Inside the grand mansion doors, as heavy wooden doors open one after another, we enter an intricate family world. In this world, each character is like a carefully carved chess piece, carrying their own destiny and secrets. However, among these many characters, there is one person who always seems to be standing in the shadows, silently observing everything - he is the second master, a man who is gentle and humble on the surface, but has tenacious principles in his heart. His presence is like a quiet force, silently supporting the harmony and balance of the mansion door.
Whenever night fell, when the other members of the mansion gate were immersed in their own laughter, the second master would always retreat to his study, which was his real haven. In the dim light, the tip of his pen dances on the paper, drawing a gripping picture. Behind these paintings, there is a hidden inner world and emotions that have never been confided in him.
On such a calm night, an unexpected event shattered the tranquility of the mansion door.
The silent dedication of the first and second masters.
In the family background of the traditional mansion gate, the existence of the second master is like an inconspicuous pearl, silently exuding a gentle light. His daily life is full of devotion to the family and support for his second grandmother.
Early one morning, the second master got up early as usual, and he walked lightly to the kitchen and began to prepare breakfast. He skillfully lit the stove and cooked the fragrant porridge. The back of the second master who is busy in the kitchen is particularly harmonious.
When the second grandmother woke up, she found that breakfast was already on the table. She walked to the dining table and saw that the second master was preparing other food. When the second master heard the footsteps, he turned his head and smiled and said, "Breakfast is ready, you can eat it first." ”
Such a scene is ordinary in the gate of the mansion. The second master always silently does what he can behind the scenes, creating a warm and harmonious atmosphere for the family. Although the second grandmother is the principal of the family, with the silent support of the second grandfather, she can better exert her abilities.
In the afternoon, several elders of the family gathered in the living room to discuss family affairs. The second master sat on the sidelines, listening to their discussion. Although he rarely speaks, whenever the elders encounter problems, the second master can always put forward just the right suggestions. Although his words are not many, he always gets to the point.
In the family, although the role of the second master is inconspicuous, he always contributes to the family in his own way. He is not only the strong backing of the second grandmother, but also an indispensable source of wisdom in the family.
In the evening, the second grandmother encountered some problems when dealing with household chores. She frowned, looking a little anxious. The second master walked up to her and asked softly, "Is there anything I can help with?" ”
The second grandmother glanced at him and shook her head: "No need, I'll deal with it myself." ”
The second master did not leave, but stood quietly aside, ready to help. His presence gave the second grandmother great psychological support and made her feel no longer lonely.
It was late at night, and the second master and the second grandmother were busy in the room. The second master took out his treasured four treasures of the study and began to write. His brushstrokes are smooth and his handwriting is neat, showing his profound cultural heritage. The second grandmother was sorting out the family's account books, her brows were tightly knit, and she seemed very focused.
On such a night, the second master and the second grandmother are each doing what they are good at, but they both have each other's existence in their hearts. The silent support of the second grandmother allowed the second grandmother to handle family affairs more confidently, and the second grandmother's ability and determination also made the second grandmother proud of her.
2. Different educational philosophies.
In the family, the second grandfather and the second grandmother show a significant contrast in the methods of educating their children. The second grandmother used a traditional and stern way, while the second grandmother chose a more gentle method.
One afternoon, the children of the family frolicked in the courtyard. Xiaobao accidentally breaks a vase, which attracts the attention of the second grandmother. The second grandmother's voice immediately sounded in the courtyard: "Xiaobao, come here!" ”
Xiaobao walked over in fright, bowing his head. The second grandmother looked at the broken vase, and her face became serious: "Look at the good things you have done!" ”
Xiaobao didn't dare to look up, but replied in a low voice: "I'm sorry, grandma." ”
The second grandmother picked up a bamboo pole and looked at Xiaobao: "Next time you do it again, see how I punish you!" ”
And at the same time as this scene happened, the second master was walking out of the study. Seeing this scene, he walked over gently, took the bamboo pole from the second grandmother's hand, and said softly, "Let me deal with this matter." ”
The second grandmother was a little dissatisfied, but she still handed over the bamboo pole to the second master. The second master held the bamboo pole, but instead of hitting Xiaobao, he whispered to him, "Do you know what you did wrong?" ”
Xiaobao nodded and replied in a low voice, "I shouldn't play ball in the house." ”
The second master nodded and put down the bamboo pole: "Remember the lesson this time, and be careful in the future." ”
This kind of education method reflects the second master's understanding of human nature and respect for the child's personality. He prefers to let children recognize their mistakes and learn from them through dialogue and communication, rather than simply punishing them.
This gentle and inclusive approach to education not only helps children solve practical problems, but also develops their ability to think independently. The second master's behavior shows his respect and understanding of each child's unique personality, and he pays more attention to the growth and development of the children's inner world.
Under the influence of the second master, the children in the family gradually showed more self-confidence and independence. Instead of being frightened by mistakes, they learn to learn from their mistakes and face challenges bravely.
Third, the inner tenacity of the second master.
Although the second master always gives the impression of being gentle and elegant, his inner tenacity and principles are well known in the family. This steadfast attitude is reflected in many family affairs.
Once, an elder in the family proposed to invest in a seemingly profitable but extremely risky business. At the family meeting, the proposal sparked heated discussions. The second master listened quietly, and then expressed his opinion at the appropriate time.
