We all know that the beginning of emotions is always beautiful and fresh, that feeling of heartbeat racing, that deep curiosity and anticipation of each other, like a well-prepared spiritual adventure. And when you and your partner can't wait to jump into the depths of each other's hearts, the sweetness of first love will wander between you, providing you with joy and happiness.
However, as time goes on, the sweetness of this novelty may fade and become accustomed to it. Does this match your feelings? According to psychological research, most couples face a phase of fading novelty after the passionate love period, which is a natural physiological and psychological reaction.
However, not all couples are frustrated or disappointed by getting used to it. Some people will find new sweetness and happiness in this sense of familiarity. They build trust in each other, rely on each other, and are familiar with each other's strengths and weaknesses, and this in-depth understanding only makes their relationship more stable. As a life example, an elderly couple told me that they have been married for 50 years and they still love each other dearly, because they have experienced the ups and downs of life together, the trials and tribulations and the LeEco.
So, when we say"Couples don't feel it after being together for a long time", which is not accurate. The more scientific way to put it is:"Couples may lose the heartbeat sensation of their first love after being together for a long time, but that doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore. On the contrary, they may love each other more deeply, and their feelings have transcended superficial novelty and transformed into a deeper spiritual link of shared life and affection".
True love is like a good glass of wine, it is sweet at first taste, and over time, it becomes more and more fragrant. When you finish the last sip of wine, it is not only the taste of the wine that remains on the tip of your tongue, but also the memories and experiences that the wine brings you.