"Every woman has her own piece of heaven. "In "Parents' Love", Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning, the two daughters of the Jiang family, chose completely different life paths, one became a stepmother and the other became the wife of a major general. What is it about this that makes them go to a very different end on the road to marriage?
At the beginning of the story, the encounter between Jiang Defu and An Jie is like the plot of a movie. At the ball of the artillery school, Jiang Defu, a naval officer, fell in love at first sight with An Jie, a rich young lady from a capitalist. The two overcame many difficulties such as differences in origin, disparity in education level, and poor living environment, and raised five children together through decades of ups and downs.
And Jiang Yafei, the eldest daughter of the family, is the most decisive among the children of the Jiang family. Her love experience was not as smooth as her character. Three marriages, three men, but only the last one accompanied her to the end of happiness. So, why did Jiang Yafei finally choose to marry Wang Haiyang and become a second-married woman?
When Jiang Yafei was young, her mother An Jie arranged a blind date for her to be Meng Tianzhu, a cadre who was considered to be the most promising. However, this blind date did not go too far, because Jiang Yafei was not interested in Meng Tianzhu. Instead, she chose Secretary Yu Daguang, a person who is handsome in appearance but is not as good as Jiang Yafei in terms of identity and family. An Jie and Jiang Weiguo did not agree that they were together, Yu Daguang decisively denied the relationship with Jiang Yafei in order to avoid trouble, and was finally transferred, and Jiang Yafei's first love ended without a problem.
The third man is Wang Haiyang, the happy enemy who has quarreled with Jiang Yafei since he was a child. This relationship did not have a chance to develop when they were young, because Wang Haiyang was looked down upon by Jiang Defu and was even sent back to the countryside. More than a decade later, the two met again at different stages of their lives. Wang Haiyang is divorced and has a child. At this time, Jiang Yafei was 35 years old and single. The two rekindled the spark of love, Jiang Yafei chose to follow her heart and insisted on marrying Wang Haiyang, who was married for the second time. This marriage choice caused An Jie's dissatisfaction, but Jiang Yafei and Wang Haiyang finally got the marriage certificate without telling their families.
Why did Jiang Yafei choose to marry Wang Haiyang and become a second-married woman? First of all, this is because she admires and appreciates Wang Haiyang's changes and achievements all the time. From a humble boy to a university professor, Wang Haiyang has shown unlimited potential and knowledge. Secondly, Jiang Yafei cherishes this lost love, and she doesn't want to miss it again. Most importantly, she chose to follow her heart rather than be subject to society's vision, expressing her insistence on the right to choose her own marriage.
The two sisters, Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning, have very different experiences on the road to marriage. First, they have different views on the criteria for choosing a mate. Jiang Yafei likes tall, handsome, and temperamental intellectuals, while Jiang Yaning hopes that her future husband will be respected outside like her father Jiang Defu, and take care of his wife and children at home. This reflects the values and standards that they have embraced in their families since childhood.
Secondly, Jiang Yafei's personality is big, unique and strong. She didn't want her marriage to be strongly interfered with by her mother Anjie, and she was disgusted by the blind date arranged by her parents. Her choice reflects her insistence on the right to choose her own marriage. Jiang Yaning, on the other hand, has a gentle personality, has witnessed the happy love of his parents since he was a child, and wants to find a man like his father Jiang Defu.
In the end, Jiang Yafei's choice was also influenced by An Jie and Jiang Defu's marriage. An Jie had high hopes for Jiang Yafei's blind date Meng Tianzhu, but Jiang Yafei's rebellious psychology made her choose another path. Jiang Yaning is in.
Because Jiang Defu is a spoiled wife, he has a strong interest in a promising man like Meng Tianzhu.
Every woman has her own piece of the pie, and this includes when it comes to marriage choices. Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning have chosen different paths, but they are both pursuing their own happiness and dreams. Jiang Yafei's choice expresses her dedication to true love, her listening to her inner voice, and her insistence on the right to choose her own marriage. She dared to accept a second marriage, dared to be a stepmother, and finally found her own happiness. And Jiang Yaning, under the influence of her parents, chose a man she thought met her father's standards and lived a continuation of her parents' love.
In this story, we see women's autonomy in their choice of marriage, their pursuit of love and their dedication to happiness. Everyone's life path is different, and we should be brave enough to pursue our dreams and happiness. The story of Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning tells us that only by truly living out our own world can we find our own happiness.