Jia Ling! Stop telling us to "be ourselves".
Jia Ling said that what she wants to express in "Hot and Hot" is not **, not boxing, but "being yourself".
But did Du Leying do it herself?
Jia Ling is a remake of the Japanese movie "100 Yuan Love", and the heroine in the movie herself likes to box.
And what kind of person is Du Leying herself?
She boxed, not because she loved it, but because she fell in love with the coach Haokun played by Lei Jiayin.
But even for Haokun, Du Leying, who lost weight and won once, did not stay with him again.
The movie focuses more on the things she doesn't like to do, but there is no mention of the things she likes.
She didn't like to give the house to her sister;
She doesn't like her boyfriend cheating on her best friend;
She doesn't like to be on the show......
What does she like to be, lying down? Gnawing the old? See one love one?
Le Ying's transformation has no foundation.
She didn't run to what she loved, across the sea, across the mountains.
Le Ying has not yet solved the first layer of "being yourself", that is, "what is yourself".
Jia Ling is obsessed with persuading others to "be herself" through Du Leying, who she can't even know herself.
It's better to show the real Jia Ling to the audience.
Jia Ling said in an interview with Lu Yu: I really want to share my insights on life.
When filming "Li Huanying", Jia Ling wanted to introduce her mother to the audience like introducing her to a friend: "Look, this is my mother." ”
And when filming "Hot and Hot", Jia Ling wanted to say to her friend Amway: "Look, there is a flower here!" It smells so good, come and smell it. ”
Jia Ling wants to express part of herself through Du Leying.
She wants to let the audience know that she wants to return to her own state through Du Leying.
But Du Leying can't do it, because Du Leying is not Jia Ling.
Jia Ling in reality is much more powerful than Du Leying, a paper person.
Jia Ling in reality is also truly qualified to start a life of "being herself".
Jia Ling, who was born at the grassroots level, has been active on the big screen in recent years and has become a comedian loved by everyone.
She participated in countless variety shows, and founded "Big Bowl Entertainment" and became the boss.
then filmed "Hello, Li Huanying" and became the highest-grossing female director.
In the past year, for the second movie, I gained 40 pounds first, and then **100 pounds.
Jia Ling did these things, and taking out one alone was enough for others to brag for a lifetime.
Famous, she did.
Entrepreneurship, she did.
Transformation, she did.
Make money, and she did.
Be beautiful, and she did.
Now, she can finally start being herself.
See? Before "being yourself", the first thing you have to do is to become famous, start a business, transform, make money, become beautiful, ......
In short, two words, "get stronger".
A person who is not strong is not qualified to be himself.
A person who has not yet become strong first thinks about being himself, and that is neurosis.
Isn't Du Leying being herself?
Isn't she happy to be herself just lying down and gnawing on the old?
But no one will love her, not even herself.
Because this world has never loved wayward people.
This world loves those who are strong enough to be willful.
Except for Wang Sicong, who is rewarded by God for eating, he can beat people on the street recklessly, and most people's willfulness has a great price.
Carrying the heaviest responsibility, how can we be ourselves?
I wanted to let go and take my income for a year and go skiing in the Alps.
I wanted to let go of myself, do nothing, and stay in bed for a week.
I want to let go of myself, not see any relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year, and not attend any parties!
In fact, I can't even stop for a day.
I told my friend that I wanted to get seriously ill and lie in the hospital for a few months.
But being sick is also a luxury for me.
Because being sick doesn't make me escape from life, it only makes the shackles of life heavier.
Responsibility doesn't go away just because I'm sick.
It only made it harder for me to bear it because I was sick.
Jia Ling can be herself, not because she has succeeded, but because she works hard enough.
Even if Jia Ling has long been wealthy and free, and has a whole team to serve her, ** is still not an easy thing for her.
She collapsed several times, and there was a huge benefit in front of her!
She still felt like her mental and physical strength had reached its limit, and she couldn't do it again.
How difficult it must be for ordinary people!
I really recommend everyone to take a look at Lu Yu's interview with Jia Ling.
A real Jia Ling really expresses what Jia Ling wants to express.
It's not about being yourself, it's not about winning once, it's about "working hard".
Everything you want to do, you have to work hard to achieve.
It's the same if you want to "be yourself".
It's not about wanting to or not wanting, it's about not working hard.