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Xue Yiran once wrote in "The Truth in the Workplace": "In this era, everything can be rolled, except for growth. ”
Indeed, many people choose to roll not because they are improving themselves, but because they are afraid of being left behind by this era and left behind.
But in fact, although we have to admit that we cannot be completely separated from each other, we cannot isolate this human world ourselves.
But there is no doubt that in this world, not all fish will live on the same water, and a really smart person must know how to keep himself independent.
Only by remaining independent financially and personally can you finally be able to live more comfortably, more confidently, and more calmly in life.
Being a person can roll in, but you must remember that the purpose of the volume is to improve yourself, to perfect yourself, and to achieve yourself.
Involution is to roll yourself
Many times, "involution" means internal friction for many people.
As a result, too many people let themselves constantly "roll" with others in order to be able to live a life that is successful and decent in the eyes of others.
But in fact, this kind of "rolling" process is actually very easy to fall into a useless situation, and in the end it will only entangle with others and consume people for no reason.
To put it bluntly, it's okay for a person to choose "volume", but don't really lose yourself in order to live like someone else, or live like someone else wants.
To put it bluntly, a truly intelligent person will definitely try his best to return himself to a quiet, rational, and restrained state of life.
Then, reorganize your thinking, open your own cognition, strengthen your mind, and rely on yourself to lay out your own life.
In the whole process, even if it is a "volume", it is worth it, even necessary.
What people are most afraid of is to treat life with a passable, assertive, and enterprising attitude, and eventually waste their good years in vain.
Be more demanding of yourself and be tougher in action, and you will slowly find that in fact, we can also let ourselves know more and more in the process of rolling ourselves, and even open our eyes.
Improve yourself and achieve yourself
I like a sentence in "Cognitive Breakthrough":
"Anyone can do it for a long time with low-quality busyness, as long as the company doesn't go out of business.
The difficult thing is to break yourself and grow new life from the old shell. ”
When a person knows how to improve himself and constantly "roll" himself, it is actually very easy to improve his cognition and let himself know more in the process of growth.
Therefore, when a person continues to cultivate his self-cultivation and chooses self-improvement, he can gradually avoid some long-term and low-quality busyness.
Then, in the process of breaking the self, he constantly reinvents a different self.
Too many people, too short-sighted, will only think about the one-third of an acre in front of them, and are even willing to be entangled by some very shallow and trivial things, and even be kidnapped by some villains and rotten people for a lifetime.
Really smart people will definitely let themselves stand on a high place, see the whole situation more transparently and more soberly, and indeed let themselves get more opportunities and conditions through personal efforts and growth.
In this way, when you have more life experience and experience, you can naturally have more expectations for your life.
Life is all about yourself
A truly intelligent person will definitely find ways to rely on himself in everything in life.
Indeed, many times, the reason why we feel helpless, or even feel powerless, is because we do not have the ability and wisdom to "roll" ourselves.
After all, life has always been difficult, and it can even be said to be very hard, and only when we continue to grow up and become strong on our own, then we will have the corresponding ability and wisdom, confidence and strength to choose the life we want.
There is no doubt that before we have these conditions, we must continue to grow on our own, and we need to endure enough bitterness and tears, and bear enough bitterness and confusion.
It can even be said that only in the process of suffering, slowly come out, climb out, choose Nirvana and be reborn in the trough, and finally be able to meet your own beautiful life.
Relying on ourselves and "rolling" ourselves, we will have more and more strength and resources, and then really rely on ourselves to do a good job in this life.