A 60-year-old aunt remarried a 40-year-old man, how did she really feel after marriage, she confessed everything
Introduction:
Whether it is a very different old wife or young husband or young wife, a happy and long-term life is not inevitable, because the age difference may lead to a generation gap, and differences in living habits and hobbies will also cause conflicts. Friction inevitably occurs in cohabitation.
Not every couple finds themselves in this situation, and some are still able to live happily ever after, although there are relatively few such examples. It is still advisable to try to avoid marrying people who are too different in age, as this can have a bad effect on the individual and can also make life unpleasant. While genuine dedication usually pays off, sometimes the quality of life can be poor no matter how sincere you give. Therefore, it is prudent to consider marriages with large age differences, so as not to fall into the risk of old cows eating tender grass. I hope everyone chooses carefully.
Today we will share the story of a 60-year-old aunt who remarried a 40-year-old man, and let's listen to how this aunt describes their life experience after marriage.
Narrator: 60-year-old Aunt Ou
This year I have stepped into the stage of my 60-year-old life, and my surname is Ou. When I was younger, I was a successful executive with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan, not only supporting my children, but also creating a privileged life for myself. I consider myself an outstanding woman.
At first, I wasn't so good, but I am grateful to my ex-husband. If he hadn't forged me, maybe I wouldn't be where I am today. We have been divorced for many years because he didn't like me and couldn't make money, so he cheated and filed for divorce, and even kicked me and my children out. At that time, I felt extremely disappointed and regretted marrying him.
In order to become stronger, I worked hard and had a bright mind, although my level of education was limited. I believe that one day I will create a career and become a useful person. With continuous efforts, I successfully worked hard to build a career and became a company executive, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and my life gradually improved.
When I attended an annual meeting, I met my ex-husband by chance. He was surprised to find that the former yellow-faced woman had become richer, dressed more fashionably, and looked much younger. He didn't believe it was the result of my own efforts, and laughed at me for being fostered by others. For this kind of man, I choose to ignore it, it's not worth wasting time.
After learning that I had become an executive at the company, my ex-husband regretted that he had abandoned me in the first place, and tried to redeem and promise to turn things over. I slapped him mercilessly and scolded: "The old lady is not ** garbage, how far can you roll." When you abandoned me, you didn't think that I would be where I am today, and I am grateful to you for letting me see you clearly and making me better. ”
Since then, he hasn't bothered me anymore and I have a peaceful life. The kids have grown up, and I don't have to work so hard anymore. As I get older, I can choose to retire and enjoy my old age.
As I move into retirement, I find myself spending more time on activities I enjoy, such as yoga, square dancing, and beauty gatherings. These are the things I love, not only to have a good time, but also to help maintain my beauty, so I do them every day.
Although I can't receive a salary of more than 10,000 yuan a month after retirement, I have a pension of 7,000 yuan a month, plus some savings and child support, and I am not short of money to spend. My life is very comfortable.
However, to my surprise, I actually chose to remarry, and it was with a 40-year-old man.
I met him at a party, his name is Xiao Wang, and he is a careful and warm-hearted man. Every time we met, he would praise me, care about me, and make me feel good about others. At that time, I just treated him as a younger brother, after all, there was a big age difference, and I didn't feel anything else about him.
After spending a long time with him, he confessed to me. He said that he felt at ease with me because I not only knew how to take care of people, but I was also very caring. He thought he would be happy with me. In addition, he felt that my personality was a bit like his mother, and his mother died very young, causing him to lose his maternal love since childhood. However, since he met me, he felt that he had regained his motherly love, so he liked me very much.
I was very surprised by his sudden confession. I didn't expect a young guy to confess to an aunt at all, so at first I didn't believe it, and even thought he was joking.
He confessed seriously a second time, and I realized that he was serious, and I could see that he really loved me, otherwise he wouldn't be so persistent.
Eventually, I agreed to be with him. Although there are a lot of incompatibility between us, he is really a good person and usually cares about me. Therefore, I would like to try my hand at remarrying, and although I understand that remarriage is risky, I will only know if I can live a happy life until I have experienced it.
After deciding to marry him, he threw a wedding for me, and I was very touched at that moment. When I married my ex-husband, I didn't even wear a wedding dress, and I didn't expect that in my second marriage I would be able to wear a wedding dress and marry the man I love.
It made me feel that he was genuinely treating me. After we got married, I also cared about him very much, and there was a lot of love between us.
Now that we've been together for more than a year, he never asks me for money, but works hard to spend it for me. He really is an excellent man.
A lot of people are curious to ask me how my experience with young men is. I want to tell you that I am living a very happy life. Although many people do not support us being together, thinking that the marriage of an old wife and a young husband will not be happy, I do not agree with this view. I think that as long as you are sincere, no matter how big the age difference is, you can live a happy life, and the old wife and young husband can also be happy.
Closing Remarks:
In the eyes of many people, it is difficult for the marriage of the old cow to eat tender grass for a long time, but this is not the case. As long as both parties truly love each other and give to each other, the marriage can endure. Therefore, the most important thing in marriage is sincerity, as long as sincerity is relative, happiness will not be absent.