In August 2000, Grandma Zhu went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and suddenly heard the cry of a baby in the grass.
To everyone's surprise, the baby was dark, not because he had some kind of disease, but because the child was of mixed Chinese and African descent. She was moved by compassion to carry the baby home, but she didn't want this hug to be for life.
Just when everyone questioned Grandma Zhu's decision to raise the abandoned baby, Grandma Zhu resolutely chose to save the child with her love. So how is Grandma Zhu's family doing now? What is the baby's life like now?
Figure丨Hold back the abandoned baby.
Grandma Zhu is a native of Shanghai, she has two sons and a daughter, and they often eat at Grandma Zhu's house. Every morning, Grandma Zhu would go to the vegetable market to pick up some fresh vegetables to cook for her family. On an ordinary morning, Grandma Zhu set foot on the road to the vegetable market again, but on this day she experienced extraordinary things.
When passing by the park next to the vegetable market, she faintly heard the baby's cry, at first Grandma Zhu thought that there was a problem with her ears, but after stopping and listening carefully for a long time, she still felt that there was a baby's cry nearby. Grandma Zhu is a very caring person, she likes children very much, and she is afraid that something will happen to this crying child, so she began to look for it.
Grandma Zhu searched for a long time, and there was no trace of the baby on the amusement facilities and benches in the park, but the cry never stopped. Later, Grandma Zhu followed the voice into a bush, she carefully cleared the weeds, and found a baby lying in the grass.
Picture丨Abandoned baby in the grass.
Grandma Zhu recalled:"It was a hot August, the sun was very hot, the child's lips were roasted to dry skin, and even the crying became very weak
"Then I found a note pressed under the child's body, which said that the child's date of birth was August 1, 2000, and then I took the child home, fed him some water, and took a bath. ”
After Grandma Zhu brought the baby home, the family was stunned. Everyone thought that Grandma Zhu went to buy vegetables in the morning, but who knew that she didn't buy the vegetables, but she brought back a baby.
After returning home, everyone found that the baby was full of prickly heat, and Grandma Zhu immediately began to bathe the baby. When Grandma Zhu found the baby in the grass, she found that his ** was very dark, and Grandma Zhu thought that it was because the baby had been abandoned in the grass for too long and was contaminated with dust.
Picture丨Shower. But what Grandma Zhu didn't expect was that after she carefully washed the child, the black on the baby's body did not fade. Grandma Zhu thought that the child was seriously ill when she was thrown in the grass, and she was very worried, so she ran to the hospital with the baby in her arms.
The doctor said that the child was not sick, but just a mixed-race child, which made Grandma Zhu feel relieved, and then happily carried the baby home. Combined with the location of the baby she found and the note next to the baby, Grandma Zhu deduced that the child must have been abandoned.
Grandma Zhu couldn't ruthlessly send the baby to the welfare home now, looking at this cute face, Grandma Zhu decided to raise him temporarily. In this way, the baby temporarily lived in Grandma Zhu's house.
Figure 丨 Raising. But Grandma Zhu thinks that it is better to let the baby grow up under the care of her biological parents, so she went out to find the baby's biological parents for several days, but every time she went out, she returned in vain.
During this time of getting along with the baby, Grandma Zhu gradually fell in love with the baby, so she made an important decision:Grandma Zhu decided to raise the baby by herself.
Grandma Zhu's family situation is not good, the family was barely able to survive, but now there is a baby of unknown origin. Can her family agree? What will outsiders think of Grandma Zhu's approach?
Figure丨Raised up.
After Grandma Zhu told her family about her idea of adopting a baby, everyone was stunned, and only Grandma Zhu's wife supported her. But after all, Grandma Zhu is now retired and is an old woman, and her own energy is limited. Now suddenly let Grandma Zhu raise a baby, how difficult it must be.
And Grandma Zhu's children also disagree with their mother's approachOne is because they feel that their family has come to an uninvited guest and are very unhappy. The second reason is that the neighbors are talking about it, and they know that the baby is of mixed Chinese and African descent. Some people with low quality even said that the baby was born by Grandma Zhu's daughter-in-law and a black man.
