Men seem to have an innate advantage in terms of mental age, and they are able to maintain a youthful mindset, as if they were stuck in their teenage years forever. Women, on the other hand, are often thought to be at 18 years old in terms of mental age, which is an exaggeration, but it also reflects a certain social reality.
In real life, men and women often have different experiences in the field of blind date. For men, blind dates are often full of expectations and hopes. With a sincere heart, they are looking forward to meeting the girl they like. However, fate sometimes plays tricks on people, leaving men at a loss and disappointed at critical moments. For example, when a man excitedly goes to the door of a girl's house with flowers, only to find that the girl is missing, his mood can be imagined. This sudden sense of loss made him feel depressed and difficult to let go.
Faced with such an unexpected situation, men often begin to reflect on their own problems. They wonder if there's something wrong with their performance. Or is the girl not interested in him at all? This self-doubt not only stems from anxiety about oneself, but also reflects the expectation and disappointment of the blind date process.
And women's performance in blind dates tends to receive more attention. Their behaviour is often perceived as more complex and challenging. For example, when a girl leaves suddenly, the man is often confused and overwhelmed. They began to wonder if the behavior of girls was the result of their willfulness and immaturity. In blind dates, women should show politeness and maturity, rather than willfulness and evasion. The naivety of women may be one of the reasons why they exhibit this behavior, but in any case, politeness and hospitality are essential qualities that must be possessed in society.
While analyzing women's behavior, marital status has also become a factor that cannot be ignored. For example, a woman's divorce experience and whether she has children can influence her mindset and behavior. However, men often do not give up their belief in fate because of this, and they still maintain an optimistic attitude.
Netizens have made various speculations and analyses of women's behavior, thinking that they may be lacking in psychological preparation or being too willful. The relationship between mental age and marital status is also mentioned, and the influence of social experience on maturity cannot be ignored. Faced with women's indifference, men took appropriate action and chose to leave. They think that maybe the two really don't have fate, so what's the point of forcing it?
Politeness is essential in this process. Women's excesses have been criticized, and they should be more mature and rational about blind dates. Women's behavior is a warning, and they should be more introspective and rational about the blind date process. Interactions between adults should be based on reason and respect.
People should be self-aware, respectful and polite. Even in blind dates, these basic social norms cannot be ignored. Finally, both men and women should respect and understand fate. There are some things that can't be forced, and it may be easier to go with the flow.
Blind date is not only a communication between two people, but also a social activity. In this process, etiquette and maturity are particularly important. Only by knowing how to respect each other and treat each other rationally can you make the blind date more pleasant and smooth. I hope that women can treat blind dates more rationally and not act excessively because of impulse. Only by thinking and dealing with it rationally can you find the person who is really suitable for you. Whether it is a man or a woman, when facing fate, you should keep a normal heart. Fate can't be forced, and going with the flow may be the best choice.