The blind date failed, the dish was difficult to swallow, and he left the scene
My name is Li Jun and I am 25 years old. Although I felt that I was still young, the elders in the family were always worried that I had not found a boyfriend at such an old age, and urged me to find a partner to marry as soon as possible.
Although I also want to find my other half as soon as possible, I can't forget my first boyfriend and that good memory. I know I can't dismiss the present and the future just because of past feelings, but I need time to ** myself and get ready for new feelings.
I hope that my family will understand me and support me in making decisions that are best for me.
The anxiety of my parents, like a warm sunshine, reminds me to get rid of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible. In order not to disappoint their love, I decided to accept a blind date. My blind date turned out to be a distant nephew of my aunt's family.
They told me that they all worked in a well-known company, that the young people were always energetic, and that the elders felt that we were a good match. They also wanted to take the opportunity to prove their intentions to my parents and start over.
So, I added his *** looking forward to getting along in the future.
At first, I just chatted with him on the web. Every time he sends a message, I think it's fun to communicate online. His demeanor and outlook on life gave people a positive feeling, which made me feel that I could get in touch with him further.
After all, contact is the beginning of any relationship. We talked for a week, and he offered to meet, and I agreed without hesitation. I didn't ask about the convenience of the meeting place, so he set his own location.
I came to the hotel he said as agreed, he was wearing a pair of black-framed glasses and a black suit, and the whole person's temperament gave me a very depressed feeling. I didn't expect him to bring his male colleague, but I didn't care.
He sat down and began to order, without asking me what I wanted to eat, he said to himself and nodded. He said he knew the gastronomy of this restaurant and I didn't say anything to take care of his face.
Later, he complimented me on how beautiful I was dressed today, asked me if I usually wore it the same way, and since then he has been commenting on what I am wearing with his male colleagues. He looked at me from head to toe, which made me feel very uncomfortable.
After that, he actually said that I was too thin, and if I was with him in the future, I must not skip meals for the sake of **, otherwise if I was not in good health, I would not be able to have children.
I was very surprised, I didn't expect him to say something like that. I thought it was just a meeting and talking, why did he talk so badly? I wonder if I've met the wrong blind date.
He always told his male colleague that if I married him, I would think he must have serious delusions. It's just a first meeting and acquaintance, how can we talk about marriage?
At that time, I felt that they were really self-righteous, we were just blind dates, not necessarily together. They talked to themselves for a long time, and the waiter came up with three dishes and said that the dishes were ready.
Then I looked at the dishes, and the blind date motioned for me to eat. I said that I was hungry for a long time and didn't want to move chopsticks, but the blind date and his colleagues didn't know about my discomfort, but they ate well.
They also said I wasn't hungry, so I said it earlier. What a waste to order an extra dish. They also asked the waiter to bring the box and put the dish in the box. He said that even if it was one person and one dish, this blind date experience really refreshed my three views.
I couldn't stand him anymore, so I got up and prepared to leave. However, the blind date told me that in order to go on a blind date with me, he deliberately delayed a day of earning money.
When I left, he was even willing to pay for my meals. I didn't expect a big man to get angry over a meal, and I didn't say I had to agree to be his girlfriend.
Faced with such a wonderful blind date, I decided to dump him for 200 yuan. This blind date experience made me understand that it is actually good to live alone. The right person for you will always show up, it's just a matter of time.
Blind dates are not an easy task, and once you meet a wonderful man, it may make you sick for a long time. Have you ever had this experience?