In the relationship between the sexes, the love between men and women is full of possessiveness, when a man's love for a woman is expressed too much, he is often full of possessiveness, he is always entangled with a woman, and he is full of too strong desire to control a relationship.
True love, should give the other party a certain degree of freedom, rather than imposing their own thoughts and emotions on another person, love is always full of too many challenges and crises, when a man really understands what love is, he can face the relationship more calmly.
01: Possessive.
True love is not about possession, but about giving the other person relative freedom.
In "Under the Brocade", when Yuan was pursued by Xie Xiao this summer, his various behaviors made Yuan Jinxia very suffocated. When Yuan Jinxia and Lu Yi got very close, he said that the other party was not good, and he was targeted at him everywhere, and the behavior he expressed was not the way Yuan Jinxia liked it at all, and his love for Yuan Jinxia was just a kind of possession.
No matter how entangled a man is with a woman, the premise is that the woman loves him or not, if the man is just over-occupied, then the relationship will not go very far.
02: Control.
In the emotional relationship, men and women are more like partners, in the relationship, everyone has their own temper, it is impossible to be all-encompassing, men should think from each other's point of view, and women too. Men can't wishfully think that their entanglement is to grasp the other party's **, but should make the other party feel trusted on the basis of understanding and empathy.
I once heard a story:
The man is very talented and has done a lot of things for the woman he loves, but he only doesn't understand the woman's mind, the woman goes there, the man always follows secretly, and when the woman directly refuses, he can't stand the blow and hurts himself with violence.
Love is also like a pool, when the water is full, it overflows, and when love is full, it hurts, men's entanglements should be stopped in moderation, don't get lost and hurt in love for the so-called control of the relationship, but also know how to love and really impress each other.
03: Freshness.
Men entangle women, more satisfaction with freshness, and most of the love they can't get is just not full of freshness. When the woman nods easily, the man will feel that the relationship is easily handled, but it is just to satisfy the freshness of the heart.
When love enters marriage, the freshness of two people will disappear, the freshness is only temporary, people do not rely on freshness to maintain marriage, more men's freshness is only temporary, when that feeling is replaced by other women, this love will also disappear.
Men are mostly rational, when he doesn't pay for you, women must be sensible, all uninvested feelings, will eventually fail, women should not be moved by men's infatuation, but to see the motive behind his behavior, is love, or possession and vanity, in the emotion, stay sober and rational.