It can be said that Grandma Zhu's children also paid a lot for Grandma Zhu's decision to insist on ***. Everyone can't resist Grandma Zhu's thoughts, so they can only accept the existence of this baby.
Picture丨Accept the baby.
Grandma Zhu loved this child very much, and named him Zhu Junlong. Grandma Zhu felt that she was getting older, and it was not appropriate to recognize Zhu Junlong as her adopted son, so she asked her youngest son to recognize Zhu Junlong as her adopted son.
I have to say that Zhu Junlong is very lucky, after many babies are abandoned, maybe no one will find out, or some people will not be willing to adopt, and they will lose their lives.
But Zhu Junlong not only met someone who was willing to adopt him, but Grandma Zhu was also very good to him. Because Zhu Junlong was adopted, he has never been registered. Moreover, Grandma Zhu's procedures for adopting Zhu Junlong are not formal, so there has been no adoption certificate.
Seeing that Zhu Junlong was old enough to go to school, and Grandma Zhu also prepared a very complete set of school supplies for Zhu Junlong, but no kindergarten was willing to let Zhu Junlong go to school. The reason is that he has no hukou, let alone an adoption certificate, so he can be regarded as a black household.
Figure丨Black household. Grandma Zhu couldn't bear to see Zhu Junlong not going to school, so Grandma Zhu could only use her savings to buy a lot of expensive gifts to beg for people everywhere, and finally gave Zhu Junlong a chance to study.
Grandma Zhu also does not have enough common sense in life, when she encounters this situation, she should go to ** and go to the relevant departments for help, and Zhu Junlong's school problem will have hope of being solved.
Zhu Junlong studied until elementary school under the care of Grandma Zhu, and although Zhu Junlong spoke fluent Shanghainese, he still found that he was different from his classmates. Zhu Junlong found that his ** was always several times darker than everyone else, and his hair was curly.
Zhu Junlong was very curious and asked Grandma Zhu, and Grandma Zhu told him"You're of mixed Chinese and African descent, baby, you're the cutest of all. ”Zhu Junlong also gradually understood that he did not belong to this family, and he was abandoned. But Zhu Junlong was not sad because of this, because Grandma Zhu gave him too much love.
Figure丨Growth. At the beginning, the people in the family also took great care of Zhu Junlong. But after Grandma Zhu's daughter-in-law gave birth to her first child, the family's attention was on the newborn baby.
Zhu Junlong was very naughty and in a rebellious period at the time, but he was very anxious when he saw that his family no longer liked him. ButI didn't know how to express it, so I skipped school and climbed trees after school to get the attention of my family.
Grandma Zhu understands Zhu Junlong's mind very well, and she does her best to give Zhu Junlong more attention. Zhu Junlong later understood the painstaking effect and began to become well-behaved and sensible. Grandma Zhu and Zhu Junlong get along like relatives, and Grandma Zhu really regards Zhu Junlong as her own grandson.
Figure丨Shangshubo pays attention.
As Zhu Junlong continued to grow older, Grandma Zhu realized that she had to start solving the hukou problem for Zhu Junlong, otherwise he would not be able to survive in this society in the future.
Grandma Zhu began to seek help from **, and the TV station also noticed the story of Grandma Zhu and Zhu Junlong and began to report. ** also gradually learned about Grandma Zhu's deeds, so she issued an adoption certificate for Grandma Zhu, and also registered Zhu Junlong with a household registration in Shanghai
Since then, Zhu Junlong can also go to school openly. The school where Zhu Junlong later studied also learned about his life experience, and specially exempted him from all expenses during his study, and gave him a certain amount of living allowance every semester.
Seeing that all this is slowly getting better, so, what is the life of Grandma Zhu and Zhu Junlong after that?
Figure丨Successfully settled.
