On the ninth day of the Lunar New Year, the day of the official start of construction, as of today, it seems that the construction has started one after another, and it is time to collect it. For me, this Spring Festival is very different, returning home on the 27th day of the lunar month and returning on the 9th day of the first lunar month, which seems to be the longest "year" in a long time, as if a lot has happened, and it seems to be so uneventful. I think there is always a sense of ritual to commemorate it, and more importantly, to review and summarize, so that you can also take care of it, about the new year, it must be a little different. Even if you can't live such a wonderful life like Jia Ling, you have to be worthy of yourself.
2024, the year of the dragon, my natal year. I don't pay much attention to the statement of Tai Sui, maybe it's a turning point in my life So this year, it's quite different.
First, the annual leave of the specialty. This year, I gave myself a special annual leave, and when I left home today, I told my father that I had been at home for the longest time this year, half a month younger, which was really luxurious and comfortable. For the partners who have already started work, it seems to be a bit hateful. I feel like I'm a little half-alive and understood, just like Li Dazhao said, "It's fun to play and learn to learn", so I lay down and rested this year.
Second, the mindset has changed. This year's mentality for the Chinese New Year is completely different from previous years, and I was shocked by a certain degree of peace, but of course there are some things that I still have the same opinion. I don't know if it's because of my age, I stand at thirty, I don't know if I'm forty, and I know my destiny at fifty. 2023 is at a turning point in my life at the age of 35, and I am relieved of many things. Perhaps, as the book says, "the perspective of looking at the problem has changed", in the past, when the so-called blood and qi were strong, they were actually immature, unable to jump out of their own limitations, and always looked at the problem with me as the center, in fact, there are many perspectives on everything, one or two more, and the whole world will be wider. For me, this year's Spring Festival is a change of more or less. But the perception of some things, such as certain relationships, has not changed. So on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, there was a small episode, although it was peaceful later, but it has always been a thorn in our hearts, life is long and look at it. I am happy to take a family photo, and I hope that it will be done every year in the future as a souvenir
Third, reading, not completing the reading plan. set the flag of reading 5 books during the Spring Festival, but naturally it was not completed. I have finished reading 3 books, 1 book is almost finished, and 2 books are being read. "Lean Startup" and "Tea Ceremony" are reading; "Life by Me" is almost finished, this book is actually the second time I read it, and I feel different, I plan to get up early to read and share this book in the live broadcast room, the New Year is dedicated to every woman, and it is also dedicated to the man behind every woman; After reading "Good Habit Cultivation Manual", "Cognitive Awakening", "Reading in the Sunny Ploughing and Rain, You Have to Drink Tea", let's talk about these 3 books.
"Cognitive Awakening":This book, which has been consecrated by many people, has four words "as expected" after reading it! Expected, unreasonable. "Early Reading and Writing Run" probably came from this book, but fortunately I have already started to practice it, so for me, it is not a change, it can only be said to be a blessing and consolidation. But the reason why I still think this book is worth reading is that the author has explained many of my stuck points in his own words, such as concentration, learning, action, etc., about planning, about time management, etc. These questions in the process of my practice let me get through, as if the person who practices martial arts has opened up the second pulse of Ren Du, so it is quite comfortable. In addition, it may be my perceptual thinking, the author Zhou Ling began to realize that he could not go on in the muddy nightmare and should make something to change when he was 36 years old, just like me today, so it's not too late to start.
"Reading in the Sunny Ploughing and Rain, You Have to Drink Tea":This book is a collection of essays that I read by accident, which collects the strengths of all families, and includes some prose chapters of Zhu Ziqing, Zhou Zuoren, Feng Zikai, Wang Zengqi, Liang Shiqiu, Ji Xianlin, etc. I used to think that prose was a disease-free moan, although I often moaned like this myself, hahaha. But what changed my opinion was when I met Shi Tiesheng's "Me and the Altar of Earth" last year, I almost cried and read the whole book, and then, I began to fall in love with prose, or I began to understand it. Reading today is not actually reading a book or an article, but a kind of attitude and wisdom towards life, which is really like a dialogue with the author and the wise. When I feel that everyone who is so far away from us is so childlike, so interesting, and sometimes seems to be very stupid and simple, I am not reading, but looking at life. The most important thing is that you are born with a lot of the same circumstances, and looking at how others face it is to look in the mirror for yourself.
