At night, a faint light illuminates the living room of Mr. Li's house. Mr. Li stared at his wife's satchel with a puzzled expression, which was already the third satchel his wife had changed. Mr. Li couldn't help but feel a little uneasy in his heart, this shoulder bag didn't seem to have an obvious brand logo, and he couldn't check the actual ** of this bag.
The question in his heart made Mr. Li's curiosity stronger and stronger, and he couldn't help but pick up the satchel and walk into the bedroom, asking his wife how much it cost to buy the bag. The wife faced her husband's questioning, her face was a little embarrassed, but she was always reluctant to say the actual **. This evasive attitude made Mr. Li even more suspicious, and he began to guess that the ** of this bag must be unacceptable to him.
After the dispute, Mr. Li insisted that his wife take him to the place where he bought the bag to verify, and the two had been in a cold war for a long time, and now they are involved in a dispute that is difficult to let go. They came to the shop that his wife said, and Mr. Li learned that the bag was purchased in a very luxuriously decorated private custom store, and it was for this reason that he had not been able to find **.
All of Mr. Li's doubts and worries were instantly verified, and the anger in his heart began to burn uncontrollably. He grabbed his wife's hand tightly and asked loudly: How much did you buy this handbag? The wife felt the power in her husband's hand and knew that she couldn't hide it anymore, so she could only shake off his hand and reluctantly replied: "Don't take my hand!" I bought it for 50,000. ”
Mr. Li couldn't accept this number when he heard it, and his eyes were full of anger and disappointment. He asked his wife to return the bag on the spot, but his wife firmly disagreed, she said aggrievedly: "My girlfriends all use this, why can't I buy it?" You're so stingy! ”
His wife's defense made Mr. Li even more angry, and he began to provoke the family's economic situation and consumption concepts: "My monthly salary is only 4,000 yuan, and you take 50,000 to buy a bag, can you still live this life?" We can't afford such an expensive luxury! Mr. Li's voice gradually increased, full of anger and helplessness.
The sound of the two arguing gradually reached the ears of the other customers in the store, who looked curiously at Mr. and Mrs. Li. Mr. Li noticed everyone's gaze and immediately felt embarrassed and remorseful. He patted himself on the head, held back his anger, took the initiative to take his wife's hand, and decided to leave this troublesome place first.
Mr. Li, who returned home, was still indignant in his heart, and he realized that the disagreement between them was no longer just about the bag. It's a clue that the love and care that preceded an outburst didn't get catharsis.
As the night deepened, Mr. Li looked at his wife's quiet back, and felt a sense of regret in his heart. He realized that he had to take the initiative to communicate with his wife so that each other's feelings could be released. He walked up behind his wife and said softly, "My dear, it's not that I don't want to buy luxury goods for you, but I just hope that we can consume rationally and responsibly on the basis of our existing economic conditions." I'm sorry I willfully vented my emotions and ignored your feelings. ”
The wife turned around and looked at Mr. Li with tears in his eyes, she stretched out her hand to gently wipe the tears from Mr. Li's face, smiled and said, "I don't have to buy this bag, I just want to make myself happy." We must understand and respect each other's opinions in consumption in the future, okay? ”
Mr. Li was infected by his wife's smile, and the anger in his heart dissipated. He hugged his wife tightly and said apologetically, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have lost my temper so much." In the future, we will work together for a better life. ”
After this quarrel and reconciliation, Mr. Li and his wife paid more attention to communication and understanding. They have learned to respect and compromise each other in terms of consumption, and they have also cherished their feelings for each other more. Through this conflict, they have regained the motivation to move forward together and continue to move forward hand in hand.
Aunt Fan's point of view:
1.Mr. Lee's reaction was reasonable. As the breadwinner of the family, Mr. Lee is responsible for managing the family's finances. Not only did the wife buy an expensive bag without authorization, but also did not explain the situation to Mr. Li in advance, which was irresponsible. Mr. Li asked his wife to return the bag in order to avoid excessive financial pressure on the family and maintain a stable financial situation.
2.Mr. Lee is too demanding. As an independent individual, the wife has the right to decide her own consumption behavior. Although the bag is expensive, if his wife has enough income and can pay the burden, Mr. Li has no right to interfere and ask for a refund. The wife mentioned that her girlfriend also used this bag, indicating that it is a popular fashion product, and the wife has the right to spend freely according to her preferences and style.
Uncle Fan's point of view:
1.Mr. Lee was overly anxious and stingy. Although the bag is higher, the wife may have ample personal savings or other income** to support such spending. As a partner, Mr. Li should pay more attention to and understand his wife's mood and needs, rather than overemphasizing material issues. He should try to communicate and compromise effectively with his wife instead of insisting that her return the bag.
2.Mr. Lee's concern is legitimate. The financial stability of the family is an important concern that every family member should be concerned about. Mr. Li's salary is relatively low, and buying such an expensive luxury item would put financial pressure on the entire family. As a responsible husband and father, Mr. Lee has the right to ask his wife to return her bags to ensure that the family's financial situation is not affected. His opposition was motivated by the protection of family interests.
Legal Opinions:1Article 39 of the Marriage Law: Matters concerning the joint ownership of property between husband and wife shall be decided through consultation between husband and wife. Where a relatively large amount of property expenditure or liabilities is involved, it shall be agreed upon through consultation between the two parties, and may not be decided unilaterally.
2.Article 468 of the General Provisions of the Civil Code: Husband and wife shall settle their own expenses for their own personal daily life and personal special needs from their joint property. Where there is no joint property, the expenses for personal daily life and personal special needs shall be settled by both husband and wife in accordance with their respective capabilities; If they are unable to solve the problem, the husband and wife shall help each other.
3.Article 16 of the Protection of Consumer Rights and Interests**: Where a business operator sells goods or sets restrictions at a price that is significantly higher than the actual value of the goods, the consumer has the right to choose to purchase the goods or accept the restrictions. If consumers believe that the goods are significantly higher than the actual value of the goods, they can complain and report to the relevant administrative supervision and management departments.