Aunt Zhang's family lives in the old neighborhood and has been adjacent to Aunt Li next door for more than 20 years, and has always maintained a friendly relationship on the surface. Aunt Zhang has an unmarried daughter, Xiaofang, and Aunt Li has a married son, Xiaoming.
One day, Aunt Li happened to bump into Xiaofang and a boy laughing on the street, and when she got home, she told her daughter-in-law Xiaohong about it, and her words revealed doubts: "I don't know what the relationship between Xiaofang and that boy is, but could it be that she has a partner outside?" After hearing this, Xiaohong immediately gossiped and said: "I'm not sure about this, but an older leftover girl like Xiaofang will never be able to get married, maybe there are people outside a long time ago, and even Aunt Zhang doesn't know about it." ”
The next day, Xiaohong told her husband Xiao Ming about it, and Xiao Ming disagreed: "With Xiaofang's character, I shouldn't secretly fall in love, Mom, don't guess casually." Xiaohong insisted on her own opinion and said: "I think Xiaofang definitely has a problem, otherwise why would she never get married!" Xiao Ming was helpless, and he didn't want to argue with his wife, so he only said: "Even if it's really as you said, it's not our turn to judge other people's affairs." ”
A few days later, Aunt Li suddenly became seriously ill and was hospitalized, and Xiaofang took the initiative to visit after learning about it, and also helped with some daily life. Who knew that Xiaohong actually said in front of Aunt Li in front of Xiaofang: "Xiaofang, this child has a problem with her conduct, and Auntie still has less contact with her, I heard that she already has a boyfriend in private, and she doesn't look like a serious girl." Xiaofang was so angry that she burst into tears, and after running home, she cried to her mother, and Aunt Zhang immediately came to Li's house to theorize, but Xiaohong refused to admit it. Since then, the two families have turned their faces and become bitter rivals.
A few days later, there were rumors that Xiao Ming had a woman outside, and Aunt Li, who listened to it, was greatly stimulated, which directly caused a cerebral hemorrhage, and is currently being rescued in the ICU. When Aunt Zhang learned of this, she secretly regretted that she shouldn't have believed the rumors casually, otherwise the relationship between the two families would not have reached this point.
Words are terrible, and evil comes from the mouth. A casual speculation, an unintentional gossip, can lead to irreparable consequences. In the face of the unknown, we should not speculate and spread unverified information. At the same time, a little more understanding and tolerance, and less aggression and judgment, can maintain a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is complex and sensitive, and both parties need to understand and tolerate each other in order to get along. As a daughter-in-law, you should not speculate about your mother-in-law and avoid saying unpleasant words to your face; As a mother-in-law, you also need to pay attention to your words and deeds and not stimulate your daughter-in-law's self-esteem. It is inevitable that there will be differences and contradictions when two people get along, but as long as they understand each other and communicate more, they can resolve misunderstandings and rebuild harmony.
We will all say the wrong thing and step on the thunder, but as long as we reflect and repent in time and take the initiative to apologize, we can turn the conflict into a jade silk and start again. If you make mistakes again and again, and do it to the end, you can only "do it yourself" and pay a heavy price. Therefore, we should always be connected to our own conscience and good nature, put ourselves in the shoes of others, and influence them with gentleness and kindness in order to achieve happiness and well-being.
Being considerate of others, cherishing relatives, and being cautious in words and deeds are compulsory courses for life growth. Words can create or destroy. May we be strict in our words and deeds, bring sunshine and warmth to the people around us, and jointly create an ideal society.