30 million singles or good news? The state has introduced three policies, and it is expected that the single will be realized
Due to the influence of traditional thinking, our country has always had more men than women. According to the data, the ratio of male to female population in China is 5124：48.76, with a male population of 7233.4 billion, accounting for 5124% and the female population is 6884.4 billion, accounting for 4876%。There are 34.9 million more males than females.
Simply put, with 100 women and 10507 men, for example, if the ratio of men to women is 1:1, then 5 out of every 100 men cannot get married.
The main reason for this phenomenon is the traditional patriarchal mentality of the past. In the eyes of many people, only boys can pass on the family lineage and continue the incense, so even if the family conditions are not good, they will try to have as many boys as possible.
However, we are not only faced with an imbalance in the ratio of men to women, but also with the impact of high divorce rates and low marriage rates, which pose a huge challenge to our demographics. Nowadays, whether in rural or urban areas, there are more and more men over the age of 30 who have not yet started a family. Especially in some remote rural areas, there are many men in their forties and fifties who have not yet married and had children.
the reasons for the increasing difficulty in finding a wife are directly related to property prices, bride price and the cost of raising children.
In order to fundamentally solve these problems, the state has introduced three major policies to help men start a family and start a business, 30 million singles"There is salvation", singles are out or just around the corner.
01 It is forbidden to determine the sex of the fetus in hospitals.
In the past, in certain social and cultural contexts, men were considered more valuable and important than women, while women were despised or discriminated against. These perceptions generally lead to unequal treatment in the family, education and employment.
With the progress of society and the increase in the awareness of gender equality, more and more people have begun to realize the irrationality and injustice of patriarchal concepts. Women also have wisdom, talent and value, and should also enjoy the opportunity and right to participate in the development of all spheres of society.
Even so, in some remote rural areas, this deep-rooted patriarchal mentality persists. Some families believe that only men can carry on the lineage, so even if there are already three or four girls in the family, they will continue to have children in order to have a boy.
In the past, due to the lack of medical science, we were unable to distinguish between men and women, so many families with strong traditional values wanted to have a boy, and they had to wait until the child was born to know whether it was a man or a girl.
Nowadays, with the continuous progress of medicine, in the absence of relevant policies in the country, many people even go to the hospital to identify the sex of the fetus in order to give birth to a boy at one time, and when they know that it is a girl, they choose to have an abortion. This situation has also led to a long-term phenomenon of more men than women.
However, with the introduction of a policy prohibiting hospitals from assigning the sex of the fetus, the termination of pregnancies in this way has largely stopped.
The current regulations stipulate that:"In accordance with the provisions of this Law, medical and health care institutions conducting premarital medical examinations, diagnosis of genetic diseases, prenatal diagnosis, and performing pregnancy sterilization and termination operations must meet the conditions and technical standards prescribed by the health administrative department of the people's government at or above the county level, and be approved by the local people's health administrative department at or above the county level. Except for medical needs, it is strictly forbidden to use technical means to determine the sex of the fetus"。
However, there are also some private hospitals or individuals who continue to take risks in order to make profits, and the "Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China" has clear provisions in response to this situation:
2) Where it is not medically necessary to conduct fetal sex determination and the pregnancy is artificially terminated by sex selection, the administrative department for family planning or health shall order corrections, give warnings, and confiscate unlawful gains ex officio; where unlawful gains are more than 10,000 RMB, a concurrent fine of between 2 and 6 times the unlawful gains is to be given; where there are no unlawful gains or the unlawful gains are less than 10,000 RMB, a fine of between 10,000 and 30,000 RMB is to be given; where the circumstances are serious, the business license shall be revoked by the original permit-issuing organ; Where the criminal law is violated, criminal responsibility shall be pursued in accordance with law.
In addition, while prohibiting hospitals from identifying the sex of the fetus, the state has also opened up the policy of having two and three children, encouraging people to have more children, which has also been alleviated to a certain extent"It is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law"pressure.
02 Crack down on sky-high bride prices.
The phenomenon of high bride price is usually found in traditional Chinese weddings, and it is a kind of money that the man gives to the woman in order to get married.
However, with the change of the times, the problem of bride price has become more and more serious, and it has become a major obstacle on the road to marriage. In rural areas, there are many young people who have to be single because they cannot afford to pay the bride price.
It is said that in Jiangxi, Henan and other places, the bride price can even reach two or three hundred thousand. In this case, if the man's family is financially constrained, he will eventually be forced to be single.
What's more, for many families, the high dowry is not only a restriction on marriage, but also a burden. In order to meet the high dowry demands of the women, some families even went into debt, which in turn caused further hardship for already financially strapped families.
Of course, in real life, because of the high bride price and huge debts, the man is still empty, and there are not a few singles.
The good news is that the state has enacted a high bride price"Maximum bride price"The Civil Code, which has been promulgated and implemented, also explicitly prohibits anyone from soliciting property through marriage! In some regions, there is even a cap on the bride price. This is undoubtedly good news for those singles who are forced to be single because of the bride price.
3.Limit high housing prices.
Nowadays, owning a car and a house has become a rigid criterion for many women to choose a mate. This phenomenon is not only seen in the cities, but also in the countryside. Some young women demand that the man not only have his own house in the countryside, but also that he buy a house in the city.
However, housing prices remain high today, even if the property market enters the adjustment cycle, but the current ** of 100 new houses in the city is still 1.6 million euros, which is not consistent with the per capita disposable income of residents is only three or four million a year, in other words, the ** of any salary can not catch up with the speed of housing prices**, in this case, if a man from an ordinary family wants to buy a house in the city, he must not only empty his own pocket, but also empty his parents' money bags. Parents' purses will also be emptied.
And when you buy an apartment, not only do you have to pay hundreds of thousands of down payments, but you also have to pay a mortgage loan for twenty or thirty years, which makes you a real slave to the house.
Therefore, in recent years, the state has increased the supervision of the real estate industry, and after national regulation and control, the real estate industry has developed steadily and healthily, and the housing prices will not be unlimited**.
In addition, the state will also limit the possibility of property developers driving up house prices and provide political support for homeless families to buy homes to further reduce the pressure to buy homes.
In short, over the years, the state has introduced relevant policies in various fields to alleviate the problem of marriage and love among young people.
But as individuals, whether men or women, we need to improve our self-worth and establish a correct view and values of marriage.
In addition, the economic situation and values of each family are different, so it is necessary to negotiate a marriage that is suitable for both parties according to the actual circumstances of the man and woman, and there are fewer imposed criteria in the selection of a mate. What do you think? Agree with the taste! Wan Zi Qianhong said: Every word of the article knocked out my heart, click one"On the clock"and let me know that you are also working for life"Do your best"。