I was picking out clothes for my daughter, and suddenly the doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, I saw that it was someone I was familiar with, my daughter's ex-boyfriend, the Wei Jin family.
As soon as I opened the door, my mother immediately greeted me: In-laws, count the days, Xiaoli is about to give birth. A woman giving birth to a child is a ghost door, Xiaojin is not at ease, we want to take Xiaoli back.
Knowing what they meant, I started to play dumb: Kid? What child?
His mother was anxious when she heard this: Wasn't Xiaoli pregnant last year? Count the days, and it's almost time to give birth.
I know that your in-laws blame us for not coming to see Xiaoli for half a year, haven't you been raising money for the bride price?
I smiled coldly: No need.
As soon as he heard me say this, the joy on his mother's face couldn't be stopped, and he said to his son: I'll just say that your mother-in-law won't ask for so many dowries, you still don't believe it, you have to treat her well in the future.
He turned to me again and said: In-laws, then call Xiaoli out, let the two young people go to get a certificate, and then the child can settle down.
I stared at them tightly and told them word by word: I said no, it doesn't mean that I don't accept the bride price, Xiaoli has a good partner, and someone will naturally give it when the time comes.
Actually, Xiaoli has no object, I said it on purpose.
After listening to my words, Wei Jin immediately jumped up: "What about the child."
Child? Where did the children come from? Don't slander our family. I rolled my eyes at the family and said, "Okay, let's get out of here as soon as possible, I still have to go out to buy engagement things for Xiaoli."
Wei Jin looked into the house vigorously, and really didn't see any pregnant women and children in the house, he grabbed his mother, and kept complaining: It's all your bad idea, now it's okay, the wife is gone, and the child is gone.
If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place. I slammed the door shut.
I am Sister Song, and I only have one daughter, Xiaoli, a year ago, I broke my heart for this daughter.
Xiaoli met Wei Jin from working in the provincial capital, Wei Jin is from the next province, their family is in the mountains, and the conditions are really bad.
Ever since I knew about Wei Jin's existence, I have always advised Xiaoli to break up as soon as possible.
I don't know if it's because she's rebellious, or if Wei Jin's mouth is too coaxing, the more I talk about it, the more she wants to be with him.
Because I didn't allow her to be with Wei Jin, she blamed me for refusing to contact me for half a year.
I was so heartbroken by her actions that I didn't object any more.
Soon she brought people home, said that she wanted to discuss marriage, and asked me how much the bride price was.
I want a bride price of 180,000 yuan, to be honest, this bride price is not high at all, it is average, but Wei Jin still frowned.
Before that, I was worried that my daughter would steal the household registration book to get the certificate, so I told her a tea talk, similar to the person who gives you money may not love you, but the person who doesn't give money must not love you.
With my salary, Xiaoli and I stood on the same front, and I also promised her that I would marry her back when she got married.
After learning that he wanted a bride price of 180,000 yuan, Wei Jin tentatively discussed with me: Auntie, our family's conditions are relatively poor, and we can't make up so much, do you think we can make it less?
I told him in no uncertain terms: no.
He looked embarrassed and only said that he would go home and discuss it with his parents.
But after they left, it was two months, and they never gave me any reply.
I always felt that they were playing with some bad idea, and I was worried that they would make it bad, and I repeatedly told my daughter not to get pregnant.
But after a thousand instructions, she still won the lottery, and when I knew it, she was already two months pregnant.
Knowing that she was pregnant, I immediately approached Veggin and asked him what he was going to do.
But he told me that the bride price I asked for was too high, and their family couldn't get it for a while, and it would take a while to raise money.
I think they are uneasy and kind, but Xiaoli doesn't listen to me, the initiative is not in my hands, and I can't do anything.
Finally, before leaving, Wei Jin asked me to take Xiaoli away, saying that I was afraid that I would not be able to take care of her who was pregnant, so I took her home without saying a word.
In a flash, the child in Xiaoli's belly was about to be 3 months old, but Wei Jin didn't say anything.
I deliberately called another ** and asked him, how is the bride price raised? He said it was a little bit close.
I guess he was going to drag it all the way until Xiaoli had a big belly, and until we took the initiative to come to the door.
I knew in my heart that I couldn't wait any longer, so I made a quick decision and took Xiaoli to the hospital, so that I could finally induce labor.
When she was almost physically and mentally recovered, I asked my cousins who were her age to ask her to play.
After going out to play a few times, Xiaoli was in a much better mood and met a few nice boys.
Seeing that Xiaoli got out of this incident, Wei Jin and his family came to the door and wanted to borrow Xiaoli to leave.
I sarcastically mocked them, and finally threatened them with anxiety: If I hear any rumors about Xiaoli, I will never let them go.
Looking at their backs as they left in a gloomy manner, I pursed my lips, scolded myself for a few words, and went to cook for Xiaoli by myself.
Si'an said: There is a saying that those who are opposed by their parents must not marry, their parents' experience is wider than yours, and they are easier to see the nature of others than you.
Wei Jin only asked twice from beginning to end if he could lower the bride price, and after getting a negative answer, he kept delaying until Xiaoli was pregnant, and even wanted to delay until Xiaoli gave birth, and then come directly to pick the fruit, which was clearly a calculation.
But fortunately, my mother was witty and decisively pulled to induce labor, otherwise she could only be led by the man's family, and she was married far away, so you can imagine how difficult it is to live after marriage.
Therefore, when it comes to getting married, girls must listen to their parents' opinions more and don't fall in love.