My cousin is a leader in the system and has given me 10 career experiences
1. No matter how good a friend is, if you work in a unit, the friendship will break up after a long time.
2. In a unit, anyone's family affairs and privacy are not secrets, as long as one knows, everyone else knows.
3. If others come to work late and leave early, you don't have to say something to the leader, but you have to write a fake note to the leader for approval and signature, perform the normal leave procedures, don't be envious, don't be curious, the relationship between people is complicated, and you never know what kind of hole cards others have behind them.
4. As you get older, you can slowly reduce some unnecessary meals and gatherings, purify your circle, and eat with masked people who don't show their real faces when they are acting on the scene, and they are physically and mentally exhausted, so it is better to enjoy loneliness.
5. There are fewer and fewer so-called friends, and there are only one or two really reliable ones, which is a good phenomenon, and one or two real friends are enough.
6. Don't get together, don't gossip, don't chew the root of your tongue at work, say less and do more, do your own thing, and strive not to do other people's gossip after dinner.
7. If you want to contact your colleagues and invite you to dinner, if someone doesn't come or your face is embarrassed, don't invite it again, it's not a circle, you don't have to be strong.
8. If your leader always praises people with a smile, but often makes his subordinates suffer and can't say it, there is no doubt that such a person is either a smiling tiger or is good at killing, so you should stay away.
9. Go to work on time, leave when you arrive, look down on the relationship between false names and colleagues, and the essence of work is to exchange labor for remuneration.
10. Everyone works together to earn money, no anxiety, no inferiority, no stage fright, no need to imagine others to be too strong and perfect, just hold your head high and be happy.