Not all rural singles are not in good condition, on the contrary, there are some rural singles in good condition, with a building at home, a car when they go out, and a job in the city, although it is not a stable job in the system, but the salary is still very beautiful.
Mr. Liao is a rural bachelor with good conditions, Mr. Liao is 31 years old this year, his biggest dream is to marry a city girl as his wife, and he has been so persistent and hard.
However, no matter how hard he tries, the city girl just doesn't look down on her, and she is even more reluctant to marry him. For this reason, Mr. Liao was very confused and didn't know whether to continue to insist because he was 31 years old.
There is an inexplicable longing and attachment to city girls
When Mr. Liao was more than ten years old, the neighbor's urban relatives came back for the New Year, a family of three, dressed very well, and the candy brought back was beautiful and delicious, especially the city girl in a red dress, **white, very smiling, and very curious about everything.
Since then, Mr. Liao has had an inexplicable longing for the city. When he grew up, Mr. Liao went out to work with the people in the village, and he told himself that only by going out could he change his fate.
With the beginning of urbanization, it is easier and easier for rural people to survive in the city, and there are more and more opportunities.
With his smart mind and hard work, Mr. Liao has lived more and more glamorously in the city, and the family's old house, because Mr. Liao made money, demolished and rebuilt a three-story beautiful building, and Mr. Liao also added a car for himself.
When all this is in place, Mr. Liao's vision for mate selection has also become higher, and he hopes to marry a native city girl as his wife.
For urban girls, Mr. Liao has an inexplicable desire and persistence.
Always ignored and rejected
After working hard in the city for more than ten years, Mr. Liao has pursued many city girls, but they have all been rejected.
In order to be worthy of the city girl, Mr. Liao constantly changed himself, learned the living habits of urban people, got rid of various bad habits of rural people, and constantly approached urban people in terms of dress.
However, no matter how hard Mr. Liao tries, the city girl refuses tactfully in the face of his pursuit, and is unwilling to give even the slightest chance.
Friends also persuaded Mr. Liao not to be delusional, and said that urban girls are arrogant and look down on their rural men, and they are even more reluctant to marry in the countryside.
But Mr. Liao was not reconciled, he felt that his conditions were good, he had a house, a car and money, and he could always find a city girl who was not so snobbish.
The city girl admits that they are not all the way to each other
Because of his work, Mr. Liao met a young girl from the city, whose family conditions were very ordinary, and she could even be regarded as a poor household in the city, because their family could not even afford a house, and they still lived in an old unit left by the girl's grandfather.
Mr. Liao went to their house through work, but the house was old and dilapidated, the lighting was not good, and the dust on the walls had fallen off.
Seeing the conditions of the girl's home, Mr. Liao confidently felt that he was more than worthy of the girl. So, I pursued it very confidently.
But unexpectedly, the girl didn't even have the intention of thinking about it, so she refused directly.
Mr. Liao was a little frustrated, and asked the girl angrily, what is wrong with me?
The girl was a little stunned, but she still told the truth, and the girl said: We are not all the way, and we will not be happy when we come together.
What to do
Mr. Liao couldn't understand what it meant to be a person who was not a person all the way, and was it true that urban people were nobler than rural people?
You know, you drive by yourself, your family has a large rural villa, and you earn a lot of money every month, while the girl's family doesn't even have a car, and the girl rides an electric car to and from work every day, exposed to the wind and sun.
Why can't a girl look down on herself.
This made Mr. Liao very unacceptable and incomprehensible, but the rejection was real, and Mr. Liao could only accept it.
After this time, Mr. Liao also began to be confused, what should he do in the future, whether to follow his family's advice and find someone to marry in the village, or continue to pursue city girls.
After all, he is also 31 years old, and he is already a single person in the village.
Conclusion
It is true that the living conditions in the rural areas are better and there is money, but in terms of marriage, there are still many urban men and women who refuse to intermarry with rural people.
It may be that they feel that each other's growth environment is different, their thinking is different, and their living habits are different, and it is difficult to be happy when they live together. Because most rural families have a large population and are all large family models, it is easier to have various contradictions such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, while the urban population is simple, and most of the small families and large families are separated, and there are fewer contradictions.
Of course, there is a more important point that urban parents are more helpful to their children, while rural parents are more dependent and dependent on them, and it may be because of these practical reasons that urban girls are reluctant to marry in rural areas.