"Good Habit Cultivation Manual":A book that I opened unintentionally because of a change in action, I think I must read "Micro Habits" in the future. The author of this book is a psychiatrist, so the perspective is still very unique, he listed 50 common problems in life and work that we often ignore or always can't insist on practicing 50 problems and give a guide to action, I personally think there is still a scientific basis, and the action suggestions are easy to practice. For example, the scientific basis for waking up early and the actions after waking up early, about the positive energy diary, gratitude diary, visual records, etc., are the parts that I have always wanted to do that I didn't do well or didn't start, and it makes sense to me.
Fourth, diet exercise and mountain climbing. I haven't run for more than half a month, and I definitely lose more than three pounds every festival, but I also have a sense of accomplishment.
This year's New Year's diet, I really don't feel more and more indifferent to big fish and meat, except for guests or relatives' houses, everything that can be controlled by myself is basically drinking porridge, wowotou, pickled vegetables, or vegetarian dishes, and I really don't feel like meat. It's a beautiful thing to eat coarse grains, so the only thing I brought back from my hometown was stick rice, and I was going to make porridge and drink it by myself for the next few days.
I climbed three mountains, two of which were the first and second highest mountains in my hometown, and which I was born here but never climbed. What's more, I climbed with my dad, who was my guide and made me take a lot of detours. Climbing a mountain replaces other sports such as running, and at the same time, just like life, Dad will always be a mountain that I can rely on in my heart.
Take a walk after a meal. Especially in the last few days, I walked for more than half an hour after dinner every day, about two kilometers away, not only with my father, but also with my mother. So much so that this morning is the only early to get up for so many days during the holiday, wake up at 6 o'clock in the morning, get up for a walk, and take my mother for a walk. More important than the results of the moment is the awareness of everyone to live a healthy lifestyle.
When I went home, I vowed to challenge the whole marathon this year, hahaha, my legs trembled when I said it.
Fifth, life events. What is a major event in life, it is probably to start a family, start a business, be born, get old, sick and die. Let the parents be happy, and the happiness is accompanied by loss. For the first time, I also felt like an outsider, and even said when I was angry that maybe I wouldn't go home for the New Year next year. Man, it's weird. My dad said to me with tears in his eyes, "I'm busy with me this year, and I don't know if I won't come back next year", I pretended not to care, but I couldn't ignore his choking. Growing up is really painful, and emotions are really not a thing! If you want me to say that it is better to have a baby or a son, it is not the same to marry a daughter-in-law and a daughter. But in short, it seems that it is time to start a family, and it is always said that it is going to be spilled water, right?
Sixth, don't join in the fun, no sense of the Spring Festival. The box office of this Spring Festival movie has hit a new high, and four other films have announced their withdrawal due to poor box office. The most popular is Jia Ling's "Hot and Hot", which talks about not being afraid of being sprayed, but it really doesn't have that much feeling. Many people in the circle of friends are posting, and many people are moved, am I numb? I think not, but because I'm already loving myself. Jia Ling**100 pounds, to tell the truth, she was very distressed to see that she had lost weight, and she was quite tearful for a moment, but compared to the topic of **100 pounds, isn't it more awe-inspiring and relishing to maintain self-discipline! Therefore, continue to be self-disciplined and love yourself, I don't think there is much need to take it out to the sun, after all, how can you love others and the world if you don't love yourself, and what else can you talk about if you don't have self-discipline? Hahaha, don't spray if you don't like it
Well, the thoughts and feelings of thinking about so many Spring Festival holidays are finally over, and the end of collecting my heart is overIt's time to act, 2024 keywords - action, dry! So the near-term plan is probably these:
1. Today (the tenth day of the first lunar month) will resume live reading in the morning.
2. Preparation for the recent offline activities of the Reading Club, the author of the first issue of the new year will be there on February 25; March 9th Goddess Festival Special Session Two preparations and details that have been determined; In addition, a series of upgrades and improvements of this year's Reading Club will also be started at the beginning of the year, such as: materials, tools, forms, contents, membership classification, volunteer recruitment, venue negotiations, TOB, TOC negotiations, etc., which is also a big project.
3. The continuous creation of personal IP, content updates, and the creation and public release and recruitment of their own product content are the top priorities.
4. Daily gratitude diary, reflection diary, action plan and review.
5. The practice of early meditation reading and writing running.
Probably these aspects, as for the details of the specific dismantling, daily refinement, and continuous improvement in action!
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and the most important thing is to take action.
So, say a thousand things and ten thousand, and it's over!
2024, start the work! May we have a new year!
February** Dynamic Incentive Program