Life is divided into two, and love has encouragement and companionship, warmth and touching, but also has a rather dark side, which will unconsciously make one person lose another person and never get it back.
Love with burdens, feelings, can be roughly divided into three kinds, one is caused by external factors, one is a matter of personal opinion, and the other is a mechanical shouting of so-called natural slogans.
In fact, no matter which one it is, in the eyes of some people, the overall state can be described in one sentence, that is, both distressed and sad, no one will understand how helpless and afraid they are in the face of such "love".
This is just a moral hooligan in the name of love, regardless of the feelings of others, it is not true love, love is a kind of respect, although real love may not necessarily make people never afraid and painful, but it must be a kind of peace of mind, a kind of happiness. Instead of the following three distorted "love" looks.
01 Self-sacrificing "love" is more frightening than "indifference".
In reality, people with certain social experience and life experience can discover a common distorted love around you, which is called self-sacrificing love.
In fact, you find that although this person has done almost everything to you, you don't seem to have any big feelings, on the contrary, your heart is afraid, guilty, and even a little bored.
Some people's native family education is like this, a "eat" can be seen, the mouth of educating children is hello to me, but this truth they will not empathize, you yourself also want you to be good to me, in fact, such a family atmosphere will make children precocious, so that you have less common topics in time to be pitiful.
In the relationship, there is a self-sacrificing "love" of one party to one party, some people feel terrible and creepy, because feelings are not a person's shouting you, distorted love means that extreme things appear, the cost will be great, love is to go with the flow, rather than reluctantly pouring everything, so some people will choose to refuse.
02 "Love" regardless of return is more frightening than "indifference".
"Love" regardless of return, the literal consciousness seems to be quite generous, but in fact, it is extremely selfish, when a person or a thing pulls others together, then you must ask the other party's opinion.
"Love" regardless of return is too abrupt, many people can't accept it in their hearts, too abrupt, and it also violates human nature, anti-human things, some women and some men don't feel scared.
In the relationship, some people would rather start with "indifference", or end up like this, just like when they talk to some people about things, they will never be wrong to follow the rules, and neither party will be psychologically unbalanced.
Instead, like feelings, make a special case, in the eyes of some people, they like to think in the opposite direction of "love" regardless of return, and often they may hope to get a hundredfold and a thousand times more love.
03 The repeated "love" is more frightening than "indifference".
The repeated "love" looks like they are talking about each other and they seem to care about it, but in fact, most people have such a performance, especially in the relationship, they can't escape the reason for reminding the other party.
Just like in the relationship, the money exchange between men and women, when some people have no chance to get together, these have to be taken back and calculated step by step, which is the case, and another reason for emphasizing "love" many times is here.
People say that they are more willing to deal with strangers than acquaintances, and many people do this, think about it carefully, whether it saves a lot of trouble and does not complicate the problem.
Suddenly enthusiastic people, in the relationship, no one will dare to approach, for some people, it is better to be indifferent, a person is indifferent, on the contrary, it is also a kind of mutual respect and do not disturb, it is not that this person is bad, but has been facing the way of life, often such people, do things and be more neat, it is easier to understand what kind of person to meet in the relationship, so as to get closer.
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