The most complex theme in life is always feelings. The well-known host Dou Wentao has a smooth career, but it is difficult to hide the twists and turns in his private life.
What kind of emotional ups and downs has this person known as the "love saint of the entertainment industry" experienced? What is the story that lies deep in his heart?
Eighteen-year-old Dou Wentao was admitted to the journalism department of Wuhan University after taking the college entrance examination, and as a child of an ordinary working family, being able to enter this nationally renowned university was the first success in his life.
He spent four years in college concentrating on journalism and participating in club activities to hone his eloquence.
At the time of graduation, China's television industry was booming, so Dou Wentao resolutely decided to go south to Guangdong, joined Guangdong TV, and began his TV career.
In the early days of Guangdong TV, Dou Wentao started his TV industry career from ** programs, and deeply felt the challenges brought by live broadcasts.
He has developed extensive experience hosting a wide range of programming including entertainment information, children's programming and news commentary.
During this time, he also served as the editorial director of a newspaper and gained insight into the news production process. Although his career seems to be developing smoothly, Dou Wentao still has infinite expectations for news hosting.
29-year-old Dou Wentao is on the rise in his career, and he already has a certain degree of popularity in Guangdong Taiwan.
In the same year, he received an important ** from the director of the station who informed him that a new TV station in Hong Kong was recruiting talents, and asked if he would like to give it a try.
With his keen instinct as a journalist, Dou Wentao did not hesitate to choose to go to Hong Kong for development, and quickly joined the newly established Phoenix Satellite TV after arriving.
Although he was not very familiar with the local environment, he quickly became the backbone of the station with his solid professionalism.
After Dou Wentao joined Phoenix Satellite TV, he has hosted many programs. Initially, he hosted entertainment and information programs, and then switched to hosting a number of current affairs commentary programs.
In the process of cooperating with Lu Yu, Xu Gehui and other colleagues, he has accumulated valuable experience and his career has reached a new peak.
He has done a particularly good job hosting well-known shows such as "Sonorous Threesome", making him one of the most popular presenters of the new generation, and his radiant face on the TV screen has become a household name.
From an unknown young man in a small cabin to now, Dou Wentao has written his own legendary story with youth, wisdom and sweat.
Despite the hardships of his journey to fame, he never gave up on his dreams and eventually achieved brilliant results, which inspired many later generations to continue to pursue their dreams.
Spring is full of greenery on the campus of Wuhan University, colorful butterflies are flying outside the window, and 18-year-old Dou Wentao ushered in his first spring at Wuhan University.
The boy, who had just left home, was curious about everything and couldn't wait to start his youth in this strange city.
That morning, after finishing his morning run on the playground as usual, Dou Wentao passed by the downstairs of a girls' dormitory.
The dappled light and shadow cast by the foliage caught his eye, and a long-haired girl was squatting in the shade of a tree teasing a kitten, with a gentle smile on her face.
Dou Wentao couldn't help but take a few more looks, and his heart moved. So he plucked up the courage to come forward and talk. Soon, the two became acquainted. It turns out that she is also a freshman, and she usually likes to tease cats on campus.
The girl has a lively and cheerful temperament, which always makes Dou Wentao happy, and the two hit it off at first sight and soon wrote a chapter of love. In order to make the girl happy, Dou Wentao traveled 40 hours by plane to bring back a kitten from his hometown and give it to her.
The girl happily named the kitten "Dudu" and held it every day, reluctant to put it down. In this way, she and Kitten start a sweet school date.
Then, the girls also visited Dou Wentao's dormitory with great interest and enjoyed supper together. And Dou Wentao often waited downstairs in the girls' dormitory and went to self-study with her.
In this relationship, the ups and downs of youth are tried. However, the good times did not last long, and the girl's family objected to their interprovincial love, forcing the girl to make a choice and decide to break up with him.
