The famous emotional program "Love Defense" has been on the air for 10 years, and it has been popular for 10 years, and it has also achieved the popularity of Tu Lei and the host Zhao Chuan.
Zhao Chuan, who talked eloquently on the stage, was humorous and funny, and many of his views were also convinced by everyone.
In stark contrast to Tu Lei's happy marriage, Zhao Chuan's marriage often becomes a topic of conversation after dinner.
However, his love life did not go as smoothly as his career, the first marriage was with a journalist, the second with a painter, and unfortunately both marriages ended in divorce.
He married a flight attendant who was 16 years younger than him, and this was his third marriage.
This well-known emotional mentor, why did the first two marriages end in failure, and now how does he live with a wife who is 16 years younger than him?
Zhao Chuan was born in an ordinary family in Chengdu, Sichuan, but his arrival was not welcomed by his family.
Zhao Chuan's parents are both literary and artistic workers, and his mother was an actress in a song and dance troupe.
The mother once found out that she was unexpectedly pregnant, but at that time, there was already a 10-year-old daughter in the family, and she did not think about having another child.
The couple unexpectedly became pregnant, and after much deliberation, they decided not to have the baby.
Therefore, the mother planned to go to the hospital for an abortion, and Zhao Chuan's aunt was deeply sorry when she learned about it, so she came to persuade the mother to keep the child.
Since you have arrived here, it is destined fate, and it is also a precious life no matter what.
Zhao Chuan's mother then gave birth to him.
Zhao Chuan once laughed at himself as an adult: "My existence is like a superfluous mistake, and I am a superfluous person." ”
During his childhood, Zhao Chuan was very rebellious, and his grades in elementary and junior high school were terrible. Not only did he not listen carefully, but he also caused trouble in the classroom, causing a lot of trouble for the teachers.
Teachers have communicated with parents many times to discuss how to carry out their children's education. Despite his parents' hard work to persuade him, it still didn't work well.
Therefore, his parents did not have hope for him, but just felt that he would be able to support himself.
His life in junior high school was chaotic, and it was not until he entered high school that he suddenly developed a strong interest in reading, especially literature.
Every day, whenever he has free time, he will indulge in reading books.
His literary skills have gradually improved under the accumulation of long-term reading.
Therefore, every time I see the articles he writes, the Chinese teacher pays special attention to and praises them.
The Chinese teacher once tried to submit his article to a journal and unexpectedly succeeded in publishing it.
Since then, Zhao Chuan's relatives and friends have changed their opinions about him, which has given him great confidence.
Zhao Chuan later began to study hard, he listened carefully to the lectures, and also conscientiously completed the homework assigned by the teacher.
Zhao Chuan's parents were a little surprised to see him change so dramatically, but they were more happy.
Zhao Chuan did not live up to the expectations of his parents and teachers during the college entrance examination, and he was admitted to Zhejiang University of Media and Communication with excellent results.
He left his hometown and went to Hangzhou to study.
Zhao Chuan did not relax after entering the university, but devoted his time and energy to professional courses to ensure that his foundation was more solid.
Zhejiang University of Media and Communication has cultivated many outstanding hosts, such as Shen Tao and Li Weijia, the host of "Happy Camp", who are alumni of the same school as Zhao Chuan.
Compared with others, Zhao Chuan has experienced many setbacks on the road to hosting.
After graduating from university, Zhao Chuan was assigned to work at a TV station in Zhejiang. He is quite satisfied with the job because, after all, Hangzhou offers more development opportunities.
Zhao Chuan's mother wanted him to return to Sichuan to work, but was reluctant to let him work in other places.
Zhao Chuan had no choice but to give up his job in Zhejiang and return to Sichuan.
Zhao Chuan's family discovered a local television station, and he began working there as a journalist.
Zhao Chuan University majored in broadcasting, but it was not easy to find a job that matched his major.
His first job after graduating was as a journalist, and he began a new career.
He was working at the grassroots level in television.
