Parents are willing to give their own efforts and energy for the growth of their children, and their selfless dedication is like peeling off a layer of their own skin. With the change of policy, we pay more attention to the growth of each child, because they are our future and hope. "
A 35-year-old female influencer became popular online because she was born in 1986 and gave birth to seven children. Although her appearance is not outstanding, the reason why she is in the spotlight is that she got married at the age of 21 and immediately began to have children, and has been in the family for 13 years now.
She has been called a "fertility machine", and her experience has led people to reflect on the importance of family and work. Although her lifestyle and values may be different, she is indeed a successful mother and homemaker.
Today, the female Internet celebrity's family of nine lives happily together. In the ** on the social platform, we can see that she feels that her children have grown up**, and she no longer has to work as hard as before.
The help of the older children has given her more time and space, and the pressure has been reduced a lot.
The five children of female Internet celebrities are ten years apart, and they seem to be much less stressed. It is speculated that the youngest child has already entered the early education class, and the eldest may also be 15 years old, so she became pregnant at the age of 19 and gave birth to the child at the age of 20.
But the legal age of marriage in my country is 20 years old, which means that this female Internet celebrity may have been pregnant while unmarried.
Choosing to have children at an age when they should be educated has a serious negative impact on adolescent development. Some people questioned why she had so many children, and her answer was that her husband had an extremely high IQ and she did not want to waste his excellent genes.
However, such reasons seem unconvincing.
Some people feel that she seems to live a very single life, and after more than ten years of marriage, there seems to be nothing else to do except have children. This way of life, which is completely dependent on her husband, can't help but make people think, if one day she is old and decrepit, she can't have any more children, and she is abandoned by her husband, what will she have left?
However, there are also people who see the superiority of her life from her **. The fact that so many children need a lot of financial support for their education and living expenses also shows that her family is in a very good situation.
There is a view that as long as you have the financial strength to provide quality education and medical resources, why can't you have more children? Especially in today's society, China's aging problem is serious, and the fertility rate continues to decline.
However, the damage to a woman's body after giving birth is well known, and the body needs to be restored after each childbirth, and frequent childbirth will undoubtedly bring irreversible physical damage to them, which may not manifest itself in the short term, but over time, various diseases may come to their door.
There are many stay-at-home mothers who choose to take care of their babies full-time in their marriage, and they think it is a natural choice. However, there are also many people who have reservations about their choice, believing that it is "too stupid" to behave.
After all, while their husbands' careers are progressing, they choose to devote their time and energy to raising their children, which inevitably causes some concerns for others. However, this concern is not unfounded, because in reality, there are more and more examples that show that stay-at-home mothers are indeed at risk of being abandoned by their husbands.
Because of her deep relationship with her husband and the family's financial allowability, she decided to have children according to her personal wishes. Although she chose the role of a stay-at-home mother to accompany her children's growth, there will always be people who envy and trouble her in different industries and stages of life.
Some people think that stay-at-home mom is the most dangerous profession, while others think that it is the happiest profession.
Every woman has her own life choices, some choose a career, some choose a family. Stay-at-home motherhood is a reassuring choice for women with strong family desires, even if they have already had seven children.
However, there are still many people who are resistant to having a second or third child, which may not be because the birth process is too painful, but because everyone has different values for family and career.
High housing prices discourage many salarymen. Under such financial pressure, the birth of a child is even more challenging. Once the child comes, we can't leave him homeless, we can't let him starve and freeze, we can't let him use shoddy supplies.
Parents expect their children to be taken care of in all aspects. In addition, the high cost of raising a child has become a fact in the eyes of many people. Milk powder, tuition, toys and early education alone are all significant expenses.
Many families have to spend most of their savings on their children, but some believe that financial resources and energy are indispensable factors in their children's growth. Once they have a child, they need to devote more time and energy to the child's upbringing.
The time that was originally used for fitness, travel, and reading must now be sacrificed for the sake of children's growth. Moreover, if children do not receive a good education, then their future may be even more bleak, because in today's society, there are fewer and fewer examples of children from poor families.
So, if we want our children to be exceptional, it's not enough to have ideas.