The most feared thing in love is freshness, people feel that everything outside is good at the beginning, and only then do they find out at the best that it is better at home.—Epigraph.
My best friend suddenly called me a **, she said, "I don't know why, when I suddenly heard this sentence, my heart hurt." Maybe it's because I've had this experience, but I just don't care about how I felt at the beginning. ”
We always think that the outside world is wonderful, and we always think that we can find better people. But in the end, I found that the happiness that truly belongs to me is actually around me.
I have a friend who once said to me, "I'd rather be with someone who knows me than with a stranger." "At that time, I didn't understand what she meant, until one day, I met one such person.
He wasn't a very handsome man, and he didn't have much money, but he knew how to take care of people. When we are together, he always surprises and touches me a lot. He would show up when I needed it and make me laugh when I wasn't happy. At that time, I felt very happy and thought that this was the kind of love I wanted.
But after a long time, I realized that he was not as good to me as I imagined. He started to grow cold and started to stop caring about my feelings. I found myself starting to miss the old man and wondering if I really loved him.
I started thinking about what I wanted love to look like. I found that what I wanted was a sense of stability and groundedness. What I want is the kind of love that can go on forever, not the freshness of being short-lived.
I'm starting to realize that happiness is actually very simple. Sometimes all you need is a warm hug and a sincere conversation to make you feel very happy. And those so-called novelties and excitement are only short-term pleasures, and they cannot bring real happiness to oneself.
I began to cherish the people around me and began to manage my feelings with my heart. I found that the happiness that really belonged to me was actually around me. That man, although not the most perfect, gave me the truest sense of happiness.
Therefore, what I want to tell you is: don't give up on the people and feelings around you easily. Don't always think about how wonderful the outside world is, and don't always think that you can find better people. In fact, true happiness is all around us. Only by cherishing the people in front of you and managing your feelings with your heart can you achieve true happiness.
We often make the mistake of not cherishing what we have and regretting it when we lose it. This is true of many things in life, including love.
Therefore, we should learn to cherish the people in front of us, and not wait until we lose them to regret it. Only by managing one's feelings with one heart can one achieve true happiness.
What we are most afraid of in love is freshness, but in fact, what really makes us happy is not the freshness itself, but the person who is willing to be by our side all the time. So, don't be fooled by the novelty and learn to cherish the people in front of you. Because they alone are the most precious treasure in our lives.