginia Clinton, the mother of the former ** Clinton in the United States, died a week earlier.
At that time, in the newly opened church on Red Square, he silently lit a candle and said to the people around him:"This is for Mom"。
At this point, Clinton's eyes welled up with tears, and almost everyone saw a son in deep pain, who longed for more than just the loss of his mother.
In fact, Clinton was deeply influenced by her mother all her life, and her character and behavior bear the shadow of her mother.
In"Zipper"At the time of the incident, there were specialized psychologists in the United States who conducted a professional analysis of Clinton.
America** (Clinton) is a person who takes risks under the stimulus of danger, a hypocrite who does whatever he wants, and an insecure person who needs to rely on sexual self-affirmation and encouragement"。
Why is that? Some believe that this has nothing to do with Clinton's mother, Virginia.
How deeply childhood affects a person, perhaps from it"A good childhood is the secret ingredient to everything"Find the answer in this sentence.
Truth be told, Virginia isn't a good mother, but she is certainly a woman with enough character, courage, and ambition. What's more, she knows that if she wants to get something, she has to pay enough, and the only way is to stay the course until she gets what she wants.
When you don't have faith, you have to pretend you have faith....Then it is possible for you to gain faith"。
This is Virginia, who grew up telling her son to act like he's in control of whatever happens.
If a good mother is worth a hundred teachers, then the same is true of Virginia, who, although not a good mother herself, raised her son Clinton with her own hands, so Clinton surpassed her in action.
What kind of person is Virginia? A man who never misses a chance :"If there's a slot at hand, she can't wait to pull the rod"。
What's more, Virginia is an extremely ** woman, and whenever she gets close to a man who knows how to flirt, she can't help but wink at him.
It's not that Virginia didn't do it well, but she prematurely gave up those opportunities in an attempt to turn a new page for her son, who is said to have taken him to *** when Clinton was very young
Hillary once said of her mother-in-law:
Kelly (Virginia) hurt her own son in unimaginable ways, and I won't go into details, but I want to emphasize that childhood abuse can leave a mark on children"。
Whether it's true or not, no one knows, but Virginia lost her husband at the age of 23 and already had Clinton in her womb, and it was not easy to include Clinton in her life:
I'm six months pregnant, and the thought of the baby in my belly gives me the courage to move forward and let the whole world unfold before my eyes"。
This may be what Clinton was taught at the beginning of his life: to be hopeful about everything, and never give up even when it is difficult. Because her mom told her:"Never stop learning, never talking'I can't'"。
Of course, no matter how strong Clinton is, it is impossible to try to stay away from his mother's troubled life; Virginia was married five times in her life, and all kinds of men left a deep black mark on Clinton's heart.
Her first husband was naturally Clinton's biological father, but unfortunately Clinton never met his father.
But Virginia only told her what kind of person her biological father was after *** won and someone revealed the true information about her biological father.
Bill Bryce (Clinton's biological father) was married three times and had at least two children before meeting Virginia. In other words, Virginia didn't know the amorous man at the time.
And her second husband, Roger Clinton, was the man Virginia was looking for for for her own benefit, as she once said in her memoirs:
Roger has'Appearance', so I accepted him"。
Unfortunately, this husband has values, has a short temper, drinks heavily, beats and even points a gun at his wife. Mrs. Clinton allowed her childhood to be clouded in darkness by her stepfather.
I've lived since I was a child'Double life'On the outside, he is a boy with a wide range of friends and sunny energy, but on the inside he is full of contradictions and unhappiness"。
What childhood wouldn't be affected by living in a house of domestic violence? But Virginia was willing to accept abuse for the sake of her own life, and she reconciled with her for a time after the divorce.
I did it not for myself, not out of love, but for my son. "Therefore, the essence of Virginia is to continue to be a loving mother, even if she did it not the right way, but she tried.
Naturally, in such a life, what Virginia can do is to be patient, after all, reality is much more important than feelings, and she did the same, and taught her son this way.
I remember that no matter how terrible something happened, my mom would wake up the next morning and stand in front of me with a smile on her face; She never showed her pain to anyone"。
Thankfully, life in Virginia isn't entirely unfortunate; After Roger's death, she married another hairdresser and met her last husband at the age of 59.
Virginia, who had been suffering from breast cancer for more than a decade at the time, never considered herself a patient, even in the hospital, and she begged doctors not to interfere in her son's election:"Please tell my kids that I'm fine now"。
In 1994, at the age of 71, Virginia took her own life, and the American newspaper The Washingtoner said of her:
The woman who made the ** makes us sleep"。
At that time, Clinton had already entered the White House, and his childhood was caused by it, although his mother gave him the greatest fighting spirit and gave him the ultimate patience, he still fought against the difficult life alone in the dark.