In addition to working as a journalist, I occasionally help the host organize the manuscripts and other related matters that the show needs.
Zhao Chuan is very busy every day, and no matter where he is needed, he will always show up in time.
Despite his busy work schedule, Zhao Chuan still takes his work very seriously because he likes it.
Zhao Chuan faces life with enthusiasm, and his serious work attitude attracts the attention of a girl.
The woman was also a journalist, but she didn't work as smoothly as Zhao Chuan.
She took the initiative to find Zhao Chuan and asked some questions about his work.
Zhao Chuan is a warm-hearted person, she is always willing to share everything she knows, and will patiently explain things to her that she doesn't understand.
They have many topics in common, and over time, they become familiar with each other and start talking about more than just things at work.
Colleagues are also deliberately arranging opportunities for them to be alone in the hope of matching them.
A good feeling gradually developed between them, and eventually they inevitably came together.
When the two first started dating, their relationship burned like a dry fire, and they longed to be together every day. They are surrounded by colleagues and friends who feel that they are a perfect fit.
Zhao Chuan has reached the age where he can get married, and his family often urges him to get married. Despite only being in a relationship with his girlfriend for a few months, he got married in a hurry.
They had a great time after their marriage.
Because of their work, they put their full attention into their work.
Occasionally, when I was asleep in the middle of the night, I suddenly received a notice that I needed to go to another place for live broadcasting.
They are out and about every day, rarely have time to go home, gather less and leave more.
Maybe they met and got married a little fast, didn't know each other well enough, and began to face some challenges when the novelty wore off.
The number of shields is constantly increasing.
As time went on, cracks began to appear in their relationship.
They have been in a dispute for a long time, and the contradictions are constantly intensifying.
The relationship between the two has been devastated by frequent quarrels, and it is clear to them that their love for each other is no longer so deep.
He felt that the relationship between him and his wife lacked foundation, which was a very serious problem.
Eventually, they ended their marriage with divorce.
When his wife watched Zhao Chuan's back leave, she cried bitterly, which made her understand that even the most beautiful relationship will have an end moment.
Zhao Chuan also talked about this failed marriage in subsequent shows.
Their marriage came too hastily, marriage was a big deal, and the two of them had only known each other for a few months.
They don't have a deep understanding of each other, and they don't want to tolerate each other, so it is difficult for a marriage without a foundation to last.
After Zhao Chuan's divorce, he did not indulge in sadness, but quickly cheered up and devoted himself to his work.
Not satisfied with staying in his hometown to work, Zhao Chuan finally persuaded his parents to quit his current job.
Zhao Chuan went to Beijing alone to seek development.
He continued to work as a journalist in Beijing, where he quickly signed a contract with a Beijing company because of his extensive work experience.
For several years, he had been alone and had nothing but work.
Zhao Chuan often goes to art exhibitions to admire works of art in his free time, and it is here that he meets his second partner, which shows that the mystery of fate is self-evident.
She is a good-looking girl and a painter, and her work is very different from Zhao Chuan's.
One is a journalist and the other is a well-known painter, so it can be said that there is no connection between the two.
After the two met, Zhao Chuan would tell her about his work experience, including his daily work situation and the interesting things he encountered at work.
Zhao Chuan fell into the middle of the interesting things about her work and life that the girl recounted, because she always shared them with him.
He has a soft spot for this girl, so he starts a passionate pursuit of her.
Whenever he had free time, he would invite the girl to dinner and surprise her, and these actions soon won him her heart.
Zhao Chuan was carried away by this sudden love, which made him completely forget about his last failed marriage, he reveled in it, and hurriedly got married after only a few months of dating.
The relationship between the two after marriage is quite harmonious, and they also welcomed a lovely son.
His wife has an in-depth understanding of Zhao Chuan's work, and she believes that the profession of host has broad development prospects, and Zhao Chuan himself has excellent eloquence and is very suitable for hosting work.
She suggested that Zhao Chuan move towards the path of the host, but it unexpectedly changed Zhao Chuan's entire life.
