The reason why young people are reluctant to get married reveals the choice forced by reality
Changes in the concept of marriage.
With the progress and development of society, young people also have a new understanding and view of the concept of marriage. On the one hand, the growing problem of marital integrity has made many young people begin to doubt and hesitate about marriage. In the past, it was used to describe flirting"Carrots"The term does not seem to meet the requirements of good faith in marriage. Betrayal and irresponsible behavior after marriage lead to the violation of personal rights and even the payment of cruel costs. One netizen said that he hoped to have a partner who would be with him for life, but could not guarantee that the other party could do the same. Therefore, in order to avoid these pains and problems, some young people choose not to get married in order to simplify their lives and reduce unnecessary risks.
Economic pressures. On the other hand, economic problems are also one of the main reasons why young people are reluctant to get married. Consumption and material pressures in today's society are more prominent than in the past. For some young people with average family conditions, in addition to bearing their own living expenses, they also have to add additional expenses to their married life. A lot of people think,"Poor couples mourn everything"This old adage still holds true today. Young people with ordinary jobs and relatively poor family conditions tend to be more worried about the burden of married life. One netizen sarcastically said:"Rich people are called unions, ordinary people are called marriages, what is a poor person like me? Based on the pursuit of quality of life and concerns about financial pressure, some young people choose not to get married in order to reduce the financial burden of life and make their young life more comfortable.
Hanging in the balance. In today's rapidly developing society and increasingly fierce competition, it is becoming more and more difficult for ordinary young people to occupy a place in society. Faced with real-life issues such as work, housing, and income, young people will naturally have many doubts about their future marriage. They may feel that their life problems have not been resolved, and it is difficult for them to bear to have their partner and children face difficulties together. One netizen's comment was incisive, saying that a pair of hands carrying cement represents life, while a child's hands represent the future. He said that if he wanted to live such a life to support his family, he would rather have no family and no children. These sincere words express the confusion and helplessness of many young people about real life.
Personal habits and a sense of responsibility.
There are also young people who do not have the awareness or preference to care for others because they were overly cared for when they were growing up. In marriage, they are more inclined to be the only ones to be cared for than to take on the responsibility of caring for others. Although this mentality may be a little selfish, at least it will not be deliberately hidden to hurt the other person. They directly expressed their desire to be taken care of in their marriage. In general, the reasons for the reluctance of young people to marry mainly focus on moral values, economic pressures and personal habits. The first two problems are the result of changes in the overall social environment, while individual habits are influenced by a variety of factors such as the family environment and parenting style. However, it is believed that there will always be someone who is willing to give for him, and the future will be better.
Conclusion. In today's society, the reluctance of young people to marry is becoming more and more common. As stated in the article, the reasons for this phenomenon are related to the evolution of the concept of marriage, economic pressures and personal habits. These problems are the result of changes and challenges brought about by social development and progress. The risks and responsibilities of marriage seem to be becoming more important than in the past. And the economic pressure in real life is even heavier, leaving young people to struggle for their own survival and development. In addition, the formation of personal education and values can also have an impact on an individual's attitude towards marriage. But no matter what, marriage and family are still an important part of personal growth and happiness. We hope that by facing up to the reality and advocating a healthy outlook on marriage and love, we can create a better environment for young people to love and love, so that they dare to love, are willing to love, and find their own happiness.