Personal real-life experiences. (Disclaimer: This article is the original debut of Toutiao, and it has been defended by the whole network, and plagiarism must be investigated, please understand.) )
My father-in-law has four brothers, and my father-in-law is the third. Since we got married, my in-laws asked us to buy New Year's gifts for our uncles.
One son in the eldest uncle's family, two sons in the second uncle's family, three sons in my in-laws' family, and my husband is the eldest in the family. One son of the fourth uncle's family.
When it comes to buying New Year's gifts, our family spends the most money.
Three copies of our family are exchanged for one copy of the uncle's family, and two more copies are bought.
Three copies of our family for two copies of the uncle's family, buy one more.
Three copies of our family are exchanged for one copy of the fourth uncle's family, and there are two more copies.
The point is that our family and my cousin's family buy as many New Year's gifts per person, and my family suffers every year.
If a family doesn't talk to two families, what does it mean to suffer a loss, who calls the in-laws have more children.
Last year, my father-in-law was sick and didn't go back to my hometown for the New Year, so we were all accompanying my in-laws, and my hometown didn't buy New Year's gifts for my uncles.
Everyone tacitly knew that no one had bought New Year's gifts for anyone.
This year, my in-laws didn't go back to my hometown for the New Year as usual, and my husband asked me: Do we still buy New Year's gifts for my uncles? I said: This depends on the lobby brother, they bought it for their parents, we will buy it, if they don't buy it, we will save money.
I feel that our family buys New Year's gifts for uncles and uncles, which is the opposite of the children who receive more red envelopes, and those who have more children receive more red envelopes, and those who have more in-laws have more children and buy the most New Year's gifts.
It used to be the Chinese New Year's Eve to buy New Year's gifts, but it has been two days, and there has been no movement in the family ancestor, which is the rhythm of canceling the New Year's ceremony.
The four brothers-in-law, the relationship between my family and the uncle's family is particularly bad, and I exchange three annual gifts for one annual gift for his family, and I suffer losses every year, the key is that people still don't appreciate it.
Secretly rejoice! Finally, you don't have to spend money in vain!