Zhao Chuan was moved by his wife's point of view, so he decided to take her advice and start to develop into the field of hosts.
Mongolian Satellite TV invited Zhao Chuan to be the host, because I heard that his work ability is very good.
With his humorous eloquence and solid hosting skills, he has won the love and recognition of a wide audience.
Zhao Chuan officially embarked on his hosting career. That's it.
He has hosted programs on Tianjin Satellite TV and Hebei Satellite TV, and has been well received by the audience.
Zhao Chuan's career has been rising, and he should be grateful to his wife for being able to get to where he is today.
Just when Zhao Chuan's career was booming, his marriage had problems again.
He divorced again, but he did not specify the specific reason for the divorce.
Rumors are mixed, and some people claim that Zhao Chuan abandoned his wife after his career was successful.
However, Zhao Chuan didn't care about this.
Years later, he mentioned a humiliating memory on the show, saying it was a betrayal he had experienced in his marriage.
He didn't say who betrayed whom.
He said that he had been through a lot and was more mature than before, but he still couldn't forgive her.
In this relationship, it can be seen that Zhao Chuan may be the victim, but it doesn't matter who is at fault.
The failure of this marriage is the most important thing, and perhaps both people are responsible.
He believes that while the betrayer is at fault, the other is not entirely innocent.
This failed marriage will allow both him and his wife to grow.
After two failed marriages, Zhao Chuan finally succeeded in the workplace, which can be said to be frustrated in love and proud in the workplace.
Zhao Chuan has accumulated rich experience in the field of hosting, which coincides with the launch of an emotional program called "Love Defense" on Tianjin Satellite TV.
This opportunity was seized by Zhao Chuan, and he officially took over the show.
At first, some viewers were not supportive of him. Zhao Chuan has experienced two failed marriages, so people doubt whether he can successfully host this emotional show.
Zhao Chuan understands that his failed marriage will inevitably have an impact on his work, so he puts himself even harder into his work.
The man, who has been married twice, declares that he no longer believes in love, but he behaves with ease on stage and utters many classic quotes.
He gradually won the recognition of the audience and received unanimous praise.
Although Zhao Chuan has experienced two failed marriages, there are some things that he has learned from failures, and through the experience of failure, he can give better advice to others.
He said many wise quotes in the show, defending every love story.
Zhao Chuan finally ushered in the peak of his career and finally found his own love.
During a business trip, Zhao Chuan met a flight attendant on the plane.
Her appearance is very good, and her temperament is impeccable, Zhao Chuan was deeply attracted to her when he saw her for the first time.
He immediately went to talk, and his colleague saw the situation, so he activated the assist mode, pointed at Zhao Chuan and asked the flight attendant: "Do you know who he is?" ”
She said: "He is the host of "Love Defense", of course I know this. ”
After hearing this, my colleague immediately said: "If it's convenient for you, you might as well leave *** If you have the opportunity, you can come to the live ** show." ”
Although Zhao Chuan remained calm on the surface, deep down he was grateful to his colleagues.
Zhao Chuan often contacted the flight attendant, and she eventually stayed
Although Zhao Chuan is 16 years older than this girl, this does not diminish Zhao Chuan's love for her.
She launched a pursuit, age is not a problem, height is not distance, this is Zhao Chuan's attitude.
They often talk late into the night, but because of their age, they have different perspectives on things.
As an emotional expert, Zhao Chuan believes that this will not affect the communication between them at all.
He always complimented her on her extraordinary looks and temperament, which was irresistible for girls of any age.
Zhao Chuan quickly became obsessed with this beautiful flight attendant.
However, there was a problem in front of him, Zhao Chuan's marriage experience was quite rich, but it all ended in failure.
The girlfriend didn't care about it, but her parents were adamantly opposed to the relationship between the two.
Parents are always full of love for their children and want them to have a good life. There is not a single parent in this world who does not love his child.
It's understandable that the girlfriend's parents don't approve of them being together.
