I don't know if parents usually notice such a phenomenon, when children are chatting with themselves or other children, they always like to exaggerate the object and extent of things, and even say some false things that do not exist out of nothing, which is very confusing and headaches for parents.
For example: "I just finished eating a big apple", "I've been to the sky, it's not fun, it's just a lot of birds", "I also carried my dad to that bridge, I have a lot of strength", "I've eaten, I've eaten a lot of vegetables, I'm full, I can't eat", "Mom, my classmates beat me in class, I don't go to school anymore", ......All of these are even obviously unrealistic "lies".
Many parents should be aware that when their children start to be around 2 years old, they will find that their children will say unrealistic things to themselves or other children from time to time.
Sometimes, it is normal to chat, but as soon as a child does something or what he talks about, he will say his "big words" unrealistically. Sometimes those "big words" and "lies" are said too much, and it is easy to say them casually and develop a bad habit of telling lies.
Many times children are unconscious, but as parents raising children, we have to pay attention to this. If your child is always lying, parents should use these three tricks to cultivate their child's honest character.
1. Let children know the dangers of lying
Lying can have a lot of bad consequences, because a lie needs to be covered up with more lies, so that not only do you suffer yourself, but you may also cause harm to others.
Lying can lead to feelings such as self-blame and worry, and it can also make people feel uneasy. Therefore, parents can let their children know the dangers of lying through cases and events in their lives, or stories.
2. Affirm and praise the child's attitude of admitting mistakes.
When a child admits his mistakes, do not blame him, but affirm his attitude of admitting mistakes, so that children can appreciate the value of honesty. Most parents think that children lie mainly because they don't know the consequences of lying. In fact, a child lies for fear that he will be punished for telling the truth, so he chooses to lie to escape punishment. Just imagine, when the child lies and admits his mistake for the first time, not only do you not affirm the child's bravery, but also blame him mercilessly, then the next time he makes a mistake, can you still expect the child to be honest with you?
3. Parents should pay attention to the way of education
If a child likes to lie, he or she will be caught by his parents sooner or later. As a parent, what would you do if your child was caught lying to you? Do you laugh it off, or criticize him angrily?
At this time, parents must pay attention to the way they educate their children, otherwise they will not only not educate their children well, but they will also become negative teaching materials for their children. Parents just need to point out their child's mistakes and help him correct them. Don't break your promise to your child because you can't control your emotions on the spur of the moment.
In fact, the so-called education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid mistakes and reduce the probability of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important thing isIt is necessary to focus on the cultivation of character and character。Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's good behavior habits in a timely manner for children's growthCultivating excellent character habitsHaving a confident and optimistic attitude, learning to control their emotions, and reasonably resolving negative emotions in life are the skills that children should learn.
There are no bad children in this world, only parents who can't teach, and parents put more effort into growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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