Zhu Junlong, who got a Shanghai hukou, felt that he had been recognized by the city and the country. He finally had the opportunity to go to school in the open, so he began to study hard, study hard, and decided to make up for all the homework he had missed.
Everyone saw Zhu Junlong working so hard and gave him a thumbs up. And Zhu Junlong did not live up to everyone's expectations in the end, he played well in the college entrance examination and was admitted to Shanghai Jianqiao University.
Seeing that Zhu Junlong, who she has always loved, was admitted to university, Grandma Zhu was moved to tears. She remembered the bits and pieces of getting along with Zhu Junlong over the years, and she felt that although there were many difficulties, happiness still accounted for the majority.
She has never regretted adopting Zhu Junlong, and if she was given another chance, Grandma Zhu would still choose to adopt this child. And Zhu Junlong did not let Grandma Zhu's love go down the drain.
Figure丨Take care. Grandma Zhu understands the love of her grandparents, and he knows that she can't live up to the love of these two old people, they are Zhu Junlong's reborn parents. If Grandma Zhu hadn't taken him home and insisted on adopting him, if there was no grandfather to support his grandmother's decision, Zhu Junlong's life would not necessarily have become what it would have become.
Zhu Junlong once said, "I have only one wish in my heart, that is, to provide a better living environment for my grandparents through my own efforts." It turned out that they accompanied me and raised me, and now it is time for me to reciprocate, I feel that people must learn to be grateful, and my grandparents have great kindness to me, which I will never forget in this life. ”
When Grandma Zhu heard Zhu Junlong's words, she was also very moved"I always thought he was a child, thinking that he didn't understand our efforts, but I didn't expect Zhu Junlong to be careful, every bit we did, he remembered it in his heart, and we felt it was worth it."
I always thought that Zhu Junlong's healthy growth was my greatest wish. However, now I hope that Zhu Junlong can become better and better, have more achievements, and become a useful person to society. ”
Picture丨Family.
Grandma Zhu really put a lot of effort into Zhu Junlong, before Zhu Junlong was still the abandoned baby lying in Grandma Zhu's arms, and his mouth was dry and chapped due to sun exposure. Now, he's a strong guy.
In the previous ten years, Grandma Zhu was Zhu Junlong's backer, and I don't know when Zhu Junlong gradually became Grandma Zhu's dependence, and Zhu Junlong was very good at making Grandma Zhu happy.
He used to tell his grandmother"Grandma, when I graduate, find a good job, earn a lot of money for you to spend, I want to buy a big villa, and our family will live in it. ”
Seeing that Zhu Junlong was so sensible, Grandma Zhu just patted his head and said"Okay, child, it's good that you have this heart, grandma is very touched. ”
Picture丨Relieved. Zhu Junlong was afraid that his grandparents would be bored at home, so he specially taught them how to use smartphones. Grandma Zhu and her wife can be regarded as keeping pace with the times under the leadership of Zhu Junlong.
Zhu Junlong is a very caring child, he knows that his grandparents are old and can't eat those hard and cold things. So when he saw soft pastries on the road, he often brought them back to his grandparents.
He believes that as long as he sees the satisfied smiling faces of his grandparents, then he can live happily all day long. In Zhu Junlong's heart, the most important people to him are Grandma Zhu and her wife.
Group photo. Zhu Junlong knew her life experience when she was very young, so when she lived in Grandma Zhu's house, she was very good at observing words and feelings, observing everyone's behavior and attitude, trying to behave well, and making everyone like herself.
Zhu Junlong has always been much more mature than his peers, although Zhu Junlong also loves to play games. But in this period of youth, when everyone is wantonly swaying their youth and having fun, Zhu Junlong has been thinking about how to make money and how to give his grandparents a better life.
For Grandma Zhu, Zhu Junlong is the treasure sent by God in her heart. Grandma Zhu's only spiritual pillar is Zhu Junlong, everyone may wonder, doesn't Grandma Zhu have children? Why doesn't she live with her children, why aren't they her supporters?
Figure丨Play a game.
