In this world, we are always in pursuit of happiness and dignity. For some women, however, this quest is often hampered by family conflicts and stereotypes.
The protagonist of this story is an ordinary Anhui woman who married in a foreign land. Spring Festival, for Chinese, is an important time for family reunion, and she is full of anticipation to return to her parents' home and spend a reunion with her parents. However, her father-in-law rejected her wish with the cliché saying "a married daughter is water spilled", and even physically attacked her.
More than just a family dispute, it reflects an old belief that is deeply ingrained in the hearts of some people: once a daughter marries, she completely severs ties with her mother's family. Such a concept is not only ruthless, but also tramples on the dignity of women.
Fortunately, the woman's husband lived up to her expectations. He crossed a distance of 1,600 kilometers and sent his wife back to her parents' home. This behavior shows his understanding and support for his wife, and also allows us to see the glorious image of modern men.
However, this story also makes us think: what should a woman do if she does not have the understanding and support of her husband in such a situation? The answer to this question may seem simple, yet incredibly difficult: if a man is not on your side when you need support the most, then what is the point of such a marriage?
Marriage, which is supposed to be a matter for two people, is a partnership based on mutual respect and equality. However, in reality, we often see the oppression and control of one side over the other. If a woman loses her dignity and freedom in marriage, then what is the value of such a marriage?
So, here's a piece of advice for all women: don't let yourself lose your dignity in your marriage. If your husband doesn't support you and doesn't respect you at a critical moment, then maybe it's time to reconsider the value of the marriage. After all, marriage is not all there is to women, and women have the right to pursue their own happiness and dignity.
When choosing a partner, be sure to look at the person's values and attitudes. Only when both parties can be treated with the respect they deserve can a marriage be truly happy and harmonious. Every woman should stand up bravely and defend her rights and should not be bound by any outdated ideas.
This story is not just a family trifle, it reflects a microcosm of society's understanding of the status of women. What we need is a society of equality, respect and understanding, and such a society is a truly civilized society.