He said: "This investment is too risky and not conducive to the long-term stability of the family. ”
The elder was a little displeased and retorted, "But this is a rare opportunity. ”
The second master responded calmly: "The stability of the family is more important than temporary interests. ”
His words, though brief, made a clear position. In the end, the family decided to give up this venture capital, which also verified that the second master's judgment was correct.
In family life, the second master's support for his wife is also obvious. The second grandmother often encounters challenges and difficulties when dealing with family affairs. During these times, the second master always stood by her side, providing necessary help and support.
Once, the second grandmother was questioned and pressured by the outside world because of a family decision. After learning of this situation, the second master took the initiative to find the second grandmother and asked her if she needed help.
The second grandmother said with some annoyance: "This decision is difficult, and there is a lot of pressure from the outside world. ”
The second master replied softly: "I have always supported your decision, and you don't have to be in the voice of the accident world." ”
His words gave the second grandmother great encouragement and comfort, and gave her the courage and confidence to continue to move forward. This firm support of the second master not only protects the harmony of the family, but also deepens the trust and dependence between their husband and wife.
When dealing with family disputes, the second master is always able to remain calm and rational. He does not make impulsive decisions because of the emotions of the moment, but will consider all factors and strive to make the most beneficial choice for the family. This way of dealing with problems has earned him the respect and trust of everyone in his family.
Fourth, the forbearance and support of the second master.
The second master's forbearance and deliberate choice are reflected in the daily life of the mansion gate. He always used his own way to silently support the harmony of the second grandmother and the family.
At a family gathering, the second grandmother and other family members disagree over an important family decision. The discussion became more and more intense, and the atmosphere became more tense. The second master listened quietly on the side, and did not immediately express his opinion.
The second grandmother looked at the second grandfather, as if seeking support. The second master whispered to her, "You say it first, I support your decision." ”
The second grandmother nodded and continued to elaborate on her point. During the discussion, although the second master did not speak directly, he always paid attention to the performance of the second grandmother and was ready to support her when necessary.
In the end, with the silent support of the second grandfather, the second grandmother successfully persuaded the other family members to accept her decision. This scene once again proves the power of the second master's silent support behind him.
When dealing with daily affairs in the family, the second grandfather always supports the second grandmother in a meticulous and thoughtful way. Once, the second grandmother needed to prepare a family banquet, and there were many affairs, and she seemed a little busy. When the second master saw this situation, he took the initiative to take on part of the work.
He arranged for the kitchen to prepare the food and instructed the servants to set up the banquet venue. Although most of these tasks are usually taken care of by the second grandmother, the second grandfather can handle them skillfully and keep everything in order.
At the beginning of the banquet, the second grandmother looked a little tired because of the intense preparations. The second master whispered to her, "You take a little rest, I'll come and see here." ”
The second grandmother nodded gratefully and relaxed a little. The banquet went smoothly under the careful management of the second master, and the family members and guests were full of praise for the banquet.
In the complex interpersonal relationship of the mansion gate, the second master is always able to accurately grasp his role and positioning. He knew that his advantage lay not in direct strife or confrontation, but in silent support and coordination. This method not only helped the second grandmother to give full play to her talents, but also contributed an important force to the harmony of the family.
When dealing with the external relationship of the family, the role of the second master cannot be ignored. Sometimes, families encounter challenges and pressures from the outside. In these moments, although the second master is not the one to face the conflict directly, he is always able to provide effective advice and support behind the scenes.
Fifth, the talent and sacrifice of the second master.
In the context of that era, the second master's talent was not fully displayed, but his deep affection and exquisite skills for the four treasures of the study were well known in the family. Whenever night falls and the other members of the family rest, the second master will often immerse himself in his calligraphy and painting world alone in the study.
In the study, under a dim light, the second master was concentrating on splashing ink. His desk is filled with all kinds of pen, ink, paper and inkstones, each of which shows his cherishing of the four treasures of these scholars. Although few people in the outside world have seen his works, the second master can show his talent to the fullest in this small world.
On this day, the second grandmother walked into the study and saw that the second grandmother was concentrating on painting. She whispered, "Your painting has improved again." ”
The second master stopped his pen and replied with a smile: "It's just a pastime." ”
If you can show more, the family's reputation will be even greater. The second grandmother proposed.
The second master shook his head slightly: "I prefer to be behind the scenes." ”
Although the second master's talent was not widely recognized, he did not think about it. He enjoys having a dialogue with his art world in this quiet space.
In the family, many affairs need to be handled by the second grandmother, and the second grandfather is silently supporting behind the scenes. Sometimes, the second grandmother feels exhausted when dealing with complex family affairs. At this time, the second master would always silently make a pot of tea for her on the side, or hand over the poem he had just written, bringing her a trace of spiritual comfort.
The second master's silent dedication and sacrifice did not appear prominent in the life of the mansion, but he always contributed to the harmony and stability of the family in his own way. His attitude to life and values are particularly precious in the context of that era.
Even in the eyes of outsiders, the second master always seemed to be under the aura of the second grandmother, but he never showed any dissatisfaction or jealousy. He was always content with the status quo and content to be able to support the family behind the scenes, supporting his wife.
This is a faithful portrayal of the second master's life, whether it is from the perspective of family, work or education, although the second master is light on the surface, but his heart has always been very concerned and loving the second grandmother, this is the most worthy of marrying man.
Reference: "The Gate of the Mansion".