Grandma Zhu's children have always disliked Zhu Junlong, before, Shanghai ** was renovating the old city and preparing to build new houses, because of the demolition of Grandma Zhu, she got six sets of demolition houses. At that time, Grandma Zhu's daughter had already married, so Grandma Zhu allocated the six demolition houses in this way.
He gave himself two sons, two sets for each person, and Grandma Zhu kept one set for herself. And whose other set is it? That's right, Grandma Zhu left this house to Zhu Junlong.
This also planted the seeds for the breakdown of their mother-son follow-up relationship, because Grandma Zhu's children had no good impression of Zhu Junlong, and now, the married daughter was not assigned a house, but Zhu Junlong, an adopted child, was assigned a house.
Everyone is somewhat unbalanced, in fact, Grandma Zhu did not intend to make her children angry, she believes that Zhu Junlong only knows her own family in this city. If she dies one day, then Zhu Junlong will be helpless, so she wants to buy Zhu Junlong a house to facilitate his study and life.
Figure丨Demolition and relocation to get a house.
But Grandma Zhu, who was clearly assigned a house, now lives in a dilapidated house of only seven or eight square meters. What's going on? Where did her original house go?
It turned out that the house where Grandma Zhu lived before was very old, and because it was built for a long time, the roof of the house was damaged and often leaked. Grandma Zhu didn't want to barely survive in such an environment anymore, so she thought about selling the house and then using the money from the sale of the house to buy a better house to live in.
What made Grandma Zhu very happy was that her old house was sold for 2.5 million, and Grandma Zhu planned to use the money to buy a new house. But when Grandma Zhu was about to buy a house, she found that her money was directly less than 2 million.
Grandma Zhu thought that a thief had entered the house and stole the bank card. But upon inquiry, I found out that it was my daughter and eldest son who owed a lot of money outside and couldn't repay the debt, so they used the money to buy a house to fill the debt hole.
Picture丨Grandma Zhu.
This is simply too much, do they regard Grandma Zhu as their mother? The old man was full of joy and wanted to get a new house, but all the money was taken away by his dearest and beloved children without permission, how sad Grandma Zhu's heart should be.
Now Grandma Zhu has no place to live, let alone buy a new house. So Grandma Zhu could only live with her wife Zhu Junlong in a small house of seven or eight square meters. Grandma Zhu is very angry with her children, and her children are also angry with Grandma Zhu, and the relationship between them has gradually cooled, and now the children rarely come to visit Grandma Zhu.
In this small house of seven or eight square meters, Zhu Junlong could only sleep on the windowsill, but Zhu Junlong never felt wronged. Because he knew that if he didn't sleep on the windowsill, then he could only let his grandparents go to sleep, and he would never allow grandma and grandpa to be hurt a little.
Picture丨Sleeping on the windowsill.
Zhu Junlong was very sad when he saw his grandparents crowded into this small house. How he wants to be able to go to work right now to earn money and change a good house for his grandparents!
Grandma Zhu also understands her grandson's mood very well, but she has also been comforting Zhu Junlong and telling him not to worry, Zhu Junlong thinks that as long as his grandson is willing to work hard, then good days will definitely come. And Grandma Zhu also found a special lawyer and asked him to help her recover the part of the money that her children had removed.
It's really unpredictable, and creation makes people! More than ten years ago, when Grandma Zhu hugged Zhu Junlong back and said that she wanted to adopt him, most of the family was opposed, and the children also said"Mom, what's the use of you raising another child, our three children can also support you! Why do you have to add a burden to your home? ”
Picture丨Zhu Junlong.
But now, the words of these children have really slapped themselves in the face. They watched their old mother and father live in a dilapidated and cramped hut
When the parents needed to accompany them, they were not there, but Zhu Junlong, who was adopted before, had been accompanying the old couple, and Grandma Zhu's children should be ashamed!
The last thing people can lose is gratitude, and the most important thing to live up to is the love of their parents. I hope that there is true love everywhere in the world, and everyone can be worthy of their own conscience and the love that others give them.