Everyone has a small volcano hidden in their hearts, and boys are no exception. When this volcano is smoky because of something undesirable, how can we subtly coax it to calm down?Today, let's explore the mystery together!
1. Listening: Give him an outlet for catharsis
When boys are angry, they often need someone to talk to. At this time, you should not rush to interrupt him, let alone immediately refute his point of view. Instead, listen patiently to his complaints and grievances and let him feel your understanding and support. Remember, listening is not just about using your ears, it's about feeling his emotions with your heart. When he feels your sincerity and concern, most of his anger will naturally subside.
2. Empathy: Think from his point of view
Empathy is a very important skill in coaxing a boy to dissipate. Try to put yourself in his shoes and understand his position and feelings. When you can truly appreciate his difficulties and pain points, your comfort and persuasion will be more convincing. You can say, "I know you're angry right now, and I would be the same." But let's think about it, is there a better solution?Such words not only express his understanding of him, but also lead him to a more positive way of thinking.
3. Practical action: small surprises and big curative effects
Sometimes, the power of words is limited. In the process of coaxing boys to dissipate their anger, a small practical action can often have unexpected effects. For example, prepare him a meal that he likes, or accompany him to do something he has always wanted to do but didn't have time for. Such an action will not only divert his attention, but also make him feel your intentions and warmth. When his mood became happy because of these small surprises, the previous contradictions and unhappiness naturally disappeared.
In short, it is not difficult to coax a boy to discourage. The key is whether you are willing to understand him and care for him with your heart. When you treat him sincerely, you will find that that seemingly terrifying little volcano is actually not difficult to quell. On the contrary, it may be an opportunity for your relationship to go furtherSo, the next time a boy gets angry, you might as well try these methods!I'm sure you'll be able to easily make him de-angry and smile again!
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