They thought that Zhao Chuan showed a very strong personality in the show, so they were worried that their daughter would be wronged when they lived with him in the future, and they had a premonition that this marriage was destined to be unhappy.
Despite this, Zhao Chuan did not give up. He often visits his girlfriend's house with gifts to visit her parents, and he is always the first to solve anything that needs help at home.
He always smiled and talked to his girlfriend's parents, unconcerned about their indifference.
He wrote a letter of 3,000 words, full of sincerity, in the hope of changing the second elder's opinion. In addition, he also expressed his willingness to pay 1 million as a bride price.
He made a solemn promise to the second elder that he would treat their daughter with sincerity and ensure that she was given the best quality of life. The reasons for the divorce are also explained in detail.
The letter deeply touched the girl's parents, who felt Zhao Chuan's sincerity and agreed that their daughter would be with him.
Zhao Chuan and his girlfriend were very happy because they had the support of their parents, so they began to prepare for the wedding.
Zhao Chuan is very fond of his girlfriend, who is 16 years younger than him, no matter what kind of wedding his girlfriend wants, he will carefully prepare according to his girlfriend's preferences.
After Zhao Chuan got married, although he was busy, he began to attach importance to his family and no longer only focused on work. At the same time, the wife's work is also very busy, so neither of them has enough energy to take care of the family.
Perhaps due to the influence of his first two marriages, he couldn't stand the fact that both of them were busy with work and that the flight attendant industry was quite deep.
So, he persuaded his wife to give up her job and stay at home to take care of the family and educate the children.
Netizens' opinions on him have changed because of this.
Despite being married, the other person's profession should still be respected, so it is considered that his actions are interfering with his wife's work.
Although his wife was reluctant to give up her job, she also understood after seeing Zhao Chuan's resolute attitude, because Zhao Chuan did it for the sake of the family.
So, the wife decided to quit her job and take care of the family and children at home.
Zhao Chuan also knew how to be considerate of his wife, and he persuaded his wife to give up her job, and her wife made sacrifices for this. In line with this decision, he transferred the main responsibility for the family finances to his wife.
Zhao Chuan's dedication to the family is unreserved, he works hard outside the home, and will never do any harm to his wife.
Zhao Chuan is thoughtful and has learned the lessons of his previous two marriages, so even if he is busy, he will find time to go home to spend with his wife so as not to make her feel neglected.
Zhao Chuan will report to his wife what he sees and hears every day, and even if the two places are separated, they will find time to talk or call.
No matter what Zhao Chuan wants to buy, he will first ask his wife's permission before making a purchase.
Women are very secure and once they feel insecure, it can lead to all sorts of problems and even more fights.
Zhao Chuan knew this, and he fully met his wife's security needs, so their marriage has been stable and going from strength to strength.
He proved with his actions that he is capable of defending the love of others, and at the same time defending his own feelings.
Zhao Chuan is still as usual in his work, using his own experience to provide advice to others and protect the love of others.
Zhao Chuan is now over half a hundred years old, not only playing the role of host, but also taking on the responsibility of producer, and successfully realized his original dream.
Zhao Chuan has been performing "Love Defense" on the stage for nearly 10 years, resolving emotional disputes for many couples and saving their love. His outstanding performance has won wide acclaim from the audience.
His only wish is to concentrate on his career and live a peaceful and stable life with his wife.
Finally, to emphasize:
After experiencing the setbacks of two failed marriages, Zhao Chuan finally got his wish and got a happy marriage.
The question has been asked: If his first marriage had been a happy one, would it have had a more positive impact on his achievements?
I'm not sure.
Zhao Chuan must have gained many valuable life lessons from this experience, and he will see a failed marriage as a part of growing up, not a stain on life.
These learnings eventually led him to grow and become a mature man.
He learns how to love someone, how to run his marriage, and when he meets his current wife.
Zhao Chuan has experienced many twists and turns, but in the end, both love and career have achieved fruitful results.