Who will accompany you for the Chinese New Year this year
Oops, it's New Year! Every family is busy with the Chinese New Year. Recently, this merger seems to be quite popular, but is it really suitable for us? Let's talk about this topic together!
First of all, it sounds like a good idea to merge for the New Year, after all, everyone can get together and have a good time. Imagine how happy it is for two families to get together and prepare New Year's goods, paste couplets, and make dumplings together! Plus, you can interact with each other, learn from each other's hometown customs, and maybe even discover some interesting tips!
But ah, then again, merging for the New Year is not that simple. Let's not talk about the differences between the north and the south in the New Year, after all, every family has its own small rules and habits. Merging two families together, there will inevitably be friction! For example, what if the habits are different? Will inconsistent work and rest cause conflicts? And the Chinese New Year is not a weekend, at least once it passes.
Three or four days, all of these have to be considered.
There are also household chores and family relationships that can be a big challenge. For example, who will cook and who will clean up the questions can be a joke if they are not handled well. Some friends will say that the juniors take the initiative to take the initiative, have you ever thought about what kind of chemistry the parents of both sides will have when they are not present for a few days face-to-face, and ah, in the face of visits from relatives and friends, how to balance the interests and feelings of the two families is also a big test. If it is not handled well, it may be easy for relatives to have conflicts with each other.
So, dear friends, if you really want to try to merge for the New Year, you have to think about it. It is necessary to fully consider the needs, habits and psychological expectations of all parties, so as to have a harmonious and happy Spring Festival.
In short, the merger of the New Year is like a family adventure! There are laughter, tears, challenges and gains. If you really want to give it a try, go for it! As long as everyone is happy and understands each other, I believe that all problems can be solved. Wishing you all a Happy New Year and all the best!