Li Xiang and I hesitated and struggled with the divorce for a year, and finally we both made up our minds to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau together to complete the formalities.
We had a good time, when we first got married, we were sweet and affectionate, I followed him wherever he went, and he would think that I couldn't think about it when he went on a business trip for two or three days.
There is no eternally fiery relationship, there is no eternally fresh marriage, time has worn away our passion and attachment, and there is constant friction in life because of all kinds of trivial things.
We who once wanted to hold the hand of our son and grow old with our son, finally felt that one day we were really tired to be together, people were tired, and our hearts were even more tired.
Love is unprincipled and reckless, but marriage needs to support each other and achieve each other. Li Xiang wants me to be a good wife and mother, and I have my own ambitions and ideals, and I am unwilling to shrink in the kitchen every day to wash my hands and make soup.
I want to start a business and make clothes, and I need capital. Li Xiang snorted coldly to show his sarcasm at me, he thought that I didn't have that ability, and it was wishful thinking to be whimsical without ability.
My mother-in-law has always looked down on me, and she has always stumbled me in all kinds of trivial matters, but now that she has found an opportunity, she sarcastically mocks me fiercely, and ridicules me more than her son.
I don't understand why Li Xiang is a career-oriented man, so he doesn't want to understand that I also have self-worth to realize. Is it because I am a woman, in the eyes of him and my mother-in-law, I should only be able to cook and do laundry for them?
My mother-in-law's dissatisfaction with me stemmed from her repeated urgings, and I always tactfully said that in a few more years, she extinguished her eagerness to hold her grandson immediately.
Before the wedding, my mother-in-law had already fantasized about holding her grandson, she didn't expect that I was not in a hurry to give birth, she was in a hurry for a long time, and she tried a lot of methods, but I was indifferent, and slowly hated me.
At first, Li Xiang's thoughts were the same as mine, we wanted to live a two-person world for two years, and we would plan for the children in the future.
But I was urged a lot by my mother-in-law, and he was a dutiful son, so he slowly quietly changed his position, and joined forces with his mother-in-law, and let me have a child with both soft and hard.
I explained all the reasoning, forced me to be anxious, and my temper was also released, and finally I got stiff, and I let go of the cruel words that I would not have children if I did not have a successful career.
Next, I planned to start a business, but Li Xiang and my mother-in-law did not support it, and took turns to laugh at me. Their ugly words mean nothing more than one meaning: Su slow, you can't do it, stop daydreaming, and when the time comes, failure will be a joke for others.
There is no turning back from the bow, and what I decide will definitely be done. Li Xiang doesn't support it, I naturally don't expect to get money from home, fortunately, I am not a love brain, whether it is before or after marriage, I insist on working and saving money reasonably, and I can come up with some funds when starting a business.
My savings alone are not enough, I borrowed some from a friend, and my mother-in-law knew that I had borrowed foreign debts and looked at me like a debt collector, and when she saw me, she said that how I tossed around outside had nothing to do with this family, and the family would not give me a penny.
I have deeply appreciated my mother-in-law's meanness and ruthlessness, and I never expected her to be merciful and help me. As for Li Xiang, I also have no hope for him, but the difference is that I feel more and more cold about him.
When I started my business, I was so busy every day that I couldn't finish working in the clothing store, let alone having time to go home and cook and do housework.
For this reason, Li Xiang and his mother-in-law complained even more. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and the early stage is basically burning money, and there is no return in the short term. When my debts were increasing day by day, my mother-in-law was a little panicked, afraid that I would be involved with Li Xiang.
My mother-in-law didn't do anything, she had already looked at me unpleasantly, let me have a child, and now I was tossing blindly, she was afraid that I would fail to start a business and be dragged back by debt, so she instigated Li Xiang to divorce me.
Since the daughter-in-law is disobedient, it is better to simply change to a satisfactory one.
And Li Xiang wavered after hesitating a few times, I sneered, the thin coldness of my mother-in-law's family made me have no nostalgia for this family.
After a year of procrastinating on the divorce, Li Xiang and I finally got the divorce certificate, and when we came out, it was obvious that we were both relieved.
I want to finally get rid of that kind of family and have the freedom to pursue my own life and dreams, and Li Xiang may finally stop having anything to do with me.
After the divorce, I cut off all contact with Li Xiang, he only belonged to the time and space in the past. I started a business in a muffled voice, no matter how hard it was, it didn't scare me away, once a woman has determination and motivation, she is not afraid of anything.
Three years have passed, and I have become a distributor of a best-selling brand, with two sales routes online and offline, and I have made some fame in this industry.
Finally, I got the life I wanted, and I also got a lover who knew each other, and now I am preparing for the wedding. My happiness is all on my face, everyone can feel it, and I don't know how many people envy me.
When my fiancé and I were shopping for wedding supplies in the mall, we met Li Xiang, who we hadn't seen for three years, and as expected, he already had a female companion by his side, and the woman next to him was holding a little girl who was more than a year old, and her belly was already slightly bulging.
His current situation was clear at a glance, they all met, and I couldn't pretend to be a stranger, so I smiled generously and said hello, introduced my fiancé to him, and wished him happiness now that he has a wife and a baby.
Li Xiang was a little surprised to see me, his gray eyes lit up when he saw me, and he didn't seem to expect that the woman who had tried everything to get rid of me was now so shining. I saw amazement in his eyes, but also remorse, and envy.
After a few words of greeting, I took my fiancé away, I never wanted to meet Li Xiang in my life. However, seeing his situation, I knew that I had made the right choice, otherwise it would be me who stood beside him with a belly in my hand and a person who had no job.
The next day, Li Xiang didn't know that he was going to my *** and poured bitter water on me, he married the good wife and mother that his mother found for him, but the first child is a daughter, and now he is working hard to fight for the second child, the second wife has no job, and the company is laying off employees, he is under great pressure, afraid that the second child is still a daughter, and he is afraid that his name will be in the layoff list.
In the end, Li Xiang bitterly told that he regretted that he had listened to his mother's words and divorced me, and that if it weren't for this, he would not have fallen into such an embarrassing situation.
I interrupted him: Li Xiang, don't mention the past. Now you have your family, and I have my life. Treat it as if we didn't meet that day, and don't bother me again.
I blocked that ** number. When I first got divorced, I also hated to think that one day when I counterattacked beautifully, Li Xiang would definitely regret it. When this day really came, I didn't get too excited, I just felt that the past was over, and cherishing the present was the most important thing.