Today has summarized the 5 annoying behaviors in interpersonal communication, come and see if you have it, change it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't.
Many people have the experience that after lending money to a friend, the other party always shirks it for various reasons, and they don't pay it back if they delay it again and again.
This kind of behavior is extremely offensive and can seriously affect the relationship between friends.
Therefore, remember to keep your word, borrow and repay, this is the basic rule that friends should abide by.
Even if you don't have the money to repay for the time being, you should take the initiative to contact a friend to explain the situation, seek understanding, and return the loan as soon as you can.
Money is character, those "friends" who always want to take advantage of you and make you suffer losses are selfish and unkind, untrustworthy and deep friends.
In life, we often meet such people: they talk very well, but they are very careless in doing things, and they like to shirk their responsibilities when they encounter problems, and this kind of person is often unreliable.
When you give people the impression of being unreliable and unreliable, you will lose the trust of others.
No matter how good the cooperation opportunity is in the future, others will skip you directly because they are worried that you will drop the chain.
Reliable people, no matter what they do, have a beginning and an end, they will not give up halfway, once they start to do something, they will do their best, and they will not be perfunctory.
Be honest and trustworthy, so as to gain the long-term trust of others and maintain good interpersonal relationships.
In life, everyone will have unsatisfactory times, and it is normal to complain once in a while or two.
But we need to be wary of people who complain and sigh all day long.
Whether in life or work, complaining is always a dose of poison.
Because emotions are contagious, after a long period of contact with complaining people, we will be dragged into the whirlpool of negative energy, become depressed, and lose enthusiasm for life.
So, learn to control your emotions and maintain a positive mindset.
I believe that many people will have such friends around them, and they put themselves in a very pitiful position.
Every now and then, I take something from my friends, and in their opinion, you have so many anyway, it's okay to give me one.
If you refuse, they'll call you stingy.
Such a group of people, they like to be a party of reaching out, habitually taking doctrine, morally kidnapping others, in order to achieve their own goals, I hope you are not such a person.
Comment and criticize, and even force suggestions to others.
Obviously, you do it independently, and there are always people who have to direct the process, as if it is because of his guidance that you can do well.
Unscrupulously evaluates you, and even wants to manipulate you and make you live according to his wishes.
As everyone knows, this kind of behavior is extremely annoying and can seriously hurt the feelings of others.
Being able to speak well is the most basic cultivation of adults. And those who have poor interpersonal relationships are often caused by inappropriate words.
So, learn to keep your mouth shut and gossip less. It's okay to care about others, but don't be judgmental; Caring for others is okay, but it can't be an invasion of privacy.