After the breakup, Dou Wentao suffered from loss and hid in the dormitory for a whole week and refused to go out. The phone is full of ** and chat records of the two of them, and every time he sees it, it makes his heart twist.
In order to get rid of the pain of falling out of love, he left Wuhan with his bags on his back and roamed without a destination. When the Spring Festival came, he chose to stay in the unfamiliar Changsha and spent a lonely year.
In the north wind of Changsha in winter, he wandered alone on the streets, feeling the bitter cold.
After the start of school, Dou Wentao would still often wander downstairs in the girls' dormitory, eager to catch a glimpse of her from afar. Whenever he woke up in the morning, he would have the illusion that the two were still together in a haze, reaching for his phone only to find that it was just a dream.
Many years have passed, but Dou Wentao still remembers that young first love, which shines with indelible brilliance in his memory.
Although this glorious moment was fleeting, it did bloom briefly on a sunny spring day, like a starry smile flashing in a girl's eye.
Although that light has disappeared, it shone in Dou Wentao's dull youth, and it also gave warmth in the coldest days of his life.
Three young people, Dou Wentao, Lu Yu and Xu Gehui, came to the unfamiliar city of Hong Kong with dreams to develop.
When they first arrived in Hong Kong, they lived in a simple and cramped rental house, working separately during the day and squeezing into a bed at night to keep warm.
Despite the hardships of life, the three of them cared for each other and supported each other through the most difficult days.
During this time, they walked hand in hand with each other, went to the supermarket to buy daily necessities, took turns cooking, and gave each other guidance and encouragement.
The three of them have similar interests and often get together to ** TV and gossip, just like a family.
Lu Yu and Xu Gehui regard Dou Wentao as their "male confidant", and they are very relaxed with each other, they talk freely, laugh heartily, and often joke to amuse each other.
The three friends often get together to talk about their ideal life, encouraging each other not to give up on their dreams.
To outsiders, the relationship between these three friends of the opposite sex seems to be a little ambiguous, but they all know very well in their hearts that they are just ordinary friends.
They are not love, but more like family members who care about each other. There is no jealousy between the trio, they just want to see each other succeed.
In Hong Kong, the three of them each pursue different goals, and Dou Wentao aspires to be a rigorous, steady, and warm host.
He has hosted many programs, from entertainment to public welfare programs. Initially, he was mainly in charge of some gossip entertainment programs, which was not his dream, but he worked hard to overcome the pressure and work hard.
He later had the opportunity to host a cultural and public welfare talk show, which was an important step towards realizing his dream. He began to host the talk show "Qiang Qiang Threesome", and became famous for a while and became a popular host in the spotlight.
He showed a calm and humorous hosting style that was loved by the audience in the show, but when his career reached its peak, Dou Wentao's love life was not satisfactory, and he had scandals with many actresses, and talked and laughed in front of the public, but in the end they all ended up without a problem.
He regards these actresses as trivial things at work, and the only thing that remains in his heart is the innocent and touching first love when he was young. That girl was now the best thing he could remember, a ray of light in his lonely heart.
For years, he couldn't forget her sweet smile and gentle voice. The farewell of that year made the young man's heart like a knife, and it is still difficult to let go.
At the same time, Xu Gehui gradually emerged in the entertainment industry, while Lu Yu chose to quit the entertainment industry and lived a peaceful life.
The three of them each embarked on different paths and drifted apart. However, the youthful years that once struggled together have become unforgettable memories in each other's lives.
When they meet again after many years, they sit down to share the heartwarming laughter of the past, and the simple friendship remains the same, even after the passage of time.
Dou Wentao's experience is thought-provoking. As a public figure, he has made great efforts to pursue career success, but he has also suffered from an over-preoccupation with his private life. Should one's emotional choices be judged?
How much speculation is true, that's the question. The road of life is full of unknowns, and only by experiencing it can we feel the complexity and struggle.
We should respect everyone's choices and look at the positive and negative sides of life with tolerance and understanding. In this way, we can pursue civilization and progress together.