In the eyes of men, some women are born with a unique charm that attracts men so much that they can't help but want to get closer.
This charm is not just the beauty on the outside, but a temperament and charm that exudes from the inside out. These women usually possess certain qualities that give them a special place in the minds of men. Many people think that only beautiful women will become a man's "lover", but this is not the case. The ideal lover in a man's mind is not necessarily a woman with a perfect appearance, but a woman who can truly understand and care about a man's inner world and connect with their heart. They know how to balance their careers and families, and they can support and help men when they need them, while also giving them enough freedom and space. So, in the eyes of men, what are the three types of women who can develop into "lovers"? 
The first is a woman who is desperately lacking in love.
This kind of woman craves attention and care because of the extreme lack of love in her heart. They often show signs of weakness, dependence, and a desire to be protected, instilling pity and a sense of responsibility in men. Men will unconsciously want to give them more love and support, as if this is the only way to meet their psychological needs. They can easily arouse men's desire to protect, and they are also easily attracted by the love given by men, so they fall into "lovers". However, this kind of relationship is difficult to last, because such women often need more attention and pampering, and most men do not have enough energy and patience to meet their needs. So, if you really want to be with such a woman, you need to be well prepared and willing to put more effort into the relationship. 
The second type is the woman of utilitarian materialism. This kind of woman pays attention to material comforts and pursues a high quality of life. They are usually more pragmatic and know how to use their beauty and charm to get what they want. In the eyes of men, although such a woman is a little worldly, she is full of ** power. Because they can bring material satisfaction to men and make men feel very face-saving. At the same time, with material attraction, they are often more likely to fall into the arms of men and become men's "lovers". However, a utilitarian woman is not for all men. If you are a more materialistic person yourself, then you may be more compatible with such a woman. But if your values are more focused on emotional and spiritual communication, then a utilitarian woman may not be the best choice for you. 
The third type is the pleasure-hungry woman. This kind of woman usually pays more attention to the happiness and satisfaction of the moment, likes to pursue new and exciting things, and enjoys all kinds of pleasures brought by life. They do not cling too much to traditional morals and values, do not care whether men have families, and do not impose responsibilities on men. In the eyes of men, such a woman is full of charm and power. Their courage and determination make men feel fresh and attractive. However, a woman who is greedy for pleasure is not suitable for a long-term relationship. Because they tend to pursue the happiness and satisfaction of the present moment excessively, and neglect the planning and responsibility for the future. It is very difficult to develop this relationship into a stable marital relationship. After all, if you have seen the sea, you will not easily stop for a stream. Of course, no matter what the standard is, both parties need to have enough communication and exchange on the emotional and spiritual level. A long-lasting and stable relationship can only be built on the basis of mutual understanding and respect.