When a person stays up until there are no friends, no socializing, no parties
With the progress of the times, the pace of human life is accelerating day by day, and the patterns and customs of human interaction are also changing.
I've found that many people don't have friends, they have a lot of ** on their phones, but they don't need to go to any parties, they don't need to socialize, they are completely immersed in their own world.
This has been the case since time immemorial. Society is a way of communication and interaction, enabling us to build relationships, share feelings and experiences, and receive support and assistance.
In today's world, the means and channels of social communication are very diverse, from direct face-to-face communication to the use of a variety of social media, enabling people to contact and interact with others at any time and in any place.
However, I have found that many people don't even have friends, let alone be together.
They may feel lonely and helpless in their work and life, and lack emotional support and care.
So, what's going on? I believe that this is because:
1.Work-life tension: Nowadays, people have no time to take care of interpersonal relationships and friendships due to the tension between work and life.
2.The role of social media: While social media enriches the ways of human interaction and interaction, it also makes individuals rely too much on the Internet and ignore the real social relationship.
3.Changes in living conditions: Due to the acceleration of urbanization and the change of living conditions, the social circle of residents has gradually narrowed, and there is a lack of interaction and interaction with the people around them.
Lack of social interaction has certain negative effects on the mental state of the individual, such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, etc.
Some people go to work when the door is crowded, the mobile phone rings non-stop, and people come and go in front of the door. But as soon as it retreated, everyone quieted down, and the excitement and prosperity of the past were gone.
Those who are broad-minded like this kind of calmness, while those who are narrow-minded will have a sense of loss.
But that's the way it is, and there's nothing we can do to change it.
The best thing to do is to leave everything behind and treat the whole world as a big stage in which everyone has a role to play.
The world of being alone, whether it is quiet or detached, is the beautiful realm of life.
As long as you can endure the lonely time, endure the time alone, like to walk by yourself, like to walk alone, like to read alone.
I really have to avoid the complicated **, invitations, parties, give up those so-called circles, keep going to bed early and getting up early every day, be kind to yourself, have no ideas in your heart, everything is so relaxed.
As long as you can walk with your nature and be content, then congratulations that you have reached the highest level of life.
You've grown up!