Many people have the habit of setting a New Year's flag, but once the Spring Festival is over, many people realize that the progress bar for the new year has been cut off.
How does time slip through your fingertips?
Unfortunately, there are many people who never have a goal, or who set a so-called goal but never achieve it.
If you want to talk about what you are afraid of in life, confusion is one of them, it will make our time run idle, but we can't leave anything.
Paul Netz said
"One of the dangerous mistakes that man makes is to forget what his goal is. ”Life without a goal is like a ship sailing on the sea without direction, and it will be lost, stranded, or even stagnant at any time.
Anyone with life experience will know that this is dangerous.
Yu listened to two real life stories and told the state of many people.
Two women who don't know each other, both born in the 90s, are of the same age, are engaged in the same industry, and have obtained completely different results, but they are equally confused.
One of them said that his qualifications were very ordinary, his family conditions were very bad, and his academic qualifications were average, because he chose the right track and entered early, so he achieved financial freedom early, and just over 30, he had rich material conditions.
Seven or eight years ago, she came to a certain first-tier city from her hometown to enter the cross-border e-commerce industry, although she made money, she said that she is quite confused now, and she has no previous momentum.
Another woman, who is also doing cross-border e-commerce, is in a completely different situation.
She said that she was also very confused, she had worked this track for several years but failed, and she couldn't get things done after learning a lot, so she was about to give up, not knowing what to do next.
The story of two people makes people feel the wonder of life, some people seem to take off when they hit it by mistake, and some people stumble and bare and still can't see hope.
But no matter whether they succeed or fail, it seems that it has little to do with their confusion, just a little bit different.
Like them, confusion and confusion are common conditions for most people.
The book "Handwritten Life" sees this state as the equatorial windless zone of life.
In reality, the equatorial windless belt is a large area of the sea north of the equator, and it is a frightening area of the ocean.
Due to its proximity to the equator, the sun shines nearly directly all year round, and the resulting heat wave makes the air pressure in the area very low, causing the prevailing winds to disappear for several weeks, posing a deadly threat to human survival.
When the ship is trapped in the equatorial windless zone, the sails must be lowered, the sun shines down, the boat makes it very difficult, the hot and humid weather makes the life of the people on the ship extremely tormented, sickness, pain tortures the human heart, can only pray that there is a rare wind blowing, otherwise hunger or dehydration will take people's lives.
When people are confused, similar to this, many people describe themselves stumbling in a dark room, and some people feel like they are walking through a maze, walking and returning to the same place, that kind of difficulty can only be experienced by those who have experienced it.Life is a one-way street, and you will never be able to experience the problems and emotions you encounter at the age of 35 at the age of 30**.
What kind of person do you want to be?It is a life question that everyone has to face and ask themselves repeatedly.What are you going to do, go to **?
If you don't have a goal in life, even if you do something right with luck, you will lose your life with strength.
This is what Paul Netz calls the dangerous thing in life.
So, how can you keep a clear understanding of your life?
The answer is -The term "intentional life" comes from "A Handwritten Life" and is the conclusion of the author later in the book.
When you read this word, you will feel that it is the soul of the book, and it pierces the truth of many people's confused lives.
There is no purpose, no direction, going with the flow, doing my own thing is the posture of many people, and it is also the source of their confusion.Just like when crossing the equatorial windless zone, there is only one thing - a nautical diary that can save the ship from the equatorial windless zone and avoid crossing the equatorial windless zone on subsequent voyages.
Handwritten diaries can also lead people through the windless equator of life and bring people out of the fog.
It allows one to live a deliberate life.
In the book, the author tells several examples of people who do things unconsciously, including a woman who was supposed to go to the airport more than 100 kilometers away to pick up people, but ended up following the navigation in the opposite direction for more than 1,000 kilometers, crossing four countries, only to realize that she was going in the wrong direction.
The others followed the navigation and drove the car into the lake and the sea, only to realize that they were going the wrong way.
Although these things that happen to different people in different countries and people are ridiculous and incredible, it is thought-provoking that in life, too many people are like this, they have no purpose and conscious action, and they are used to blindly following others and the general environment to move forward, and never know that they have lost their way without hitting the south wall.When they are young, many people mistakenly think that it is okay to have no goals in life, because at that time, there are still endless things to do, and they are pushed away by all kinds of fame, fortune and desires, thinking that they can live a good life with fantasy.
I thought that this kind of life would be easier and easier, but in fact, such a life will only get more and more tired.
Walking and walking, some people find that they have changed, some people encounter setbacks and find that they have been living a life of carving boats and seeking swords, without noticing that the environment has changed, and some people have reached middle age, or even old age, only to sigh where has the time gone?
A little more sober and a little less regretful is everyone's expectation for their own life.
However, this sobriety does not come for no reason, nor does it inherently exist in some people's brains.
Those who succeed must have a clear self-awareness after self-observation and self-reflection again and again.
Best-selling author Joshua Becker said:
"Don't go with the flow of life. Live deliberately and purposefully. I believe this is an important lesson that one can learn, and the sooner you learn it, the better. ”
After setting goals and plans for a year, I learned a truth:
Many people can't accomplish the goals they set at the beginning of the year because they simply couldn't do it.Why?
The reason for this is that many people don't really know what they want when they set goals, and the goals they set are just a sense of New Year's ritual.The so-called sense of ritual means that when the ritual is over, the feeling disappears, and the goal cannot be implemented into daily behavior.
When setting up a flag, if a person does not know what kind of person he wants to be, and does not know what he wants to do, such a flag will definitely fall and it will not be able to stand.
No one can afford to spend a year paying for the heat at the beginning of the year.
Everyone knows exactly what they can achieve at the moment they set their goals.
The goal is solid, or empty, whether it is wanted from the heart, or an empty slogan, whether it is achieved in daily behavior, or whether it is completed by beating chicken blood, we all know whether we know whether it is cold and warm.Those big, glossy goals from the outside world are not really what you really want in your heart.
What you need to set goals that can stand up is the ability to keep talking to yourself.
The purpose of this dialogue is to understand oneself, that is, to find one's original intention in the process of facing one's own heart, and to stick to it.
The good thing is that you can achieve this by keeping a diary, and countless facts have proven that it is not only simple, but also effective, and has unexpected effects for both successful people and people with physical and mental diseases.
All you need is a notebook, a pen, 15-30 minutes a day, and you keep writing, which will bring unexpected changes to your life.
Take action, in just 5 days, you can master a life-changing weapon.
There is such a point in Handwritten Life:Success is not a random outcome, there are clues to success.
A study of successful and influential people throughout history has found that they have one thing in common: successful people often keep diaries.
They usually love to write, take notes, and take the time to jot down ideas and ideas, as well as goals and desires.
Success is not a random behavior, but the result of a person's conscious behavior.
Live with purpose and will!
May 2024, we all walk on the road to success.