I haven't been back to my hometown for more than ten years, and this time I went back and found that it had changed a lot. The walls of the three-hole cave have been completely renewed, and there are two large houses on both sides of the cave, and the large yards are all hardened with cement. Walking into the house, TVs and computers can be seen everywhere, and the clothes of adults and children are very urban.
Seeing these huge changes, I couldn't help but praise my brother: "Brother, do you remember? When my father was alive, he was always worried that your life would be difficult, but now it ......"From that moment on, I really wanted to open.
My son, 18 meters tall, a talent, and now in his junior year. When he came back two days ago, he promised us that he would spend two months in the summer to study hard at home and try to get admitted to graduate school. But he doesn't get enough sleep every day right now, and I don't care too much about it.
His mother yelled at me, "You don't care! I immediately replied, "He is not a child anymore, and children and grandchildren have their own blessings." ”
Strange to say, three days later, my son began to study hard, and after half a year of hard work, he was really admitted to graduate school.
That night, our family of three had dinner and chatted. My wife suddenly asked me: "In the past, you were like a supervisor, always staring at him to study, but since you came back from your hometown, you don't care about him, but he was admitted to graduate school, do you think it's strange?" ”
I immediately responded: "In this world, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so there is no need to care so much. Sometimes, the more you manage, the worse it works. Just like the last time I went back to my hometown, when my father was alive, he was always worried that my brother would have a hard time, but now ......As I spoke, I told them about the changes in my home.
At this time, the son interjected: "Dad—you're right. I have this experience, the stricter you control me, the less I pay attention to study. You don't care, I'm under pressure, this must be the reason why children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, right? ”