Life should not be overly sober. Let it go with the wind, no need to repeat the aftertaste. Life is just a snap of a finger, and there are very few things that really matter. The sun rises, time passes, why bother with certain things to the end? Attachment is often the source of harm. Many times, what really hurts us is not the people and things in the outside world, but the thoughts that can't be let go of in the depths of our hearts. In the long river of life, what is worth spending our lives thinking about and tangled? When the soul is soothed, life is naturally full of relaxation and happiness.
On the road of love, the wisest way to quit is to learn to accept reality and tolerate unsatisfactory and unobtainable love. Your beloved doesn't belong to you, even after hard work, then you should learn to let go and take time to downplay the heartache. Time can always slowly heal our hearts and teach us how to let go of those love that we cannot have. Fate has placed these people in our lives in order to grow us and become an indispensable special lesson in life.
Look down on something, and whatever you lose, don't lose your joy. In life, there are too many things we can't get, and if we always think about it, we will only accumulate more regrets and disappointments, and in the end it will hurt ourselves. Therefore, some things might as well be taken lightly, and if you can't get it, let it go. In the gains and losses, we will always gain something, and those that are lost may come back to our lives in another form in the future and become another wealth of our lives.
I once heard the saying that if you have a poor memory when you are a child, you are often blamed. However, when we grow up or grow old, we find that there are some things that can be forgotten, which is actually a kind of happiness. The reason why we become less happy as we age is because our lives are mostly dictated by the words of others. What makes us happy for a long time may be someone else's casual remark; What makes us sad for a long time may also be the unintentional words of others.
There is a story about an artist who exhibited a work and invited visitors to point out the inadequacies of the work. As a result, everyone came up with different opinions, and some even went out of their way to disparage. The next day, the artist held another exhibition, this time to point out the merits of the work. Many people were full of praise for the work, and it was eventually purchased by a collector for **. The artist concluded: No matter what you do, no matter how good you think you are, there will always be people who will criticize you and there will always be people who will appreciate you. If you give too much consideration to everyone's words, it will only lead to aggravated internal friction, how can you be happy?
Absorbing the opinions of others is a necessary process to improve oneself, but if you care too much about other people's opinions and do not judge them based on your own actual situation, you will only let yourself live in the cage of other people's words. If you pay too much attention to what others say, it will be difficult to live with peace of mind that day. If the mind is filled with too much noise and is not cleaned up in time, it is easy to cause blockages and damage physical and mental health. Only by thinking independently and not being afraid of what others say can you focus on and live your best and truest self.
Writer Lin Qingxuan also once said that if you are less concerned and have fewer things to worry about, people will become more peaceful and happy. The less you care, the less restraints you will have, and the more you let go, the more freedom you will gain. Those who can't love, let go; Forget about what you can't get; Don't remember other people's casual words.