When I return to the city on the second day of the Lunar New Year, the urban housing is ready, and there is no need to hesitate to build a house in the countryside
Introduction: At present, there is a popular view in society that only those who own a property in the city and a house in the countryside can be regarded as successful and happy middle-aged people. However, with the acceleration of the pace of urban life and the fierce competition in society, many urban people have begun to yearn to build houses in the countryside, or struggle with whether to stay in the city or return to the countryside when they are old. This article will delve into this topic, the pros and cons of building a house in the countryside, and the difference between urban and rural life.
The fantasy of city dwellers yearning for country life.
Many city dwellers yearn for rural life, often attracted by the poetry of rural life. They imagine themselves raising cats and dogs, growing vegetables and flowers, taking walks, and living a quiet and comfortable life away from the hustle and bustle of the city. However, in real life, people often overlook the drawbacks of rural life.
Zoom in: But in reality, rural life is not as ideal as one might think. Rural infrastructure is relatively backward, transportation is cumbersome, and the supply of medical and shopping markets is not as good as in cities. In addition, the sanitary conditions in rural areas are poor, there is no central heating in winter, and there are many mosquitoes and flies in summer, which is quite unsightly compared to the cleanliness of the cities. The rural society is impetuous, the psychology of comparison is serious, the interpersonal relationship is complicated, and life is inconvenient everywhere, which is also the reason why many urban people are reluctant to live in the countryside.
1.A new option for building a house in rural areas.
In recent years, building a house in the countryside has become a new choice for many people. Some people who settled in the cities began to build houses in the rural areas of their hometowns, hoping to have their own homes in the countryside. However, the decision to build a house in the countryside has left many people in a dilemma.
Explanation: Although owning property in the city has become the norm, there are still many problems with building a house in the countryside. For example, there are many factors to consider when building a house in the countryside, such as construction costs, post-maintenance, and neighborhood support. At the same time, building a house in the countryside also means a huge difference in urban and rural life. For many people who are accustomed to the convenience and comfort of city life, the inconvenience of rural life can deter them.
i) Disruption of rural gift culture.
In addition to all kinds of inconveniences, the culture of gift-giving in rural areas also gives many people a headache. In rural areas, weddings, funerals and other festive events have to be given as gifts, which to a certain extent increases people's economic burden.
Expansion: The culture of gift-giving in rural areas has a long history and is a traditional way to express human affection in rural areas. However, in modern society, gift-giving has become annoying and irritating. In addition to the gifts given by relatives, neighbors, friends, etc., everyone has to pay out of their own pocket to organize the wedding ceremony, which is undoubtedly a huge burden for people who are not financially wealthy. Sometimes there are even relatives and friends who have to borrow money because of gift money, so people find themselves in a dilemma: how to save face without hurting feelings has become a headache for many people.
1.The collision of urban life and rural reality.
The yearning of city dwellers to rural life is often perfect in the imagination. However, reality often blows them hard, allowing them to rediscover the truth of the countryside and the warmth of human feelings.
Narrator: Once upon a time, a retired doctor returned to the countryside to retire. On Valentine's Day in the third year, he was ready to give gifts to the peasant woman he had just met as usual, but as soon as he entered the door, he saw his most trusted nephew talking and laughing with the peasant woman. The feelings that the doctor has been caring for in recent years are wiped out in this scene, and the cold reality pierces his heart like a sharp blade, making him instantly feel unprecedented loss and despair. All this made him fully aware of the warmth and coldness of rural people, and completely broke his illusion of rural life.
Conclusion. Everyone has a different opinion about choosing to build a house in the countryside. For those who have already put down roots in the cities, the drawbacks of rural life can put them off. Life is multifaceted, there are pros and cons in both urban and rural areas, and the most important thing is to find a lifestyle that suits you and live each day with your feet on the ground. In the process of finding your ideal life, you might as well stop, reflect seriously, and find a lifestyle that suits you. Success and happiness are not only about having a house in the countryside and a house in the city, but more importantly, about inner peace and contentment.