In this world, there are some things that are eternal and unchanging, and one of the most profound things is the complexity of human nature. I'd rather be called "arrogant, arbitrary, unscrupulous, mercenary" than "patient, reasonable, and qualified.""of people. It's not because I'm self-defeating or arrogant, it's because I'm aware of the weaknesses of human nature and believe that it should never be tested.
First of all, human nature is extremely complex and multifaceted. Everyone has their own desires, emotions, and impulses, which are an inevitable part of human nature. In some cases, people may exhibit noble qualities such as patience, tolerance, and humility. But in other cases, people may be driven by their own desires to do something unexpected.
Secondly, weaknesses in human nature are insurmountable. Each of us has our own weaknesses and flaws that may be exposed in certain situations that make us make bad decisions or behaviors. And testing humanity is like swimming in a rapid, not knowing when it will be swept away by the rapids. Even if we want to control our emotions and desires, many times they will still prevail.
Why, then, would I rather be called a "arrogant, arbitrary, unsightly, mercenary" person? This is because such evaluations are more truthful and objective. People can see my shortcomings and shortcomings, but they can also see my personality and characteristics. I don't disguise myself in front of others, and I don't hide my true emotions and thoughts. This kind of me, although a little unruly, is more real and credible.
Conversely, if people say I'm a "patient, reasonable, and high-quality person.""Such an assessment would make me feel uneasy and hypocritical. Because I know that I am not a perfect person, and I have my own weaknesses and shortcomings. Such an assessment will only make me more self-deceptive and even make me forget my own shortcomings and mistakes.
In short, human nature is complex and fragile, and we should not put it to the test. We should accept our imperfections and weaknesses and strive to overcome and change them. Only in this way can we truly know ourselves and become a more authentic and credible person. Therefore, I would rather others see my shortcomings and inadequacies than disguise myself in front of others. Because I know that only in this way can I grow and progress better.