In recent years, China's marriage model has undergone earth-shaking changes, and the traditional "male marriage and female marriage" has gradually been replaced by the emerging "two-headed marriage". This form of marriage emerged in Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions, and was initially watched by the sidelines, but with the highlighting of its unique advantages, it gradually became popular throughout the country.
The growing number of older singles around us has aroused concern about marital difficulties. It's not that these young people don't want to get married, but they have a lot of difficulties in traditional marriage. In the context of economic inequality, the huge cost of bride price and marriage house is prohibitive for many people. In traditional marriage etiquette, the man bears a heavy burden, and the woman has to give up her family name and family. However, the way of thinking of modern people has changed, and the traditional concept of marriage is no longer fully accepted.
With the development of science and technology and the convenience of transportation, many young people choose to live in cities hundreds of kilometers away from their homes in order to pursue their dreams. However, the traditional marriage model has caused a lot of troubles for those who marry far away, such as the cost of traveling home and the stumbling blocks of life. And the "two-headed marriage" provides a solution to these problems.
"Two-headed marriage" was first seen in Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions, and was initially seen by the wait-and-see, but later it was found to be suitable for families who marry far away or have only one child. This model of marriage abandons the traditional concept of marriage, and the pressure on the bride price and the marriage room is greatly reduced. Both parties can live in their own homes, or they can jointly purchase a home belonging to two people, avoiding the embarrassment of the woman leaving the family in a traditional marriage. In addition, both men and women have equal responsibilities in terms of household chores and the economy, creating a win-win situation.
However, the "two-headed marriage" model has also sparked some controversy. In the man's view, this form of marriage may not be fair, as the traditional belief is that couples should live together after marriage. In addition, the issue of having children has also become one of the contradictions of the "two-headed marriage" model, and there are irreversible problems in gender preference and physical damage.
Although the "two-headed marriage" model seems fair in some aspects, there are still some problems that are difficult to solve in practice. The choice of this new type of marriage or traditional marriage should be decided according to the individual's conditions and needs. The key is to manage your marriage with heart and find a way that suits you, so that you can truly achieve a happy and happy life.
For example, Lu Yuming and Jiang Tingting are a couple who choose to "get married at two ends". They work in the city and have their own living circles, but by working together, they have purchased a house for both of them. Such an arrangement is neither far from their respective parents, nor bound by traditional ideas. They share household chores and financial responsibilities equally, which makes marital life more harmonious. This may be a new generation of young people's way of exploring marriage, based on equality and cooperation, to create their own happiness.
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