Early in the morning, I set off to the county seat, on the way, I heard the remarks that made me feel angry, in the car, two uncles talked about the topic of family children's education, a younger uncle said to a middle-aged and elderly uncle: "Girls don't need to read a lot of books, undergraduate is enough, don't let your daughter or a relative's daughter go to graduate school, it's a waste of money", in addition to saying this, he also proudly cited an example of him persuading his relative's daughter not to go to graduate school, and another uncle said: "Yes" also agreed with this view.
Let's talk about the thoughts I have listened to: First of all, if this kind of thinking is widespread, I feel very sad, I really hope that under the patriarchal society, this society can be friendly to women, and hope that equality between men and women can be achieved; On the one hand, I can see from the dialogue that the inequality in the education of men and women can be understood as the preference for sons; On the other hand, from my uncle's tone and the fact that "girls are enough for undergraduates, they don't need to be very good at reading", I can see that he enjoys the vested interests given to him by the patriarchal society, "despises" women, restricts women's development, and does not understand the difficulties and difficulties of women in a patriarchal society.
Speaking of which, I've seen too many inequalities between men and women, male or female misogyny, sometimes powerless, but I'm still willing to rebel and change a little bit.
I am very pleased that when I listened to the podcast, I saw that many women choose to resist when they encounter oppression, speak out bravely, and take practical actions to promote gender equality and come out of the framework of a patriarchal society.
Finally, I hope that all women can be freed from the shackles of a patriarchal society and live freely and happily!