Wen Xinxi.
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Some time ago, a friend told me. He met a man he could trust for life....Later, I learned that this man already had a family of his own, and he had a son and a daughter.
She said: "They all like each other very much, and no one can do without the other. ”
I asked her, "Can this man give up his family for you?" ”
She hesitated for a long time and replied, "He can give me anything, including anything I want, but he can't give up his existing family yet." ”
I then said, "No one can give up their family, so what can they talk about?" He obviously doesn't take you seriously. ”
My friend hurriedly replied: "Except for the fact that he can't give me a name, he can give me everything else he has, and he will buy me anything I want, even a house and a car." ”
I replied helplessly: "Since he loves you so much, but you can't give you what you want, is this still love?" Why do you want to wronged yourself like that, it will make you suffer! ”
1 "Love is the norm of life. ”
People who shouldn't be together will get separated sooner or later, and sometimes they just haven't gotten that far. Have the courage to accept the reality that you can't be together, and don't run away from your feelings is the wise thing to do.
Love is not necessarily a one's fate! If you love him, you are miserable, and constantly bring you negative emotions such as sadness and self-doubt, it is your own heart that expects too much from him; If he is destined to be a growth process in your life experience, an opportunity for growth, a challenge...Through such a valuable life experience, you will have a better understanding of what you really want. You will have a deeper understanding of love, experience the ups and downs of life, and reap your own happiness.
2 "Do not sell your soul for riches. ”
Although women are a vulnerable group, you have an indestructible soul, and no one can hurt you.
For a rich man, money is not a scarce thing for him. If he can give you resources that are particularly important to him, or that he is particularly scarce, it means that he has moved his real character.
In relationships, men are often realistic and rational, sober and objective, just afraid of a momentary verbal promise, and go to the kidneys but not the heart! We can't just see one-sidedness and give ourselves to the other person completely.
3 "It is necessary to analyze things holistically, taking into account every possibility. ”
If you really fall in love with a family man and can't be separated from him, be a desireless friend with him. Have your own bottom line, don't go beyond the bottom line, so that your relationship can last for a long time, otherwise you will only end up being abandoned.
It is impossible for one person to hold an umbrella for two people at the same time, and it is impossible to give an umbrella to two people at the same time, there is always one person who is loved, and one person who is drenched in the rain. ”
If a woman doesn't love herself, how can she ask others to love you! If he doesn't want to respect you and force you to become a third party, it's obvious that he's just trying to satisfy his own needs.
I want to tell all people: feelings need to be run-in, love needs more, if two people can't understand each other, respect each other, no matter how much love is just selfish love, it will only accelerate the breakdown of feelings, and a long-term relationship needs to be carefully polished, it depends on the one who loves you, to what extent he is serious about you!
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