How can you tell if a woman is chronically lacking in love? It's a question of the heart. Women who lack love often crave to be loved, so much so that they forget to distinguish between truth and falsehood, right and wrong. They are easily receptive to men's pursuits because they crave more warmth and affection. In this article, I will mention four habits that are common in women who lack love, which are also the reasons why it is easy for men to pursue them. By observing some real stories happening around me, I will show how these four habits manifest themselves.
Loveless women are often gullible to others. A few sweet words from a man can make them fall into it. They often blindly believe in these love words and indulge in them. That's because they don't have itSelf-worthand self-esteem, always expecting someone to love them. Therefore, women who lack love are often easy to accept men's kindness and love, and even if they know that men are taking advantage of them, they will be reluctant to break up and let go.
For example, one of my best friends was scammed out of a large sum of money by a man not long ago. The man she'd only met a few times was able to win her trust. It turned out that the man knew how to confuse her with routines. At first, the man talked to her about feelings, then dreams, and said that they were a match made in heaven. My best friend's parents are divorced a long time ago, and they both have their own families, and no one cares about her. When she was extremely empty in her heart, she was quickly moved when she met someone who resonated with her and cared about her. The man claimed to love her and said that his mother in the family was seriously ill and lent him money for treatment. In order not to lose him, his girlfriend lent him all his savings without thinking. Then, she couldn't contact him, and she thought he was busy taking care of his mother. A month passed, and she gradually realized that she had been fooled and deceived.
Women who lack love are often easily confused by the routines of rich men. Rich men buy them flowers, gifts, take them on trips, give them money, and so on. in the lackSelf-worthIn the eyes of women, these extravagant givings are equivalent to love. Indeed, some women will think that this is true love because of the small efforts of men. Vain women tend to focus only on the money in men, and a little bit of giving will cause them to fall into it.
A famous person once said, "Women who are ruined by vanity are more ruined by love than by love." "A vain woman can only see the riches in men. When rich men give them a little bit, they fall into it blindly. They don't have a bigger vision, they can't see a deeper love. They tend to believe that the love of rich men for them is genuine, when in fact these men may just be using them to satisfy their own desires.
Personally, I know a classmate who has always had a very low self-esteem. When she was thirty years old, she met a man through a blind date. The man had a good sense of humor and admired her so much that she quickly opened up to him. However, she later discovered that the man was actually very attentive, and his praise for her was just a means to pursue her. A woman with low self-esteem is often easily tempted when she meets a man who praises her. They take men's compliments as appreciation for themselves.
Women who lack love are often insecure inside because they are incapable of loving themselves. They want to be protected and cherished, and they need more understanding and care in their relationships. Some insecure women are particularly concerned about material things, believing that they can only feel at ease if they have enough money. In addition, they are also very dependent on men for their loyalty and protection. Because they are insecure, they attach great importance to the loyalty and protection of men, and they are prone to a sense of dependence on such men. It is difficult for an insecure woman to seriously think about whether a man's feelings are real. As long as men show loyalty and protection to them, they will follow them wholeheartedly.
Women who lack love often lack the ability to protect themselves, and they do not know how to protect their hearts and belongings. Once a man gives them a little bit of protection, they develop a sense of dependence. It's hard for them to resist men who are nicer to them. Women who lack the ability to protect themselves are often vulnerable because they do not have the ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood. For a woman who lacks the ability to protect herself, they will take a man's compliment as an appreciation for them, and they will not hesitate to pounce on them as soon as the man stretches out his hands.
Therefore, if a woman who lacks love wants to be guarded by excellent people, she needs to learn to love herself. Only by learning to love yourself can you teach others how to love you. TalkingIn loveIn the process, be slow, because time will tell you the truth and let you see the true heart of a man. Learn to protect yourself and don't give your heart to others easily because of a little "sweetness", so as not to be disappointed.
In short, women who lack love often show a mentality of pursuing love and attention, they are prone to sweet words and vanity**, and lack self-protection and security. If a woman wants a long-lasting happy love, she must first learn to love herself and develop the ability to protect herself. Only in this way will she be able to have better judgment and the ability to grasp true love.